What is with this chick??

[SingleDoubt]

Okay, so i'm seeing this girl, we sorta started something a week or two ago and she's driving me insane. I mean, she's cool and all, but the thing is, i'll text her and ask her to hang out and sometimes she'll text me back and other times she wont. then at random times she'll text me and say "hey, so when are we hanging out again??" i'm actually supposed to be hanging out with her right now, but i havent heard from her since this afternoon

the weird thing is, we hooked up a bunch of times before, but now that we're in a "relationship" (i say that loosely) it's like she's almost avoiding me. even weirder than that is she went to a party last night, texted me saying "i wish you were here, i really wanna ...." and on top of that, her friend told me some guy was trying to hookup with her, but she told him no because she was seeing someone.

i'm completely confused and have no idea how to handle this situation, so my question for everyone in AP land: what the hell is up with this chick?!

[OldJersey]

Seems like the normal, playing hard to get girl to me.

[SingleDoubt]

yeah, i probably just suck at that game. but then again, i dont think ignoring messages and ditching dates is part of hard to get. unless she sucks at it too

[OldJersey]

Yeah we usually do, if ya hang in then its usually a good payoff.

[fake empire]

wait so what did she say she wanted to do with you in that text message

[Richard Maxim]

wait so what did she say she wanted to do with you in that text message

thats what i wanna know.

[OldJersey]

but then again, i dont think ignoring messages and ditching dates is part of hard to get. unless she sucks at it too

Haha I am pretty sure thats exactly what playing "hard to get" is about. People have their different ways.

[SingleDoubt]

wait so what did she say she wanted to do with you in that text message

"i wish you were here, i really want to fuck"

[Montauk1222]

Sounds like my exgirlfriend, good luck with that hope it ends up better

[heyxnightmarex]

yeah, sounds like my exgirlfriend too.

[bangarang182]

No offense bro, but you don't sound like your 21 (and if you are you need to fucking get your shit together sir). First off its obvious from the way you've described this chick that she is a TOTAL flake. She's the kind of girl that just dicks around and fucks with your head. Get over her and go after a real girl who isn't like a fucking puzzle box. It's the only deal with girls like this. Because I can almost gurantee you that if she is hooking up with you, she's hooking up with some other guy as well. Just saying... so bail while you can

[Kassie09]

That would piss me off too, I mean she obviously likes you but that would be annoying as fuck never knowing when plans are going to work and when they're going to fall through. Next time you DO actually hang out with her, ask her what's up..tell her you like her but she can't keep acting like that to you.

[wewascontenders]

you've ruled out cell phone problems i assume?

[swt_catastrophe]

you've ruled out cell phone problems i assume?
that's what i originally thought too

[thesafeword]

"Fuck this god damn connection... son of a bitch... fucking fuck fuck piece of shit"

Like in Superbad or something.

[thespearkid]

you've ruled out cell phone problems i assume?
Fucking this.

[HelpMeSleep]

that sounds like my ex when he and I were together. he was great when he was off at school and we'd talk all the time and then as soon as he came home, he got like that.

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

that sounds like my ex when he and I were together. he was great when he was off at school and we'd talk all the time and then as soon as he came home, he got like that.

So he was using you to pass time in school so he could get home and have better things to do? :u How very...6-year old male-esque.

[Chancetobe]

you've ruled out cell phone problems i assume?
That's what i was going to say. Because my phone now doesn't get like half the messages sent to it.

[HelpMeSleep]

So he was using you to pass time in school so he could get home and have better things to do? :u How very...6-year old male-esque.
not really. I mean, he'd go out and drink and to parties with his friends and he'd still text me the whole time and we'd stay up and talk all night every night. and he was in san diego which is much less boring than it is here. really, he was just better in a long distance relationship than he was in a normal one.

[You Vandal]

No offense bro, but you don't sound like your 21 (and if you are you need to fucking get your shit together sir). First off its obvious from the way you've described this chick that she is a TOTAL flake. She's the kind of girl that just dicks around and fucks with your head. Get over her and go after a real girl who isn't like a fucking puzzle box. It's the only deal with girls like this. Because I can almost gurantee you that if she is hooking up with you, she's hooking up with some other guy as well. Just saying... so bail while you can
Haha @ "fucking puzzle box."

[scmaley]

Next time you want to hang out with her, try calling instead of texting.

[You Vandal]

I hate women like this. Just move on.

[brentkid]

Sort of going through the same thing but it's gotten better since I started throwing the same bullshit she was pulling with me. From what I've experienced, girls get bored if you try too hard right away. Most people like a little bit of a chase - it makes things a little more exciting. Just don't always be the one to make plans or get in touch. She should come around if she is in fact trying to play hard to get / not rush into things too quickly.

[Montauk1222]

She's probably fucking other guys.

[acfrue]

next time you see her you should stick it in her caboose, if she wants to or not.

[tommy's ghost]

Next time you want to hang out with her, try calling instead of texting.

Exactly. I despise talking over the phone, but if you really want to spend time with a girl, a call means a lot more than "hey what r u gonna do 2day".

[HelpMeSleep]

Sort of going through the same thing but it's gotten better since I started throwing the same bullshit she was pulling with me. From what I've experienced, girls get bored if you try too hard right away. Most people like a little bit of a chase - it makes things a little more exciting. Just don't always be the one to make plans or get in touch. She should come around if she is in fact trying to play hard to get / not rush into things too quickly.
that's worked for me on guys too.

Exactly. I despise talking over the phone, but if you really want to spend time with a girl, a call means a lot more than "hey what r u gonna do 2day".
I do too. hate calling people.

[Burning Star IV]

Bitches be bat shit crazy.

[HelpMeSleep]

lol batshit crazy.

[Heart-A-Tact]

This shit is unnecessary. Can't stand it when people do this.

[kaycey]

she seems to be very accomplished in hide and seek.

[the1]

Maddie is that you??

[fadedmemories]

"i wish you were here, i really want to fuck"
This.

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

not really. I mean, he'd go out and drink and to parties with his friends and he'd still text me the whole time and we'd stay up and talk all night every night. and he was in san diego which is much less boring than it is here. really, he was just better in a long distance relationship than he was in a normal one.

The lad was juggling everything in his life. I respect the man.

[HelpMeSleep]

The lad was juggling everything in his life. I respect the man.
haha, what?

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

haha, what?

Partying hard is hard work as it is. Having a girlfriend oh-so far away just worsens things and becomes another dagger to juggle. The unicycle under your butt would be the fact that you missed her.

[HelpMeSleep]

Partying hard is hard work as it is. Having a girlfriend oh-so far away just worsens things and becomes another dagger to juggle. The unicycle under your butt would be the fact that you missed her.
lol got it.

is your user title from twilight?

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

is your user title from twilight?

Don't switch a cassette with a faucet.

If it resembles anything from Twilight, it wasn't on purpose for I despise that now-commercial Vampire fetish of Stephanie's. >:

[HelpMeSleep]

Don't switch a cassette with a faucet.

If it resembles anything from Twilight, it wasn't on purpose for I despise that now-commercial Vampire fetish of Stephanie's. >:
alrighty, no twilight. just resembles a quote from it my sister says a lot.

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

alrighty, no twilight. just resembles a quote from it my sister says a lot.

You've got me curious.

[HelpMeSleep]

You've got me curious.
haha. I'm pretty sure the quote was your exact user title!

[Juniper Skies]

Yeah, definately seems like she is insane.

Maybe she likes the idea of being attached, but she is so insane that she doesn't know how to act like a proper human being?

You should call her instead of playing cat and mouse and ask her what the deal is.

Maybe she's busy.

But I stick to my early thought.

[Hermux-Tantamoq]

haha. I'm pretty sure the quote was your exact user title!

Co-incidence, co-incidence. :U

[framebyframe]

Sounds doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, but wants to make sure you stick around. Hence the texts every so often to reassure you that she still likes you.

[TheByrus]

quit being a pussy and confront her

[Willy McFurgle]

You need to go to her house, stand outside of her window with a boombox over your head blasting Nsync....

http://www.edwindecker.com/images/boombox.jpg

Works every time

[HelpMeSleep]

aw say anything. :-)

[secretcrowds.]

Okay, so i'm seeing this girl, we sorta started something a week or two ago and she's driving me insane. I mean, she's cool and all, but the thing is, i'll text her and ask her to hang out and sometimes she'll text me back and other times she wont. then at random times she'll text me and say "hey, so when are we hanging out again??" i'm actually supposed to be hanging out with her right now, but i havent heard from her since this afternoon

the weird thing is, we hooked up a bunch of times before, but now that we're in a "relationship" (i say that loosely) it's like she's almost avoiding me. even weirder than that is she went to a party last night, texted me saying "i wish you were here, i really wanna ...." and on top of that, her friend told me some guy was trying to hookup with her, but she told him no because she was seeing someone.

i'm completely confused and have no idea how to handle this situation, so my question for everyone in AP land: what the hell is up with this chick?!

give her a call you idiot.