View Full Version : Gah; I need advice; x.x
missycrissy
01/12/09, 08:44 AM
I have this friend that wants to go to Mesquite, where my guy friends live, with me, but she wants to go just to party and get laid. I mean that's not bad, but when I have been at the apartment maybe twice so it is not good. Also I like to keep that place to myself. I am not selfish really because I would be willing to take any of my other friends because they would go to chill and maybe party, if the option is open. I go to Mesquite to chill with friends and not to just party and stuff. I would be extremely embarrassed if she went and did any of them because she is one of the only friends that I have that would go up there just to do them and it would make my friends, well the only chick friends I have, look like sluts. x.x Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace, which I freaked when she did. I know it's not a popularity contest, but I'm worried that I will be stuck in the background while she is there too. Oh and speaking of the adding people thing, well there's this one guy I am kinda crushing on, a guy I cuddled with last time I was there, and she added him on myspace and I asked why and she told me because he is cute. D: She has got to be kidding me! She even knows that I am kind of crushing on him. Anyways, that ticked me off. Now she's talking to one of the guys and he says its ok if she comes, but he probably wants to get laid and I do not want that to happen so if she wants to go she can get another ride...
What do you think about the whole situation?
DX
Heart-A-Tact
01/12/09, 08:47 AM
My eyesight is worse for having tried to read that.
missycrissy
01/12/09, 08:50 AM
Wow, I fail... x.x I had to type the whole thing so that its the whoel story. x.x I jus tried to sum it up, but there is not a way to do it without leaving any part out.
SomedayTheFire
01/12/09, 08:51 AM
Slap her
Or tell her to not go down. Or both
carlsonz
01/12/09, 08:55 AM
Have you tried hitting her?
Heart-A-Tact
01/12/09, 08:55 AM
"Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace,"
Is this "Mesquite" a colony of some sort?
robat19
01/12/09, 09:07 AM
I didn't read all that, but I'd consider anal.
Viva Sonata
01/12/09, 09:10 AM
Anal: PL's panacea.
chronomic
01/12/09, 09:26 AM
"Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace,"
Is this "Mesquite" a colony of some sort?
i think she's just misspelling a sauce name
Just let your friend be a slut. She'll come to realization sooner or later.
new_arbiter
01/12/09, 10:00 AM
Beat her at her own game and fuck the people of "Mesquite" before she does.
argg_xo
01/12/09, 10:12 AM
how about you don't tell your friend when you're going to BBQ saucetown, what she doesn't know won't kill her :shrug:
and i agree with the above post, just tell her she is a slut and desperate.
4N6 science
01/12/09, 10:24 AM
tl;dr
having copious amounts of butt sex always solves life's problems.
missycrissy
01/12/09, 10:40 AM
how about you don't tell your friend when you're going to BBQ saucetown, what she doesn't know won't kill her :shrug:
and i agree with the above post, just tell her she is a slut and desperate.
That's what I thought, but she talks to someone from there so I can't sneak it.
Also Mesquite is a town around Dallas. Not a BBQ sauce. LOL.
Heart-A-Tact
01/12/09, 10:43 AM
That's what I thought, but she talks to someone from there so I can't sneak it.
Also Mesquite is a town around Dallas. Not a BBQ sauce. LOL.
Well, that is a damn lie.
Roboman
01/12/09, 10:47 AM
My advice is that you need to learn the concept of brevity/conciseness. It also sounds like you need to develop things with this crush more. And yes, your "friend" is a slut.
MarsEatWorld
01/12/09, 11:55 AM
tldr.
argg_xo
01/12/09, 12:40 PM
Well, that is a damn lie.
lol.
That's what I thought, but she talks to someone from there so I can't sneak it.
Also Mesquite is a town around Dallas. Not a BBQ sauce. LOL.
well, she's a ho fo sho.
and mesquite is a flavor of BBQ sauce.
EDIT: girls are naturally bitchy like your friend, get over it because this won't be the last time something like this happens.
missycrissy
01/12/09, 12:55 PM
lol.
well, she's a ho fo sho.
and mesquite is a flavor of BBQ sauce.
EDIT: girls are naturally bitchy like your friend, get over it because this won't be the last time something like this happens.
I know girls are bitchy that's why my friends are made up of guys except like 3 chicks I have as friends.
more heart
01/12/09, 12:59 PM
Beat her at her own game and fuck the people of "Mesquite" before she does.
good idea
Fallinto_rhythm
01/12/09, 01:00 PM
what? I didn't get any of that. I really hope you're like 14 and lied about your age.
voncorn
01/12/09, 01:24 PM
I have this friend that wants to go to Mesquite, where my guy friends live, with me, but she wants to go just to party and get laid. I mean that's not bad, but when I have been at the apartment maybe twice so it is not good. Also I like to keep that place to myself. I am not selfish really because I would be willing to take any of my other friends because they would go to chill and maybe party, if the option is open. I go to Mesquite to chill with friends and not to just party and stuff. I would be extremely embarrassed if she went and did any of them because she is one of the only friends that I have that would go up there just to do them and it would make my friends, well the only chick friends I have, look like sluts. x.x Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace, which I freaked when she did. I know it's not a popularity contest, but I'm worried that I will be stuck in the background while she is there too. Oh and speaking of the adding people thing, well there's this one guy I am kinda crushing on, a guy I cuddled with last time I was there, and she added him on myspace and I asked why and she told me because he is cute. D: She has got to be kidding me! She even knows that I am kind of crushing on him. Anyways, that ticked me off. Now she's talking to one of the guys and he says its ok if she comes, but he probably wants to get laid and I do not want that to happen so if she wants to go she can get another ride...
What do you think about the whole situation?
DX
Your picture is cute. Come cuddle with me instead.
.invisible ink.
01/12/09, 02:48 PM
Mesquite is a shithole part of Texas (outside of Dallas). Don't go. Meet some guys to hook up with that live in Plano or someplace worthy of visiting.
alert=danger
01/12/09, 03:04 PM
how about you don't tell your friend when you're going to BBQ saucetown, what she doesn't know won't kill her :shrug:
and i agree with the above post, just tell her she is a slut and desperate.
BBQ Saucetown bit...
I laughed a lot at that.
Also tell your friend to kill some ducks, and then go and talk to J.Cook.
He'll set her straight.
bluecrunchy
01/12/09, 03:08 PM
tldk
missycrissy
01/12/09, 06:09 PM
Your picture is cute. Come cuddle with me instead.
Haha. You wish. :P
Mesquite is a shithole part of Texas (outside of Dallas). Don't go. Meet some guys to hook up with that live in Plano or someplace worthy of visiting.
All my friends are there and out of honesty I was not going to try and date any of them, but there are some now I would be willing to date that are not that bad.
Bingham88
01/12/09, 06:29 PM
My eyesight is worse for having tried to read that.
a freaking greed
swt_catastrophe
01/12/09, 07:15 PM
okay, so i tried reading that and then gave up and skimmed the rest [but, i did get through it]
don't pull the whole "i'm crushing on him" thing, and get mad at her for myspace friend-ing him
i mean, seriously? if you like him, go for it though.
and she sounds slutty. so i personally wouldn't bring her with- especially if you're worried about that guy and her.
also... i'm not buying that you're 18.
samsara
01/12/09, 07:22 PM
Go and hit her with a car
thesafeword
01/12/09, 09:26 PM
My maturity made me stop at Mesquite, because it sounds like skeet, which is sexual. Something tells me that it's not that important anyways, so oh well...
argg_xo
01/13/09, 05:02 AM
holy shit! my betsey johnson bag i ordered online is being shipped from mesquite, aka BBQ saucetown!
missycrissy
01/13/09, 08:19 AM
okay, so i tried reading that and then gave up and skimmed the rest [but, i did get through it]
don't pull the whole "i'm crushing on him" thing, and get mad at her for myspace friend-ing him
i mean, seriously? if you like him, go for it though.
and she sounds slutty. so i personally wouldn't bring her with- especially if you're worried about that guy and her.
also... i'm not buying that you're 18.
Why do you not "buy" I'm 18?
holy shit! my betsey johnson bag i ordered online is being shipped from mesquite, aka BBQ saucetown!
So your bag is coming from BBQ town? Tell me if it smells like BBQ.
thespearkid
01/13/09, 09:54 AM
tl;dr
Just do what you feel like??
No wonder I don't give out much advice lol.
Maybe you should smack the bitch up?
argg_xo
01/13/09, 04:36 PM
Why do you not "buy" I'm 18?
So your bag is coming from BBQ town? Tell me if it smells like BBQ.
yes, i have clearly stated my bag is coming from BBQ saucetown.
it better not smell like any flavor of BBQ sauce, or i'm blaming you for sabotaging my purse.
tl;dr
Is "Mesquite" pronounced "Muh-skeet"? As in "all of my guy friends skeet everywhere?"
missycrissy
01/13/09, 07:18 PM
tl;dr
Is "Mesquite" pronounced "Muh-skeet"? As in "all of my guy friends skeet everywhere?"
Yeah, it is pronounced like that.
fulltiltxb00gie
01/13/09, 07:57 PM
tl;dr
having copious amounts of butt sex always solves life's problems.
this.
concretedetail
01/14/09, 02:23 AM
you make me embarrassed to live in DFW.
Juniper Skies
01/14/09, 06:20 AM
I have this friend that wants to go to Mesquite, where my guy friends live, with me, but she wants to go just to party and get laid. I mean that's not bad, but when I have been at the apartment maybe twice so it is not good. Also I like to keep that place to myself. I am not selfish really because I would be willing to take any of my other friends because they would go to chill and maybe party, if the option is open. I go to Mesquite to chill with friends and not to just party and stuff. I would be extremely embarrassed if she went and did any of them because she is one of the only friends that I have that would go up there just to do them and it would make my friends, well the only chick friends I have, look like sluts. x.x Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace, which I freaked when she did. I know it's not a popularity contest, but I'm worried that I will be stuck in the background while she is there too. Oh and speaking of the adding people thing, well there's this one guy I am kinda crushing on, a guy I cuddled with last time I was there, and she added him on myspace and I asked why and she told me because he is cute. D: She has got to be kidding me! She even knows that I am kind of crushing on him. Anyways, that ticked me off. Now she's talking to one of the guys and he says its ok if she comes, but he probably wants to get laid and I do not want that to happen so if she wants to go she can get another ride...
What do you think about the whole situation?
DX
Whoa, that was pretty tough to digest.
Female friends are great when you aren't attracted to the same guy... then the claws come out.
If the guys are your friends first, you shouldn't have to bring a friend along if you are comfortable enough with them. If she wants to get laid, she can get shit faced and then go clubbing.
Err... excuse if I didn't get a single thing of your post right. I couldn't quite understand it.
Juniper Skies
01/14/09, 06:23 AM
And ample amounts of butt sex is great.
...until you get shit on.
:-d
Mxbaby511
01/14/09, 07:11 AM
tl;dr
But I think the majority says you should hit her..
And maybe with a car??
That would be stress releiving.
oface0315
01/14/09, 07:21 AM
"Just recently she tried to add the people of Mesquite from my myspace,"
Is this "Mesquite" a colony of some sort?
If by colony you mean something you put on chicken to give it more taste than yeah I think you're right.
showbiz
01/14/09, 08:15 AM
Great thread, would read again
missycrissy
01/14/09, 08:48 AM
Whoa, that was pretty tough to digest.
Female friends are great when you aren't attracted to the same guy... then the claws come out.
If the guys are your friends first, you shouldn't have to bring a friend along if you are comfortable enough with them. If she wants to get laid, she can get shit faced and then go clubbing.
Err... excuse if I didn't get a single thing of your post right. I couldn't quite understand it.
Well you got it all correct actually except you didn't help out on what I should do. haha. Oh well, I told her what I thought and she got defensive and decided to strike back to me, by calling me a hoe, even though all I said was what was on my mind. Oh well, friends come and go.
Juniper Skies
01/14/09, 09:21 AM
Oh I'm sorry to hear that.
Mmm it sucks to say but if you said your mind and she couldn't respect your honesty then it's not a worthwhile friend.
Even if a friend believes differently, she still should've respected your thoughts as a friend. :/
You will meet people who deserve your honesty.
missycrissy
01/14/09, 08:26 PM
Oh I'm sorry to hear that.
Mmm it sucks to say but if you said your mind and she couldn't respect your honesty then it's not a worthwhile friend.
Even if a friend believes differently, she still should've respected your thoughts as a friend. :/
You will meet people who deserve your honesty.
Thank you, that actually helped the way I was feeling about this whole "fight". I was feeling kind of guilty by telling her what I felt, but you are correct. Thank you again. C:
robat19
01/14/09, 09:00 PM
:-d :poke: :chainsaw: :badmood: :stick: :voodoo: :coke: :biggun:
Gumbyjag
01/15/09, 10:45 PM
she's a slut. let her fuck other dudes besides the one you like. tell that bitch where she belongs.
Kassie09
01/15/09, 10:49 PM
I just havent posted in this thread yet.
so i am.
not contributing anything.
just making my presence known
that is all
BJW7191
01/15/09, 11:44 PM
I just havent posted in this thread yet.
so i am.
not contributing anything.
just making my presence known
that is all
that was fucking fantastic
Juniper Skies
01/16/09, 11:48 AM
I just havent posted in this thread yet.
so i am.
not contributing anything.
just making my presence known
that is all
Wow... I seriously appreciate the compassion you possess.
And hunn (missychrissy), I'm glad you are feeling even a bit better.
I hope things go well with the guy you like.<3
missycrissy
01/19/09, 12:27 AM
I just havent posted in this thread yet.
so i am.
not contributing anything.
just making my presence known
that is all
Wow... I seriously appreciate the compassion you possess.
And hunn (missycrissy), I'm glad you are feeling even a bit better.
I hope things go well with the guy you like.<3
Thanks. :D I doubt anything is going to happen anyways. I don't know why I try, but thanks for your help again.
anthonydarko
01/19/09, 12:45 AM
Tell your friend to fuck off. Works every time and it never fails.
obligatory tl;dr and anal comments.
fadedmemories
01/19/09, 02:29 AM
THIS:
My eyesight is worse for having tried to read that.
BJW7191
01/19/09, 02:30 AM
all i know is, that dude you like... give him anal and hes yours
fadedmemories
01/19/09, 02:37 AM
all i know is, that dude you like... give him anal and hes yours
Truth.
remedyeli
01/19/09, 02:48 AM
threesome?
Holy shit I need to get some sleep
secretcrowds.
01/19/09, 05:55 AM
fuck that, go and get laid. get drunk, act like a dickhead, and have loadsa sex.
you'll regret it when your older if you dont.
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