Fucking in the Rain

[..: Loki :..]

Do you think sex is an important part of a healthy relationship? Or more or less can a relationship in this day and age can survive without sex?

[GhostsDaddy]

My relationship works just fine without sex. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and we've lived together for over half a year.

Sex is often an excuse that people use to stay together when there's no other reason to do so.

[Shoes]

Bit of both, gotta balance it out. Just being with the person you care about and not having to worry about anything is just as good as sex. Though sex is very, very good:thumbsup:

[Vanity__Dearest]

Bit of both, gotta balance it out. Just being with the person you care about and not having to worry about anything is just as good as sex. Though sex is very, very good:thumbsup:
oh, get your thumb out of here...idk where that's been. dirty girl.

[shermanology]

Sex is often an excuse that people use to stay together when there's no other reason to do so.
this guy speaks wise words. I believe sex can be a part of a healthy relationship, but it shouldnt be the basis of the entire thing.

[..: Loki :..]

this guy speaks wise words. I believe sex can be a part of a healthy relationship, but it shouldnt be the basis of the entire thing.
What if it was in the begining?

[Shoes]

I have a really hot girl nowadays Matt:) come on AIM in about 2 days and I will tell you all about it hoho!

[paen]

my last relationship started healthy, then things were getting bad between us and it seemed that if we faught, which became a lot, sex would end up pulling us back together, just keeping us at an OK spot till the next fight. i became sick of living like that and got out of the relationship. sex is fun and all, but dont let it consume you.

and to bring it more back into the title of the post, i hooked up with a girl in the rain the other night.

[b e L I E v e]

lemme get in a decent relationship first...then i'll tell you..

[..: Loki :..]

my last relationship started healthy, then things were getting bad between us and it seemed that if we faught, which became a lot, sex would end up pulling us back together, just keeping us at an OK spot till the next fight. i became sick of living like that and got out of the relationship. sex is fun and all, but dont let it consume you.

and to bring it more back into the title of the post, i hooked up with a girl in the rain the other night.
oh the title... we fucked in the rain and it was the best we've ever had. Water makes everything better

[burntheaction]

lemme get in a decent relationship first...then i'll tell you..same.

i'd like to be in a relationship where sex doesn't matter though; one where i don't feel pressured into anything.

[b e L I E v e]

same.

i'd like to be in a relationship where sex doesn't matter though; one where i don't feel pressured into anything.
good point...id like sex in a relationship...but not like...DROP DOWN AND GIVE ME 20...THEN FUCK ME....no, thats not how i would like it to be...lol

[paen]

we fucked in the rain and it was the best we've ever had. Water makes everything better
shower is good as well.

[usedsock182]

oh the title... we fucked in the rain and it was the best we've ever had. Water makes everything better

agreed

[theESCO]

My relationship works just fine without sex. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and we've lived together for over half a year.

Sex is often an excuse that people use to stay together when there's no other reason to do so.
are you sure your not gay?

[GhostsDaddy]

are you sure your not gay?
I get that a lot, actually.

It amuses me how often people in today's society assimilate morality with homosexuality.

I grew up in a family that taught me strong Catholic beliefs. I still have a few of those left.

My girlfriend grew up in a family with srong Methodist beliefs, but she all but rejected her religion, but she still feels that waiting is the right thing to do.

There aren't many of us left, really, but we all have our reasons. I've talked to so many people that have said, "I kinda wish I'd have waited," after they've found out that I am.

It's your own choice though, and I'm surely not going to pressure you either way. It's not my place to tell you where to stick your stuff.

[OveriseFan]

I get that a lot, actually.

It amuses me how often people in today's society assimilate morality with homosexuality.

I grew up in a family that taught me strong Catholic beliefs. I still have a few of those left.

My girlfriend grew up in a family with srong Methodist beliefs, but she all but rejected her religion, but she still feels that waiting is the right thing to do.

There aren't many of us left, really, but we all have our reasons. I've talked to so many people that have said, "I kinda wish I'd have waited," after they've found out that I am.

It's your own choice though, and I'm surely not going to pressure you either way. It's not my place to tell you where to stick your stuff.
The contrast in those two lines amused me.

Thank you.

And I agree.

[sleepygrlgreen]

Do you think sex is an important part of a healthy relationship? Or more or less can a relationship in this day and age can survive without sex?Sex definitely doesn't have to be part of a relationship in order for it to survive. Ya, it's nice, but not a necessity. Sometimes it just causes more problems.

[aolsux]

I get that a lot, actually.

It amuses me how often people in today's society assimilate morality with homosexuality.

I grew up in a family that taught me strong Catholic beliefs. I still have a few of those left.

My girlfriend grew up in a family with srong Methodist beliefs, but she all but rejected her religion, but she still feels that waiting is the right thing to do.

There aren't many of us left, really, but we all have our reasons. I've talked to so many people that have said, "I kinda wish I'd have waited," after they've found out that I am.

It's your own choice though, and I'm surely not going to pressure you either way. It's not my place to tell you where to stick your stuff.
***....hahaha, just kidding...your just like the first dude i've ever heard (that wasn't mormon) that isn't a sex fiend

[marrost]

You virgins don't know what you're missing.

[monkeyboy14]

It shouldn't dominate that basis of a relationship but sex is somewhat important to a healthy relationship.

[WalmartPhotoGuy]

What if it was in the begining?
Here's my opinion, if you have to ask people in an AP.net thread, you are ready for neither a serious relationship, or sex. But apparently you've already gone with the latter, so good luck with your "relationship."

