Homosexuality Thread

[Kbm600]

Yeah so I searched the forum and was shocked to see that there was no homosexuality topic and decided to post one.

[kwsqd]

did it move?

[kwsqd]

No, I meant... "it"

[robat19]

We're bromosexual in the dildo thread.

[kwsqd]

...I don't want to know that.
haha I'm asking about you!

[Kbm600]

haha I'm asking about you!

Oh God, No. Haha. No movement.

[kwsqd]

hahaha that was a seinfeld reference

[Kbm600]

Sorry, my bad. I've never see seinfeld haha.

[sjb2k1]

No, I meant... "it"
hahahaha

[SomedayTheFire]

No, I meant... "it"
Hahahaha.

[4N6 science]

hahaha that was a seinfeld reference

Great reference there!!!

[11:11]

I want a lesbian friend to talk to more than anything in the world.

[Kbm600]

I want a lesbian friend to talk to more than anything in the world.

They're not that fantastic?

[11:11]

They're not that fantastic?
I wouldn't know. I just think it would be nice to talk to girl about ladies instead of talking to guys for a change.

[Kbm600]

I wouldn't know. I just think it would be nice to talk to girl about ladies instead of talking to guys for a change.

I have tons of friends that are girls and that are bisexual, it's really no different than talking to one of your guy friends about girls.

[11:11]

I have tons of friends that are girls and that are bisexual, it's really no different than talking to one of your guy friends about girls.
Now I feel a bit let down.

[Kbm600]

Now I feel a bit let down.

Haha, that's why you should never stereotype any form of homosexual person. Never turns out quite like you imagined.

[11:11]

Haha, that's why you should never stereotype any form of homosexual person. Never turns out quite like you imagined.
I have a gay friend, so I don't stereotype, but I just thought that girls would be more...sensitive than guys?

[Kbm600]

I have a gay friend, so I don't stereotype, but I just thought that girls would be more...sensitive than guys?

Oh you mean as far as talking about problems with girls and such with lesbians? Well, as far as my experience goes, it's the same way as if you talked to a straight girl about it. Not much difference, girls are more sensitive in general though. Regardless of sexuality.

[bluecrunchy]

This thread has the potential to be either highly entertaining or highly offensive. Or both.

[11:11]

Oh you mean as far as talking about problems with girls and such with lesbians? Well, as far as my experience goes, it's the same way as if you talked to a straight girl about it. Not much difference, girls are more sensitive in general though. Regardless of sexuality.
Yeah, those kinds of things. I guess I just hoped that they would have a different approach to problems I guess.

[Kbm600]

This thread has the potential to be either highly entertaining or highly offensive. Or both.

I'm hoping it won't be highly offensive.

[SomedayTheFire]

I'm hoping it won't be highly offensive.
This is PL, anything can happen don't forget.

surprised no one has said anal yet

[11:11]

This is PL, anything can happen don't forget.

surprised no one has said anal yet
Technically, you just did, haha.

[SomedayTheFire]

Technically, you just did, haha.
I am fully aware of that hahaha.

[MarsEatWorld]

oh god.

[Kbm600]

oh god.

Hahahahaha.

[thehereaway]

I have a lesbian mum!

...Yer its not as great as you think :-(

[raychull]

This is PL, anything can happen don't forget.

surprised no one has said anal yet

Anal.

[MarsEatWorld]

Hahahahaha.
Why does my boyfriend have to have gay guys grabbing his crotch everyday?

[mynameisX]

I had a friend I almost went lesbian with, but she's the only girl I've ever been attracted to like that.

[TheOtherAndrew]

did it move?
Got it right off the bat, well played.

[trappedintime]

Lesbians are no fun. You try to flirt with the girl lesbians and they act like they don't get what's going on.

The guy lesbians scare me

[Kbm600]

Lesbians are no fun. You try to flirt with the girl lesbians and they act like they don't get what's going on.

The guy lesbians scare me

Butch people frighten you? haha.

[TK]

Why not the Heterosexuality Thread for when heterosexual people hit on homosexual people?

[Kbm600]

Why not the Heterosexuality Thread for when heterosexual people hit on homosexual people?

Surely that can be grouped into here.

[SomedayTheFire]

Lesbians are no fun. You try to flirt with the girl lesbians and they act like they don't get what's going on.

The guy lesbians scare me

Straight guys scare you?

[Hyp]

I've bought drugs from this gay kid at my school....that's about it.

[trappedintime]

Straight guys scare you?

LOL No! The lesbians who act/dress like guys.

[trappedintime]

Butch people frighten you? haha.

I have no idea what a Butch is. For all other purposes, see above.

[SomedayTheFire]

LOL No! The lesbians who act/dress like guys.
So butch girls?

[fulltiltxb00gie]

I want a lesbian friend to talk to more than anything in the world.
want me to have my bi-ish/mostly lesbian friend add you on facebook?

[Charles777]

http://i104.photobucket.com/albums/m192/SarBear1121/To%20Meet/Ellen.jpg

[trappedintime]

want me to have my bi-ish/mostly lesbian friend add you on facebook?

No, but you can! ;-)
Just kidding, I don't even have facebook...

[TheByrus]

i have a question:

why do gays tend to act like the opposite sex when they are trying to attract the same sex.

[SomedayTheFire]

Question: Why do most (some) straight guys think all gays want to get in their pants?

i have a question:

why do gays tend to act like the opposite sex when they are trying to attract the same sex.

Not all do :shrug:

[andrew4045]

did it move?

lol

[themadsilentist]

I wouldn't know. I just think it would be nice to talk to girl about ladies instead of talking to guys for a change.

Haha, my guy friends get weirded out when I make comments about girls around them. Except my best friend, who has accepted the fact that if he's checking out a girl, I'm probably doing the same.

[about3fitty]

this thread is so gay



hehe get it?

[robat19]

i don't get it.

[SSLYBY]

Subscribing to this thread, No homo.

[Wildness774]

No, I meant... "it"


hahahahahah

[Heart-A-Tact]

Meeting with my school's first Straight/Gay Alliance club this coming Monday. Should be interesting.

[spansen]

i have nothing against gays.

and, i've been called cute by a gay friend and i was flattered. haha

[meglovee]

i have nothin against gays either...
actually i really appreciate all my gay guy friends because i can go places with them without thm freaking hitting on me

[.invisible ink.]

this thread is a let down. i was hoping it would be dirtier.

[mynameisX]

this thread is a let down. i was hoping it would be dirtier.

you could make it dirtier by quoting random people and saying smutty things to them......you just have to get creative!

[themadsilentist]

this thread is a let down. i was hoping it would be dirtier.

Your avatar makes me happy. I have been listening to that album nonstop lately.

[lovely864md]

I'm going to be locked in a room with a gay boy for 7 days starting Saturday.

[.invisible ink.]

you could make it dirtier by quoting random people and saying smutty things to them......you just have to get creative!

i'm a bit too sober to pull that off this evening. I'm much more tempted to post (slightly tasteful?) pictures of hot gay boys but i'm afraid of getting :banned: and the thread getting :locked:

Your avatar makes me happy. I have been listening to that album nonstop lately.

thanks! my avatar makes me happy too. Ready, Sex, Go! is one of my favorite albums of all time, it's awesome that there's so many fans of theirs, and Butch, on ap.

[bluecrunchy]

I get hit on by gay guys more often than women. I don't know whether I should be flattered or worried.

[.invisible ink.]

I get hit on by gay guys more often than women. I don't know whether I should be flattered or worried.

be flattered. i don't think most women will often go up to a guy and start flirting with him unless they've had too much to drink or they're really bold (read as: desperate). Obviously you must be attractive if other guys think so. Generally, most gay guys don't go for scrubs, at least not the ones i hang with.

[Kbm600]

I get hit on by gay guys more often than women. I don't know whether I should be flattered or worried.

I get hit on by more guys than most girls get hit on. It's insane. But half my school population is bisexual, so I guess that was to be expected.

[samsara]

Woot!...not the thread for me but I have plenty of gay friends and a lesbian aunt and some gay cousins.

[11:11]

Haha, my guy friends get weirded out when I make comments about girls around them. Except my best friend, who has accepted the fact that if he's checking out a girl, I'm probably doing the same.
I feel totally the opposite. I'd welcome it.

[11:11]

want me to have my bi-ish/mostly lesbian friend add you on facebook?
Hahaha, wouldn't that be kinda weird? Not that I'd mind, but...

[fulltiltxb00gie]

Hahaha, wouldn't that be kinda weird? Not that I'd mind, but...
haha probably a little. why do you want a lesbian friend..?

[11:11]

haha probably a little. why do you want a lesbian friend..?
Because I think it would be a lot easier for a more sensitive guy like me to talk to women about other women.

[themadsilentist]

Because I think it would be a lot easier for a more sensitive guy like me to talk to women about other women.

LOL just use that line and you'll probably get laid anyway.

[atticus1492]

Anal.

[11:11]

LOL just use that line and you'll probably get laid anyway.
At 16? Doubt it, haha.

[acfrue]

This threads gonna get locked!!!!

[acfrue]

this thread is so gay



hehe get it?

4IcRQssVllA

[fulltiltxb00gie]

Because I think it would be a lot easier for a more sensitive guy like me to talk to women about other women.
yeah..she's probably a tad too crude for you to talk to then. haha

[themadsilentist]

At 16? Doubt it, haha.

Hey, I dunno, depends on how much game ya got. But tapping into the whole "I'm sensitive and I feel more comfortable talking to women" deal is smart if you can still pull off coming across as a straight dude, so you're on the right track.

[about3fitty]

4IcRQssVllA

hahaha well played, my friend

[acfrue]

hahaha well played, my friend

:bow:

[robat19]

this thread needs moar gays.

[Charles777]

I wonder how many gay people are lurking in this thread, but are afraid to post.

:-p

[Charles777]

I'm going to be locked in a room with a gay boy for 7 days starting Saturday.
What do you mean by this exactly?

:-d

[acfrue]

I wonder how many gay people are lurking in this thread, but are afraid to post.

:-p

:lurking:???

[SomedayTheFire]

I wonder how many gay people are lurking in this thread, but are afraid to post.

:-p
Why would you think we would be afraid to post?

[lovely864md]

What do you mean by this exactly?

:-d

I am going on vacation with my gay best friend.

[concernedparent]

I am going on vacation with my gay best friend.
You're going on vacation to a locked room?

[acfrue]

I am going on vacation with my gay best friend.

I bet he's straight, he just wants you to think he's gay then when you guys are in the locked room together he'll jump ya, watch your back.

You're going on vacation to a locked room?

lol, that sounds sooooo fun.

[fadedmemories]

:lurking:

[11:11]

Hey, I dunno, depends on how much game ya got. But tapping into the whole "I'm sensitive and I feel more comfortable talking to women" deal is smart if you can still pull off coming across as a straight dude, so you're on the right track.
Well, I don't feel the need to get laid anyway, so I have time to practice.

[Charles777]

Why would you think we would be afraid to post?
Idk. I was.

:P

[SomedayTheFire]

Idk. I was.

:P
As soon as I saw this thread I was like 'I have to post' hahah

[Charles777]

As soon as I saw this thread I was like 'I have to post' hahah
I wanted to too, but I was a little hesitant because I don't usually talk about it.
lol

[Chris Fallon]

thanks! my avatar makes me happy too. Ready, Sex, Go! is one of my favorite albums of all time, it's awesome that there's so many fans of theirs, and Butch, on ap.
We're doing a feature here soon called AbsoluteClassics, where each staffer picks an album they think people should hear -- I chose Hey! Album, since Marvelous 3 is one of my favorite bands.

/random reminder

[themadsilentist]

We're doing a feature here soon called AbsoluteClassics, where each staffer picks an album they think people should hear -- I chose Hey! Album, since Marvelous 3 is one of my favorite bands.

/random reminder

That's really cool, major props for the M3 love. Be nice to see that on the front page.

[.invisible ink.]

We're doing a feature here soon called AbsoluteClassics, where each staffer picks an album they think people should hear -- I chose Hey! Album, since Marvelous 3 is one of my favorite bands.

/random reminder

that's awesome! I'm curious to see what other albums the staffers think are classics as well. I'm sure there will be a few that I haven't heard yet in that collection.

[lovely864md]

You're going on vacation to a locked room?

I may have exaggerated slightly.

I bet he's straight, he just wants you to think he's gay then when you guys are in the locked room together he'll jump ya, watch your back.



lol, that sounds sooooo fun.

Then he's verrry committed to the charade if you know what I mean.

[acfrue]

I may have exaggerated slightly.



Then he's verrry committed to the charade if you know what I mean.

yeah, i gotcha. ;-)

[QueenOfHearts]

I'd choose a girl over a guy EVERYDAY of the week
but girls are so damn complicated
:wallbash:

[trappedintime]

:hitself:

[live.]

Sorry, my bad. I've never see seinfeld haha.

Doh!

i have a question:

why do gays tend to act like the opposite sex when they are trying to attract the same sex.

guilty as charged. wait no, i thought that said why do guys act...fuck.

[kwsqd]

hahahaha
Hahahaha.
Great reference there!!!
Got it right off the bat, well played.
lol
hahahahahah

:bow:

[xica_sp4ever]

Yeah so I searched the forum and was shocked to see that there was no homosexuality topic and decided to post one. Ever had any stories about advances that you haven't wanted, or admissions if you'd like to let something off your chest about the subject...;-)

Personally, today was pretty weird as one of my gay friends decided he'd joke around me like he usually does (I'm generally comfortable around him), and he ended up kissing me (Like, quick to the point it had happened before I could push away). Felt pretty weird afterwards.

Anyone ever had this situation or problem. Or anyone else have stories?

it was all fun & games
til he stuck his tongue
down your throat.

[QueenOfHearts]

it was all fun & games
til he stuck his tongue
down your throat.

ahaha oh wow
nicely said

[SomedayTheFire]

it was all fun & games
til he stuck his tongue
down your throat.
Hahahaha wtf?

[Charles777]

I'd choose a girl over a guy EVERYDAY of the week
but girls are so damn complicated
:wallbash:
I would have to say that I like wang and vagina about equally.

[SomedayTheFire]

I would have to say that I like wang and vagina about equally.
To answer your user title: No they shouldn't.

[Charles777]

To answer your user title: No they shouldn't.
Ha ha, thanks

[SanePsychotic]

Why would you think we would be afraid to post?

I was thinking the same thing...

[Heart-A-Tact]

Doh!



guilty as charged. wait no, i thought that said why do guys act...fuck.

Hahaha, such a good avatar/user title.

[Charles777]

I was thinking the same thing...
Not many people I know would approve of my lifestyle if they knew, and I just assumed that some people on this site would be the same. I was pleasantly surprised though.


Just clearing up the "Why would we be afraid to post" thing, because that's why I was afraid to at first.

[SomedayTheFire]

I was thinking the same thing...
:shrug: I was perplexed when I read it hahaha
Not many people I know would approve of my lifestyle if they knew, and I just assumed that some people on this site would be the same. I was pleasantly surprised though.


Just clearing up the "Why would we be afraid to post" thing, because that's why I was afraid to at first.
Nah people on here are really cool, I used to be like that hahaha.

[Heart-A-Tact]

Went to my school's Straight/Gay Alliance meeting this morning. Surprisingly big turnout, which was pretty cool to see. I'd call it a success, being that it was the club's first meeting.

[Charles777]

Went to my school's Straight/Gay Alliance meeting this morning. Surprisingly big turnout, which was pretty cool to see. I'd call it a success, being that it was the club's first meeting.
I wish my school had one.

:P

[Heart-A-Tact]

I wish my school had one.

:P

Most colleges seem to have one, so, just hold out until then.

[QueenOfHearts]

Most colleges seem to have one, so, just hold out until then.

They had one at my old school then I moved to NC...they don't have one here...

[Heart-A-Tact]

They had one at my old school then I moved to NC...they don't have one here...

Lame.

[QueenOfHearts]

Lame.

Tell me about it. I'm ready to take my flag from home and hang it in the school.

[limepomegranate]

i like my lesbian friends they make me feel pretty [=
and my gay friends are really funny!
talking about sex is interesting!

[Charles777]

Indeed it is.

[viva la cymche!]

I can't stand lesbians. But I do not have a problem with gays.

[SanePsychotic]

I can't stand lesbians. But I do not have a problem with gays.

Ha, what's wrong with lesbians?

[TK]

Ha, what's wrong with lesbians?

Absolutely nothing.

[QueenOfHearts]

I can't stand lesbians. But I do not have a problem with gays.
And what's wrong with lesbians???

[TK]

And what's wrong with lesbians???

Absolutely nothing.

[QueenOfHearts]

Absolutely nothing.

damn skippy P:

[anthonydarko]

I actually would like to have a gay friend, I find talking to someone who is gay or a lesbian is actually very engaging and fun at the same time.

[Charles777]

I actually would like to have a gay friend, I find talking to someone who is gay or a lesbian is actually very engaging and fun at the same time.
Personally, I only know one other gay person, and she is extremely entertaining.

[QueenOfHearts]

I think for guys, lesbians are easier to talk to...we kind of understand more about liking girls and won't rag on you if you're sensitive about it. And for girls, some gay guys are easier to talk to because they're just mostly sensitive all around and SOME of them like talking about guys 24/7. Which is what most straight girls love. Or so I've witnessed...

[SomedayTheFire]

I actually would like to have a gay friend, I find talking to someone who is gay or a lesbian is actually very engaging and fun at the same time.
;-)

I think for guys, lesbians are easier to talk to...we kind of understand more about liking girls and won't rag on you if you're sensitive about it. And for girls, some gay guys are easier to talk to because they're just mostly sensitive all around and SOME of them like talking about guys 24/7. Which is what most straight girls love. Or so I've witnessed...
Hahahahahaha me! :biggrin:

[QueenOfHearts]

ugh so the girl that I like totally lead me on... =/
she sits next to me in my first class and she's gorgeous
I mean stunning
She started talking to me the other day and that
same day, gave me her number, told me to text her
and said she wanted to hangout sunday. She was talking
about "IF we end up together." and all this shit

Last night I texted her, and we got to talking. Eventually she asked me what I was up to
and I said, well nothing really what are you up to?
she said this

"I'm at Target with my brother and my gf."

WHAT!?!?! okay hun you NEGLECTED to tell me you had a gf!
I don't understand girls

[SomedayTheFire]

ugh so the girl that I like totally lead me on... =/
she sits next to me in my first class and she's gorgeous
I mean stunning
She started talking to me the other day and that
same day, gave me her number, told me to text her
and said she wanted to hangout sunday. She was talking
about "IF we end up together." and all this shit

Last night I texted her, and we got to talking. Eventually she asked me what I was up to
and I said, well nothing really what are you up to?
she said this

"I'm at Target with my brother and my gf."

WHAT!?!?! okay hun you NEGLECTED to tell me you had a gf!
I don't understand girls
Oh wow, that totally sucks. I accidentally did that once. It wasn't nice

[SanePsychotic]

ugh so the girl that I like totally lead me on... =/
she sits next to me in my first class and she's gorgeous
I mean stunning
She started talking to me the other day and that
same day, gave me her number, told me to text her
and said she wanted to hangout sunday. She was talking
about "IF we end up together." and all this shit

Last night I texted her, and we got to talking. Eventually she asked me what I was up to
and I said, well nothing really what are you up to?
she said this

"I'm at Target with my brother and my gf."

WHAT!?!?! okay hun you NEGLECTED to tell me you had a gf!
I don't understand girls

Ugh, that's such a bummer. I'm really sorry about that.

[Heart-A-Tact]

I can't stand lesbians. But I do not have a problem with gays.

This kid never answered.

[Charles777]

This kid never answered.
He must not want to be verbally abused/banned

[Heart-A-Tact]

He must not want to be verbally abused/banned

I'd like to see what he has to say about it.

[caress me down]

I get hit on by more guys than most girls get hit on. It's insane. But half my school population is bisexual, so I guess that was to be expected.
That's crazy. I know very very very few people who have come out in my whole entire school. Anyone who said they were bisexual would be considered a freak.

[Kbm600]

That's crazy. I know very very very few people who have come out in my whole entire school. Anyone who said they were bisexual would be considered a freak.

It's very opposite where I live. To an annoying extent. The result is that a lot of immature teenagers fake their "bisexuality" to fuck whoever they can. It amounts to a bunch of sluts that take whatever they can get, I can't imagine how degrading that is to people who are, you know, actually of that sexuality.

[caress me down]

It's very opposite where I live. To an annoying extent. The result is that a lot of immature teenagers fake their "bisexuality" to fuck whoever they can. It amounts to a bunch of sluts that take whatever they can get, I can't imagine how degrading that is to people who are, you know, actually of that sexuality.

That sounds dirty and STD-filled. For once I'm glad to be from New Jersey. ...kind of

[Kbm600]

That sounds dirty and STD-filled. For once I'm glad to be from New Jersey. ...kind of

It is. To be fair, from what I've heard of Jersey it really doesn't sound that different? Haha.

[BJW7191]

We're bromosexual in the dildo thread.
hahahahahahahahahaha thats great

[caress me down]

It is. To be fair, from what I've heard of Jersey it really doesn't sound that different? Haha.
Hmm maybe it's just my area? I live in a stuck up nyc suburb... definitely just my area

[QueenOfHearts]

It's very opposite where I live. To an annoying extent. The result is that a lot of immature teenagers fake their "bisexuality" to fuck whoever they can. It amounts to a bunch of sluts that take whatever they can get, I can't imagine how degrading that is to people who are, you know, actually of that sexuality.

That's just like my old town. All the girls would go around saying they were "bi" or "lesbian" which started escalating to higher numbers, making it harder for people to ACTUALLY come out. It's just insane.

[t_ashley]

God, I HAD a lesbian friend who didnt know when to let go. So Irritating.... I thought she'd eventually stop with the re re sexual advances but, she thought i was just joking with her. No not really...
"There was a reason i never sat on your lap at parties when there wasnt enough space..."

[t_ashley]

I wish my school had one.

:P

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.

[Charles777]

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.
You're so lucky!

[infamous_alias]

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.

How long did you sit there and work out getting that completely color coordinated? Haha...

[Charles777]

It's very opposite where I live. To an annoying extent. The result is that a lot of immature teenagers fake their "bisexuality" to fuck whoever they can. It amounts to a bunch of sluts that take whatever they can get, I can't imagine how degrading that is to people who are, you know, actually of that sexuality.
My ex tells me about her school all the time, and she said more than half the population is gay or bi. Maybe this is what's going on there?

[QueenOfHearts]

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.

Lucky!!!! P:

[Kbm600]

:shrug: My ex tells me about her school all the time, and she said more than half the population is gay or bi. Maybe this is what's going on there?

Possibly. It's not a problem if it's an actual truth, not just an excuse to get some with whoever you can get. But I suppose that's just the teenage agenda now?

[QueenOfHearts]

:shrug:

Possibly. It's not a problem if it's an actual truth, not just an excuse to get some with whoever you can get. But I suppose that's just the teenage agenda now?

It's completely annoying is what it is. If people are just going to be fake about it, it's just making it harder for people who are ACTUALLY gay to come out, because then what's the chance they'll be taken seriously?

[Kbm600]

It's completely annoying is what it is. If people are just going to be fake about it, it's just making it harder for people who are ACTUALLY gay to come out, because then what's the chance they'll be taken seriously?

Yeah, I agree. But when everyone's doing it, why question? That's the High School way of mind, afterall.

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.

We have a day of silence coming up. I'm signing up, but it's ridiculous because people mistake it for a "Gay pride" day, when it's not like that. Some fucker brought a shirt saying "I like my girlfriend because I'm STRAIGHT", last year and purposely tried to get people to talk.

[Charles777]

It's completely annoying is what it is. If people are just going to be fake about it, it's just making it harder for people who are ACTUALLY gay to come out, because then what's the chance they'll be taken seriously?
Exactly.

[t_ashley]

How long did you sit there and work out getting that completely color coordinated? Haha...

Meh, I was trying to kill time...

[t_ashley]

Yeah, I agree. But when everyone's doing it, why question? That's the High School way of mind, afterall.



We have a day of silence coming up. I'm signing up, but it's ridiculous because people mistake it for a "Gay pride" day, when it's not like that. Some fucker brought a shirt saying "I like my girlfriend because I'm STRAIGHT", last year and purposely tried to get people to talk.


Its sort of annoying because in that week, students are also allowed to protest it. They make shirts every year that say
" ADAM AND EVE NOT ADAM AND STEVE".

[Kbm600]

Its sort of annoying because in that week, students are also allowed to protest it. They make shirts every year that say
" ADAM AND EVE NOT ADAM AND STEVE".

If you're going to be hateful, at least be original. I'm so sick of hearing that damn line.

[SomedayTheFire]

If you're going to be hateful, at least be original. I'm so sick of hearing that damn line.
Is it weird that's the first time I've ever heard that line?

Nice avatar!

[QueenOfHearts]

Yeah, I agree. But when everyone's doing it, why question? That's the High School way of mind, afterall.

I know it's just it's completely screwed up. But what are you gonna do?

[Charles777]

If you're going to be hateful, at least be original. I'm so sick of hearing that damn line.
There isn't even a legit reason to dislike homosexuals. I really don't see reasons for people like that.

[robat19]

This is a gay thread.

[QueenOfHearts]

This is a gay thread.

No really?!
:-p

[Jake Denning]

Shit, we have GAY PRIDE WEEK.


uh oh. I mean, atleast in my high school, i'd be skipping that week of school. The Gay community was so obnoxious, it was crazy; I remember one day they decided to all lay in the forum area dressed in black, so there was a crapload of gay kids laying on the ground with fake blood all over, all because of they were remembering the transgendered kids that were killed because they were gay...it was nuts, because they would piss and moan because mobs of people would step on them because they were trying to get to class....

Dont even get me started with the day of silence.....

[igetmikey]

uh oh. I mean, atleast in my high school, i'd be skipping that week of school. The Gay community was so obnoxious, it was crazy; I remember one day they decided to all lay in the forum area dressed in black, so there was a crapload of gay kids laying on the ground with fake blood all over, all because of they were remembering the transgendered kids that were killed because they were gay...it was nuts, because they would piss and moan because mobs of people would step on them because they were trying to get to class....

Dont even get me started with the day of silence.....


hahahha holly hell.

yeah, homosexuals can be pretty gay.

[QueenOfHearts]

hahahha holly hell.

yeah, homosexuals can be pretty gay.

You're SOO clever!

[igetmikey]

You're SOO clever!

thanks :)

[Kbm600]

There isn't even a legit reason to dislike homosexuals. I really don't see reasons for people like that.

It's mainly people who can't accept anything new? I mean, is there ever a 'legit' reason for discrimination?

[MarshmallowHobo]

I can't decide if this thread is for real or attempts at sarcastic bashing?

[Kbm600]

I can't decide if this thread is for real or attempts at sarcastic bashing?

What do you mean? I haven't been sarcastic in anything that I've said.

[MarshmallowHobo]

What do you mean? I haven't been sarcastic in anything that I've said.

No, no. You seem completely legit. I was just confused by some other people's comments. :]

[Kbm600]

No, no. You seem completely legit. I was just confused by some other people's comments. :]

Oh, alright. Well everyone from the most part who has posted has either been just kidding around or just discussing things. From what I can tell anyway.

[MarshmallowHobo]

Ah cool. Well in that case - Hey, new lesbian :D I registered ages ago but haven't been to the site in months. I had a lot of problems with Homophobia when I was younger, so maybe I'll come and post about them later :]

[Kassie09]

I want a gay best friend really badly.
:(
I need to find one. one that's really gay. not just one that pretends to be gay so i will like go underwear shopping with them.

[Kbm600]

Ah cool. Well in that case - Hey, new lesbian :D I registered ages ago but haven't been to the site in months. I had a lot of problems with Homophobia when I was younger, so maybe I'll come and post about them later :]

You're a lesbian but you used to be homophobic, or you had problems with other people being homophobia?

The former situation would be highly ironic if what I got from it was true, haha.

[Charles777]

It's mainly people who can't accept anything new? I mean, is there ever a 'legit' reason for discrimination?
Good point

[Charles777]

I want a gay best friend really badly.
:(
I need to find one. one that's really gay. not just one that pretends to be gay so i will like go underwear shopping with them.
I only know a bunch of people who I think MIGHT be gay.
:D
I only know one other bi person.

[SomedayTheFire]

I want a gay best friend really badly.
:(
I need to find one. one that's really gay. not just one that pretends to be gay so i will like go underwear shopping with them.
Lol that's funny I happen to want a girl best friend :(

[Kassie09]

I only know a bunch of people who I think MIGHT be gay.
:D
I only know one other bi person.
Hai, you live by me, find me a gay friend! :D

Lol that's funny I happen to want a girl best friend :(

Want to be best friends? :)! It'd be perfect.

[SomedayTheFire]

Hai, you live by me, find me a gay friend! :D



Want to be best friends? :)! It'd be perfect.
Yeah :D after all you are only 4000 miles away haha

[The Summer Ends]

My old Spanish teacher was a lesbian. She was awesome. She told us a story about how she got stuck under her garage door trying to crawl under it before it closed.

My old English teacher was gay. He was creepy as shit and would get a little too close to you when looking over your shoulder. One time I think he put his junk on my shoulder.

[Charles777]

Hai, you live by me, find me a gay friend! :D



Want to be best friends? :)! It'd be perfect.
Go to Allderdice! I heard they have lots of gay dudes there

XD

[samsara]

For some reason Roswell accepts gays and lesbians a lot more than other places around here.

But somehow the same people hate Obama and are uber conservative.

[MarshmallowHobo]

You're a lesbian but you used to be homophobic, or you had problems with other people being homophobia?

The former situation would be highly ironic if what I got from it was true, haha.

lol, With people being Homophobic towards me. When I figured out I was gay - when I was like 14 or so, I ended up getting a lot of balls thrown at me by the older kids on the street. Degrading comments shouted at me by the men, and I was even spat on quite a few times. I had far too many fights when I was a kid, trying to stick up for myself. Now that I'm older, and still known as the neighbourhood's lesbian, I still get some derogatory comments shouted at me (it's worse when I walk down the street with any girl). The other day I left my house and some teenage boys, around 18 years old said to his friend "look there's the dyke". I have never seen those people before in my life. For the past few years though, I've learnt to keep myself to myself on my street, as it's common knowledge that those same kids I grew up with throwing balls at me, are now heavily involved in drugs and carry guns. It's not worth getting shot over. There's one guy - Darrel, who I used to fight with all the time. I put his head through a fence when I was like 15, and kicked him off his bike for punching my then gilfriend in the face. Now he's been arrested for carrying knives. So yeah, I stay clear and just keep my head down when I walk past them. I'm just glad that I never came out in highschool. Where I went, I would never have heard the end of it. My gym teacher was a lesbian and hearing the homophobia towards her scared me out of coming out.

[Charles777]

lol, With people being Homophobic towards me. When I figured out I was gay - when I was like 14 or so, I ended up getting a lot of balls thrown at me by the older kids on the street. Degrading comments shouted at me by the men, and I was even spat on quite a few times. I had far too many fights when I was a kid, trying to stick up for myself. Now that I'm older, and still known as the neighbourhood's lesbian, I still get some derogatory comments shouted at me (it's worse when I walk down the street with any girl). The other day I left my house and some teenage boys, around 18 years old said to his friend "look there's the dyke". I have never seen those people before in my life. For the past few years though, I've learnt to keep myself to myself on my street, as it's common knowledge that those same kids I grew up with throwing balls at me, are now heavily involved in drugs and carry guns. It's not worth getting shot over. There's one guy - Darrel, who I used to fight with all the time. I put his head through a fence when I was like 15, and kicked him off his bike for punching my then gilfriend in the face. Now he's been arrested for carrying knives. So yeah, I stay clear and just keep my head down when I walk past them. I'm just glad that I never came out in highschool. Where I went, I would never have heard the end of it. My gym teacher was a lesbian and hearing the homophobia towards her scared me out of coming out.
Wow, that sucks.
:-(

[SomedayTheFire]

lol, With people being Homophobic towards me. When I figured out I was gay - when I was like 14 or so, I ended up getting a lot of balls thrown at me by the older kids on the street. Degrading comments shouted at me by the men, and I was even spat on quite a few times. I had far too many fights when I was a kid, trying to stick up for myself. Now that I'm older, and still known as the neighbourhood's lesbian, I still get some derogatory comments shouted at me (it's worse when I walk down the street with any girl). The other day I left my house and some teenage boys, around 18 years old said to his friend "look there's the dyke". I have never seen those people before in my life. For the past few years though, I've learnt to keep myself to myself on my street, as it's common knowledge that those same kids I grew up with throwing balls at me, are now heavily involved in drugs and carry guns. It's not worth getting shot over. There's one guy - Darrel, who I used to fight with all the time. I put his head through a fence when I was like 15, and kicked him off his bike for punching my then gilfriend in the face. Now he's been arrested for carrying knives. So yeah, I stay clear and just keep my head down when I walk past them. I'm just glad that I never came out in highschool. Where I went, I would never have heard the end of it. My gym teacher was a lesbian and hearing the homophobia towards her scared me out of coming out.
Wow. That really sucks, I'm sorry. Luckily nothing like that has happened me, I've never really witnessed true homophobia.

[MarshmallowHobo]

The horrifying thing is that I got off lightly. I'm so grateful that all that happened to me was spitting, insults and the odd object being thrown. My brother is also gay (loads of my family are), he's 18 and has been going through similar things since he was 16 so now I worry about him more than myself. I just feel lucky we don't live in a town where we'd be killed or something. It's good that we live close to London's West End, where people are very accepting. We never go out in our own town, so during the week we keep to ourselves and then at the weekends we jump on the subway for 20 mins and can be ourselves. Hold our partners' hands without fear.

[Charles777]

The horrifying thing is that I got off lightly. I'm so grateful that all that happened to me was spitting, insults and the odd object being thrown. My brother is also gay (loads of my family are), he's 18 and has been going through similar things since he was 16 so now I worry about him more than myself. I just feel lucky we don't live in a town where we'd be killed or something. It's good that we live close to London's West End, where people are very accepting. We never go out in our own town, so during the week we keep to ourselves and then at the weekends we jump on the subway for 20 mins and can be ourselves. Hold our partners' hands without fear.
I always pictured Britain as more accepting than America with those kind of things.

[Kbm600]

lol, With people being Homophobic towards me. When I figured out I was gay - when I was like 14 or so, I ended up getting a lot of balls thrown at me by the older kids on the street. Degrading comments shouted at me by the men, and I was even spat on quite a few times. I had far too many fights when I was a kid, trying to stick up for myself. Now that I'm older, and still known as the neighbourhood's lesbian, I still get some derogatory comments shouted at me (it's worse when I walk down the street with any girl). The other day I left my house and some teenage boys, around 18 years old said to his friend "look there's the dyke". I have never seen those people before in my life. For the past few years though, I've learnt to keep myself to myself on my street, as it's common knowledge that those same kids I grew up with throwing balls at me, are now heavily involved in drugs and carry guns. It's not worth getting shot over. There's one guy - Darrel, who I used to fight with all the time. I put his head through a fence when I was like 15, and kicked him off his bike for punching my then gilfriend in the face. Now he's been arrested for carrying knives. So yeah, I stay clear and just keep my head down when I walk past them. I'm just glad that I never came out in highschool. Where I went, I would never have heard the end of it. My gym teacher was a lesbian and hearing the homophobia towards her scared me out of coming out.

That is disgusting, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I can't really relate to anything like that, but if it makes everyone laugh; I recently found out through NO fault of mine, one of my ex-girlfriend's is now lesbian.

That's always great to hear.

[Charles777]

That is disgusting, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I can't really relate to anything like that, but if it makes everyone laugh; I recently found out through NO fault of mine, one of my ex-girlfriend's is now lesbian.

That's always great to hear.
A few weeks after my ex girlfriend broke up, I told her I was bi, and she told me that she was too.

Also, I know a girl who's imaginary boyfriend left her for a dude.

[Kbm600]

A few weeks after my ex girlfriend broke up, I told her I was bi, and she told me that she was too.

Also, I know a girl who's imaginary boyfriend left her for a dude.

Odd time to come out.

I'm not even going to touch the imaginary thing, this is a homosexuality thread, not a "Seeking mental help" thread. That story should be in there.

[raychull]

Also, I know a girl who's imaginary boyfriend left her for a dude.
hahah, what?

[Charles777]

hahah, what?
Thats what I said

[QueenOfHearts]

It's mainly people who can't accept anything new? I mean, is there ever a 'legit' reason for discrimination?

To me it's the fact that they can't come to terms with their own sexuality. And I definitely agree with you on that one P:

[QueenOfHearts]

lol, With people being Homophobic towards me. When I figured out I was gay - when I was like 14 or so, I ended up getting a lot of balls thrown at me by the older kids on the street. Degrading comments shouted at me by the men, and I was even spat on quite a few times. I had far too many fights when I was a kid, trying to stick up for myself. Now that I'm older, and still known as the neighbourhood's lesbian, I still get some derogatory comments shouted at me (it's worse when I walk down the street with any girl). The other day I left my house and some teenage boys, around 18 years old said to his friend "look there's the dyke". I have never seen those people before in my life. For the past few years though, I've learnt to keep myself to myself on my street, as it's common knowledge that those same kids I grew up with throwing balls at me, are now heavily involved in drugs and carry guns. It's not worth getting shot over. There's one guy - Darrel, who I used to fight with all the time. I put his head through a fence when I was like 15, and kicked him off his bike for punching my then gilfriend in the face. Now he's been arrested for carrying knives. So yeah, I stay clear and just keep my head down when I walk past them. I'm just glad that I never came out in highschool. Where I went, I would never have heard the end of it. My gym teacher was a lesbian and hearing the homophobia towards her scared me out of coming out.

No one should have to go through that. I've had my fair share of gatorade bottles, etc... thrown at me. I've even had a hulk hogan book thrown at me. Why? I don't know, buuut It's complete bull shit what people think is compltely justified because they have a problem with "someone being gay."

[MarshmallowHobo]

Oh for sure, it's like - you're a homo, I'm better than you, so to prove that fact I'll resort to neanderthal behaviour and spit on you.

[Jake Denning]

No one should have to go through that. I've had my fair share of gatorade bottles, etc... thrown at me. I've even had a hulk hogan book thrown at me. Why? I don't know, buuut It's complete bull shit what people think is compltely justified because they have a problem with "someone being gay."

WHAT, thats not even fair; I want a Hulk Hogan book thrown at me so I can read it.

[speakhandsforme]

You guys are gay.

(lame but obligatory)

[Charles777]

You guys are gay.

(lame but obligatory)
Indeed we are

[Deathofarobot]

Gosh I love this thread...

I have a few gay friends, both guys and girls, the guys are more complected than the girls.
My older sister is a fashion designer so she's in gay central when it comes to guys...

Unwelcome advances...from one of my sisters gay guy friends, so it was weird.
He had been drinking and he would NOT leave be alone about my boobs...gah. I don't believe that he's really gay, just a little bit of alcohol in him and he's all over the chicks...sober, he's all over the dudes. >_<

Crushes and gay guys is also uncool, I don't know what makes them more attractive, but there's this one that just leaves my mouth hanging open whenever he's around. Unfair.

[MarshmallowHobo]

It seems that gay guys, though into men (clearly) still have a fascination with boobs lol.

[SomedayTheFire]

It seems that gay guys, though into men (clearly) still have a fascination with boobs lol.
They're squishy :-p

[MarshmallowHobo]

They're squishy :-p

loool they are indeed, just the right amount though. No sagging please lol.

[SomedayTheFire]

loool they are indeed, just the right amount though. No sagging please lol.
It's also fun to make straight guys jealous :-p

[Deathofarobot]

They're squishy :-p

:-d Yes yes, they are.

I've always wondered the fascination gay guys have with boobs...

[MarshmallowHobo]

Well they are pretty :)

[samsara]

Bahaha when I'm around my gay friends my boob get touched at least once.

[Deathofarobot]

Well they are pretty :)

:-d indeed.

I had this fantastic email conversation with my dad recently...he had gotten into my photobucket and found a pic of me in a low cut shirt and was all like "Hey I'm not the one with my breasts pleastered all over the interweb!" My reply was simply "Yours aren't pretty"

[MarshmallowHobo]

:-d indeed.

I had this fantastic email conversation with my dad recently...he had gotten into my photobucket and found a pic of me in a low cut shirt and was all like "Hey I'm not the one with my breasts pleastered all over the interweb!" My reply was simply "Yours aren't pretty"

Haha! Nice! Legitimate answer if you ask me.

[Deathofarobot]

Haha! Nice! Legitimate answer if you ask me.

My thoughts exactly.

[MarshmallowHobo]

Deathofarobot - I need to have a little squeal at you, so I'll do it in a PM as it has nothing to do with the gays :D

[SomedayTheFire]

:-d Yes yes, they are.

I've always wondered the fascination gay guys have with boobs...
I think it's erm. . . well . . . eh . . . I guess . . . it's fun :shrug: and makes straight guys jealous :-p

[Deathofarobot]

I think it's erm. . . well . . . eh . . . I guess . . . it's fun :shrug: and makes straight guys jealous :-p

Fair enough...I still don't let gay guys touch my boobs though, so there's not much jealousy going on here :-p

MarshmellowHobo - You're awesome....I can't tie that into gayness so thanks for the PM haha.

[SomedayTheFire]

Fair enough...I still don't let gay guys touch my boobs though, so there's not much jealousy going on here :-p

MarshmellowHobo - You're awesome....I can't tie that into gayness so thanks for the PM haha.
Haha it's all good, honestly I don't do it that much, but my other gay friends do it all the time :D

[Deathofarobot]

Haha it's all good, honestly I don't do it that much, but my other gay friends do it all the time :D

Niiiiice, I'm actually a little jealous.

Well wait, are girls more likely to let gay guys touch their boobs or fellow girls?

[SomedayTheFire]

Niiiiice, I'm actually a little jealous.

Well wait, are girls more likely to let gay guys touch their boobs or fellow girls?
Haha I dunno I do it for the shock factor only :P

Well the girls here let us gays touch their boobs quite a lot ahah. I actually went bra shopping with one of my friends and was helping her and all the workers at the shop were confused and I said I was gay and they just went 'ah ok' and left us alone hahahal

[Deathofarobot]

Haha I dunno I do it for the shock factor only :P

Well the girls here let us gays touch their boobs quite a lot ahah. I actually went bra shopping with one of my friends and was helping her and all the workers at the shop were confused and I said I was gay and they just went 'ah ok' and left us alone hahahal

Dude, I need a guy to go bra shopping with!

Dublin girls eh? I'd much rather have a girl up in my personal space than a guy, gay or not, just saying is all.

[Charles777]

I don't even know any gay guys! You guys are lucky

:-p

[Deathofarobot]

I don't even know any gay guys! You guys are lucky

:-p

You should go to gay clubs to meet them...I love the gay club in Nashville. It's the best...and usually very safe for girls...considering all the guys are gay they really don't bother you...

Man, do those gay boys have some MOVES!

[SomedayTheFire]

Dude, I need a guy to go bra shopping with!

Dublin girls eh? I'd much rather have a girl up in my personal space than a guy, gay or not, just saying is all.
Awh :( it's crap we are on opposite sides of an ocean.

Haha well that makes sense, I'd rather a guy than a girl haha.

[chronomic]

I don't even know any gay guys! You guys are lucky

:-p

oh so now you're telling people you don't even know me... YOU F U C K!

[Charles777]

You should go to gay clubs to meet them...I love the gay club in Nashville. It's the best...and usually very safe for girls...considering all the guys are gay they really don't bother you...

Man, do those gay boys have some MOVES!
I can't go to clubs... I am painfully shy. lol

[Deathofarobot]

Awh :( it's crap we are on opposite sides of an ocean.

Haha well that makes sense, I'd rather a guy than a girl haha.

I know, it's just not fair.

:-p nooooo, really?

[Deathofarobot]

I can't go to clubs... I am painfully shy. lol


Awww, well, I always go with my sister (and get mistaken for her girlfriend.) But I don't think I'd be able to go by myself...I'm not painfully shy, but still shy enough to want friends along.

[Charles777]

oh so now you're telling people you don't even know me... YOU F U C K!
Wha?
:D

[Charles777]

Awww, well, I always go with my sister (and get mistaken for her girlfriend.) But I don't think I'd be able to go by myself...I'm not painfully shy, but still shy enough to want friends along.
My friends don't know I'm bi, so they are out of the question.

O_o

[SomedayTheFire]

I know, it's just not fair.

:-p nooooo, really?
It really isn't :-p

Yeahhhh :). But girls are more mature than guys haha.

[Deathofarobot]

My friends don't know I'm bi, so they are out of the question.

O_o

My friends don't know I'm bi either, just my sister, but mainly the girls my sister brings along are straight...

<3 I'd go with you. Then it would be fun.

[Deathofarobot]

It really isn't :-p

Yeahhhh :). But girls are more mature than guys haha.

:rape:<--had to put that.

and you've lost me on that one...girls are more mature though.

[Charles777]

My friends don't know I'm bi either, just my sister, but mainly the girls my sister brings along are straight...

<3 I'd go with you. Then it would be fun.
Ha ha, thanks.

:]

[SomedayTheFire]

:rape:<--had to put that.

and you've lost me on that one...girls are more mature though.
Hahah amazing smiley.

I'll put it in simpler terms :-d
I <3 guys
I <3 talking to girls more than guys haha.

[Deathofarobot]

Ha ha, thanks.

:]

For sure :-)

[Deathofarobot]

Hahah amazing smiley.

I'll put it in simpler terms :-d
I <3 guys
I <3 talking to girls more than guys haha.

Mhmmm.

Oh, weird.

I <3 guys and girls
I <3 talking to guys more than girls...

Girls can be bitches.

[SomedayTheFire]

Mhmmm.

Oh, weird.

I <3 guys and girls
I <3 talking to guys more than girls...

Girls can be bitches.
That is true, but then again so can guys ahah.

[Deathofarobot]

That is true, but then again so can guys ahah.

Guys are more along the lines of pricks..

[robat19]

http://www.forumammo.com/cpg/albums/Upload/gay/Gay-Richard_Simmons.jpg

[SomedayTheFire]

Guys are more along the lines of pricks..
Yeah haha that's true.

[SomedayTheFire]

http://www.forumammo.com/cpg/albums/Upload/gay/Gay-Richard_Simmons.jpg
:nod:

[MarshmallowHobo]

Let's all go clubbing together!

I also <3 girls and guys
I <3 talking to guys more

Girls can be sneaky mindfucks. Guys seem more upfront asses lol which is easier to deal with.

Can I come bra shopping with someone, or does that defeat the object?

[Charles777]

http://www.forumammo.com/cpg/albums/Upload/gay/Gay-Richard_Simmons.jpg
This made my day

[Deathofarobot]

Let's all go clubbing together!

I also <3 girls and guys
I <3 talking to guys more

Girls can be sneaky mindfucks. Guys seem more upfront asses lol which is easier to deal with.

Can I come bra shopping with someone, or does that defeat the object?

haha, we do need to all go clubbing together!
The music selection at the places aren't exactly for music critics but whatever, it's still fun :-)

Sneaky mindfucks is what I hate about girls...guys are definitely more upfront about their asshole-ishness so once it's on the table, pfft, I can handle it...or at least I sort of have a choice on whether I want to handle it or not...

Out of my family there are 3 bi-sexual people...is that weird?? Do you think it's a trait or something?

[Jake Denning]

[quote=Deathofarobot;3751747!
Do you think it's a trait or something?[/quote]

no.

[MarshmallowHobo]

Considering in my family, there are *counts* ... 1 lesbian, 3 gays, and 4 bisexuals. That's my generation of cousins alone, and one of the gays is my brother too. I would have to say I think it is somewhat hereditary. I also know that my great grandma had a few gay males in her family. Her brother was gay, and a few cousins I think. So yeah, take from that what you will.

[QueenOfHearts]

Let's all go clubbing together!

I also <3 girls and guys
I <3 talking to guys more

Girls can be sneaky mindfucks. Guys seem more upfront asses lol which is easier to deal with.

Can I come bra shopping with someone, or does that defeat the object?

Clubbing is amazing
count me in P:

I <3 girls
I <3 talking to guys more than straight girls (i know it kinda sounds prejudice, but I have reasons)
I <3 talking to lesbians more than straight guys (also reasons; some obvious some not)

bra shopping? sure. I rarely ever go though. I have two drawers full of them in my dresser

[MarshmallowHobo]

Ugh. I am so full of rage today.

[Charles777]

Ugh. I am so full of rage today.
Care to vent?

[QueenOfHearts]

Ugh. I am so full of rage today.

oooh I'd love to listen :]

[MarshmallowHobo]

It's kinda boring lol. My mother has alcohol problems, up until like 3 weeks ago she spent the last 2 years or so drinking NOTHING but cider and vodka. It resulted in our relationship deteriorating to the point where I couldn't even stand being around her, her fighting with my ass of a stepdad, getting arrested twice (even though it was my stepdad who should've been, but he's the worlds biggest liar), being taken to hospital more than 3 times, us fighting all the time, a VERY aggressive christmas where my brother and I ended up moving in with my g'ma for a week, and loads of other shit. It all resulted in my stress levels shooting up and I became this horrible, angry person that I've never been. I was losing it, throwing shit around, smashing things, punching walls, just being pathetic really. She had to go to the doctor for blood tests the other week, and that seemed to "scare her straight". And after being relieved that there was no damage to her liver,... yet, she seemed honestly devoted to quitting the drink. My stepdad has not helped at all, he also has a drinking problem but I couldn't care less about him to be honest. But he drinks in front of her still, keeps offering her it, leaving it in front of her and telling her she doesn't have a problem.

All that aside, she's been doing really well. Eating healthy, taking the dogs out for walks, she even came swimming with me last week. But today she seemed a bit off. When she went upstairs I checked the trash, and there was a can of cider on top of all the paper rubbish she had put in there last. It is just me and her in the house right now, and when I asked her, she denied it. But also, I noticed that the oven top was greasy from food she'd obviously cooked and this is a sign that she's been drinking because when she was drunk she would leave the oven greasy until she woke up from her afternoon nap (pass out). But when she's sober my mom has like, cleaning OCD and can't leave anything dirty, she can't even leave a can that I finish on the table for more than a minute before she snatches it up and throws it away herself.

I'm pretty sure she was drinking this morning (also, she's asleep right now and it's only near 2 in the afternoon), and I'm just so disappointed.

Boring lol.

[Charles777]

I'm sorry. That sucks.

:-(

[QueenOfHearts]

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I'm pretty sure she was drinking this morning (also, she's asleep right now and it's only near 2 in the afternoon), and I'm just so disappointed.

Boring lol.

Not so boring. I don't really know what to say. I know that my mom had/has a drug addiction. I'm not sure to what exactly but all the signs are there. She would get her paycheck every other week, but would only end up coming home ith about 1/3 of it, and continue to spend only half of that on food and do god knows what else with the rest. She would randomly be extremely kind and caring, but a few days later be screaming at me and arguing for no reason. She was never home, always at her boyfriend's house. So it was my brother, my ex, and I at the house (and whoever we had over at the time).

But needless to say, you've tried asking her about it...if it was me in this situation...(as many loopholes there are) if you know where the alcohol is kept, I would hide it or get rid of it. That's just me though.

[MarshmallowHobo]

I texted my stepdad and asked him if he knew if she had, but he didn't reply. Typical asshole. Plus he just came home early from work, came upstairs and then went out again and didn't say anything to me. I fucking hate him! I just want to know if she has, so that I can stop putting my hope on her changing. I don't want to be around her if she's drinking because it makes me so angry, and the past 2 weeks or so I've been spending so much time with her again. I just want to know so I can help myself.

[QueenOfHearts]

I texted my stepdad and asked him if he knew if she had, but he didn't reply. Typical asshole. Plus he just came home early from work, came upstairs and then went out again and didn't say anything to me. I fucking hate him! I just want to know if she has, so that I can stop putting my hope on her changing. I don't want to be around her if she's drinking because it makes me so angry, and the past 2 weeks or so I've been spending so much time with her again. I just want to know so I can help myself.

Tell her how much you enjoy spending time with her, and how when she was constantly drinking you never spent time together. Normally that helps.

[MarshmallowHobo]

But needless to say, you've tried asking her about it...if it was me in this situation...(as many loopholes there are) if you know where the alcohol is kept, I would hide it or get rid of it. That's just me though.

I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. And yeah I often did throw away the alcohol, I don't know how many bottles of vodka I've poured down the sink in the last few years. But this time it's his alcohol not my mom's. And if I throw that away I'm liable to be attacked by the twat.

And heh, believe me I've told her how I feel about the whole thing. She says now (that she's sober) that she's sorry, and embarassed. But when it comes down to it, I honestly don't think she cares.

[QueenOfHearts]

I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. And yeah I often did throw away the alcohol, I don't know how many bottles of vodka I've poured down the sink in the last few years. But this time it's his alcohol not my mom's. And if I throw that away I'm liable to be attacked by the twat.

And heh, believe me I've told her how I feel about the whole thing. She says now (that she's sober) that she's sorry, and embarassed. But when it comes down to it, I honestly don't think she cares.

Hmm all I can think to do is keep asking her to go out and spend time with you. That's what I tried. Unfortunately that's why I moved out and now live about 700 miles away from her. Hopefully that doesn't happen.

[MarshmallowHobo]

She doesn't want to come out though. That's what I mean, I think deep down she is content on living in this vicious little circle. And I get that, I just want to know once and for all if I put all my energy into helping her, for nothing.. again. And then all my energy will go on getting a new job and moving out with my girlfriend.