[burntheaction]

Here's my opinion, if you have to ask people in an AP.net thread, you are ready for neither a serious relationship, or sex. But apparently you've already gone with the latter, so good luck with your "relationship."
hahahaha. wise, wise words.

[WalmartPhotoGuy]

hahahaha. wise, wise words.
I try. :dance:

[GhostsDaddy]

You virgins don't know what you're missing.
I'm pretty sure I'm just missing sex.

To me, it's the most physical way that you can share yourself with any one person. I don't understand how people can be okay with opening yourself up to be that intimate and personal with any one person without also having declared a sole emotional connection as well.

It's hard to explain my reasoning behind it, really. Basically, I think people are too flippant about the people with whom they'll sex. I wouldn't tell my deepest darkest secrets to someone that I know I can't trust the most, so why would I share my physical self with everyone?

[Juliet R Delta]

i don't think sex is everything. Isn't what really matters is that you're happy, you love, trust, and are honest with one another? Sex is just a physical act, for sure, important, with serious emotions behind it, but like anything else, it shouldn't dominate the relationship. keep it in perspective, and do whatever is right for you. thats how i want it to be in my relationships. :)

[kgood]

Sex is great don't get me wrong, but it should not be the entire basis for your relationship. My last relationship was exactly like this, believe it or not you will get sick of it. The sex was great but other than that nothing really going to have a decent relationship.

[marrost]

I'm pretty sure I'm just missing sex.

To me, it's the most physical way that you can share yourself with any one person. I don't understand how people can be okay with opening yourself up to be that intimate and personal with any one person without also having declared a sole emotional connection as well.

It's hard to explain my reasoning behind it, really. Basically, I think people are too flippant about the people with whom they'll sex. I wouldn't tell my deepest darkest secrets to someone that I know I can't trust the most, so why would I share my physical self with everyone?
That's because you haven't done it yet.

Just busting your balls man I'm not looking to start shit.

[blackliz]

I'm pretty sure I'm just missing sex.

To me, it's the most physical way that you can share yourself with any one person. I don't understand how people can be okay with opening yourself up to be that intimate and personal with any one person without also having declared a sole emotional connection as well.

It's hard to explain my reasoning behind it, really. Basically, I think people are too flippant about the people with whom they'll sex. I wouldn't tell my deepest darkest secrets to someone that I know I can't trust the most, so why would I share my physical self with everyone?
Yere i completely understand what your saying. But not everyone goes around fucking random ppl. I know, that before i did, i was with the guy for 9 months and don't do it often (even though that doesn't count). The guy i did it with, and i'm still with him take it very seriously aswell, and both of us didn't want to rush into it. It was just somthing we talked about and then one day we just sorta thought 'well we're not gonna break up anytime soon, and i love you so much, and we've expressed that we trust eachother so much in evry other way (unsexual), that it would just be something we used to say how much we love eachother and how much we trust eachother. What your saying is true, but i'm just not into the fact that u hav ta wait till your married to hav sex.

[GhostsDaddy]

That's because you haven't done it yet.

Just busting your balls man I'm not looking to start shit.
Hey, I know. I'm not saying "FUCK YOU YOU'RE WRONG DIE DIE DIE"

Just stating my limited opinion.

What your saying is true, but i'm just not into the fact that u hav ta wait till your married to hav sex.
I'm not saying that someone should have to wait until they're married to have sex. It's just that for me, I'm not going to physically commit myself to a person fully until I've completely committed myself to the person in all other ways. They really all happen at the same time, but having sex while saying your vows might not make for a good wedding.

[YourMusicSucks]

"Your virgins dont know what your missing."

I was dead-set on no sex until marriage until a girlfriend of mine kind of surprised me, not even joking around.

And it's deadly fucking true. You really are missing out.

Honestly, sex is one of the best things in life, if not the best. I see no reason that it shouldnt be practiced more openly and with less dogma attached.

It doesnt mean anything that people crack it up to, maybe it should, maybe it shouldnt. I find love in long conversations, doing fun best-friend-ish things. I find simple pleasure in sex, and that people need to lose the image of Love and Sex being hand-in-hand.

Kind of went off on a tangent, but a relationship can easily go on without sex, but both of the members will be missing something enjoyable.

[Juliet R Delta]

[QUOTE=YourMusicSucks
Honestly, sex is one of the best things in life, if not the best. I see no reason that it shouldnt be practiced more openly and with less dogma attached. [/QUOTE]
are you SURE you don't mean STIGMA??

I think its perfectly fine for couple to be abstinent, i actually admire it, but i don't believe that a relationship without sex is comparable to one with it. Just because sex is so emotionally and psychologically involved, if done for the right reasons it automatically deepens the relationship. you can't deny that.

[..: Loki :..]

Here's my opinion, if you have to ask people in an AP.net thread, you are ready for neither a serious relationship, or sex. But apparently you've already gone with the latter, so good luck with your "relationship."
It ended today 8 days away from 10 months. We were engaged and everything, but I fucked up and made a huge mistake and now we're no longer together.

I wasn't asking for advice, I was wondering what people's opinion was.

[GhostsDaddy]

You were engaged after 10 months? I hope you're not surprised it ended.

[..: Loki :..]

I proposed around 4-5 months, it's not her. Her mom hates me, she thinks I'm Satan,

[Tonberry]

wow; way to early to propose :shake: