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gstew
02/13/09, 06:58 PM
Okay, so I'm wondering why people have such a problem with a 3 year age difference in relationships? I like this girl who's 3 years younger and that's the only reason she says no to going out. I don't think it should matter, so long as we get along well and like each other. She's in grade 9 and I'm in 12, but she's as mature mentally/emotionally as a grade 12. So I'm not seeing the problem here.

Can any GIRLS please give your opinions on this?

raychull
02/13/09, 07:02 PM
Mitch? Is that you?

edit: Sorry.

Whatever floats your boat, dude.

robat19
02/13/09, 07:02 PM
You're a creeper, dude.

wewascontenders
02/13/09, 07:05 PM
i just wanna know what you were doing hanging out with a 14 year old to begin with.

robat19
02/13/09, 07:06 PM
And there's a 16 year old that likes to give blow j's in another thread. Maybe you could talk to her.

Hyp
02/13/09, 07:27 PM
You already brushed over the problem. Freshmen are usually ALOT less mature than seniors in some aspects. At my school, I'd be hard-pressed to find a freshman who could possibly understand half the shit that comes out of my mouth, let alone a senior. Maybe with you it's different but the stereotype still remains that freshmen are pretty much "babies".

So, have fun trying to convince your senior class that she's as mature as them. Chances are, they're not going to pay attention to her as much as you'd like. They barely see her since they probably have no classes with her so it's pretty much your word against the model freshman.

There's your problem. Either break up with her if you can't take the heat, ignore the criticism, or be a dick and say you like 'em young.

jagermeister
02/13/09, 07:31 PM
Okay, so I'm wondering why people have such a problem with a 3 year age difference in relationships? I like this girl who's 3 years younger and that's the only reason she says no to going out. I don't think it should matter, so long as we get along well and like each other. She's in grade 9 and I'm in 12, but she's as mature mentally/emotionally as a grade 12. So I'm not seeing the problem here.

Can any GIRLS please give your opinions on this?

LOL you're from Oakville... thats amazing. Milton FTW, though. Anyways, stay away from 14 year olds.

ashiex3
02/13/09, 07:35 PM
i don't think its the age difference that matters, but the actual age.
my sister is dating someone three years older than her, but she's 19 and he's 22.
i don't know, to me 14 and 17 is kind of..wrong?

raychull
02/13/09, 07:37 PM
i don't think its the age difference that matters, but the actual age.
my sister is dating someone three years older than her, but she's 19 and he's 22.
i don't know, to me 14 and 17 is kind of..wrong?
because one's barely hit puberty? yeah.

ashiex3
02/13/09, 07:58 PM
because one's barely hit puberty? yeah.

aha. i guess that's why.
i don't think "wrong" was the right word, but i couldn't think of one.

Hyp
02/13/09, 08:01 PM
i don't think its the age difference that matters, but the actual age.
my sister is dating someone three years older than her, but she's 19 and he's 22.
i don't know, to me 14 and 17 is kind of..wrong?

It's kinda like a general rule that once you're out of high school, anything goes for anyone 18+. You both pretty much have the same amount of education and you're both legally adults as opposed to a grade level.

Kassie09
02/13/09, 09:22 PM
I think it's fine..

samsara
02/13/09, 09:38 PM
I think just as long as you two are okay with it, then yes.

OldJersey
02/13/09, 09:40 PM
Creeper

wroteurname
02/13/09, 09:43 PM
Dude, you are so much better off not dating 14 year old girls.

wroteurname
02/13/09, 09:45 PM
On a sidenote...anyone remember that thread that was like "im grade 12 she is grade 9 but she wants me UH OH"

Tony Pascarella
02/13/09, 11:02 PM
Usually the half your age plus 7 rule applies. You should be going for 15-16 at the youngest.

I don't know the laws in Canada but here in the US you'd be looking at statutory rape if you did anything.

If she says no to going out, don't push it or you could get yourself into a doubly bad situation. Get to know her better and try again when she's a little bit older (even 15).

Renee
02/13/09, 11:12 PM
I know I would have been a little creeped out if a senior was hitting on me as a freshmen.

jagermeister
02/14/09, 05:14 AM
On a sidenote...anyone remember that thread that was like "im grade 12 she is grade 9 but she wants me UH OH"
I remember that one!

Usually the half your age plus 7 rule applies. You should be going for 15-16 at the youngest.

I don't know the laws in Canada but here in the US you'd be looking at statutory rape if you did anything.

If she says no to going out, don't push it or you could get yourself into a doubly bad situation. Get to know her better and try again when she's a little bit older (even 15).
Age of consent was 14, but just got moved up to 16. So I guess this guy is fucked, and not in the way he was hoping for.

fadedmemories
02/14/09, 05:19 AM
Chris Hansen does not approve of the OP.

walking_by91
02/14/09, 05:39 AM
Haha I'd say being friends is a better idea. It wouldn't be that big of a deal if you were older. If you really like her then I wouldn't let it stop you, but chances are you could just move on and find someone else, ya know.

SomedayTheFire
02/14/09, 06:13 AM
Mitch? Is that you?

edit: Sorry.

Whatever floats your boat, dude.
Hahahaha.

Undue Noise
02/14/09, 06:54 AM
3 year age difference when you're 33 and she's 30 = cool
3 year age difference when you're 17 and she's 14 = not cool

trappedintime
02/14/09, 07:59 AM
I agree with the post above me.
Dude, you want advice? Here: anal then gtfo of that relationship.

SonEric84
02/14/09, 08:08 AM
I don't think it's worth it because I highly doubt it will last. Even if it does, it'll just be for a while and you'll end up having wasted time you could have spent on someone closer to your own age, someone who knows what they want out of a relationship. Plus, there is that whole legal aspect.

thehereaway
02/14/09, 08:32 AM
Usually the half your age plus 7 rule applies. You should be going for 15-16 at the youngest.

I don't know the laws in Canada but here in the US you'd be looking at statutory rape if you did anything.

If she says no to going out, don't push it or you could get yourself into a doubly bad situation. Get to know her better and try again when she's a little bit older (even 15).

I agree, stick to this rule.

sandra92
02/14/09, 11:47 AM
I find it normal .
What matters is her "mental" age , and if you like her go on .

XEmoBoyShandorX
02/14/09, 12:25 PM
Usually the half your age plus 7 rule applies. You should be going for 15-16 at the youngest.

I don't know the laws in Canada but here in the US you'd be looking at statutory rape if you did anything.

If she says no to going out, don't push it or you could get yourself into a doubly bad situation. Get to know her better and try again when she's a little bit older (even 15).

This. I know my friend is a Sophomore an dating a Senior it is still kind of weird. She was dating him when she was a Freshman an he was a Junior too.

godswill4me
02/14/09, 04:52 PM
I don't think this is a big deal at all. If you both are happy with each other and can get along maturity wise I say go for it. I've always dated older guys.

m_rue
02/14/09, 06:33 PM
I don't think you can generalize and say 'so-and-so years is too much of a difference'. It all depends on the specific people and their maturity.

lifexcore
02/14/09, 06:50 PM
i'm a senior too this year, and my one friend is hanging out with a freshman... it's weird. don't do it. we all talk about it, because it is pretty messed up... at least wait like... ten years then it will be good? ha.. sorry, but seriously, just say no

walking_by91
02/14/09, 07:06 PM
Oh, I totally forgot about my life experience on this subject. Haha my friend was dating this guy who was like three years older than her. Then she started hanging out with this gay ass freshmen and decided to break up with her boyfriend, who was like in love with her. So yeah, then she dated that freshmen and he broke up with her like 2 days later. And then she realized she was in love with her ex boyfriend. And now he has a new girlfriend, but they still fuck all the time. And she's way hung up him.
I typed all of that and realized it has nothing to do with anything. But yeah, just don't date a freshmen. It's really not worth it.

xfantabulousx
02/14/09, 07:14 PM
I know of a couple of seniors dating freshman. It's only three years, and it doesn't seem that odd to me. Then again, I've had some high school friends dating people in their early to mid 20's. Now THAT was weird.

HelpMeSleep
02/15/09, 10:14 AM
I don't think an age difference is bad, it just depends on what the ages are. once you reach a certain age, it really doesn't matter at all.

anthonydarko
02/16/09, 12:30 AM
3 year age difference when you're 33 and she's 30 = cool
3 year age difference when you're 17 and she's 14 = not cool
THIS

anthonydarko
02/16/09, 12:32 AM
Why can't you find a nice girl your age?

AP_Punk
02/16/09, 09:26 AM
getup_and_dance evan, is that you?

raychull
02/16/09, 09:28 AM
getup_and_dance evan, is that you?
ahah, did you see my post?

and I wasn't referring to the guy with the username Mitch.

AP_Punk
02/16/09, 09:30 AM
ahah, did you see my post?

and I wasn't referring to the guy with the username Mitch.

hahah. i didn't even notice it was you that made that post. not sure who that mitch is too. :-d

raychull
02/16/09, 09:31 AM
hahah. i didn't even notice it was you that made that post. not sure who that mitch is too. :-d
ahah, it's all good.
I won't give out a username.

andrew4045
02/16/09, 09:32 AM
if she is a freshman and you are a senior the only relationship that should be there is you using her

AP_Punk
02/16/09, 09:38 AM
ahah, it's all good.
I won't give out a username.

i understand. hahah.

what'd you think of those albums i sent you a while back?

framebyframe
02/16/09, 09:39 AM
That is gross. In my experience a lot of people will lose respect in you.

raychull
02/16/09, 09:45 AM
i understand. hahah.

what'd you think of those albums i sent you a while back?

Love Supporting Caste. Haven't really listened to loved ones much, ahah.

Petzl
02/16/09, 09:52 AM
Okay, so I'm wondering why people have such a problem with a 3 year age difference in relationships? I like this girl who's 3 years younger and that's the only reason she says no to going out. I don't think it should matter, so long as we get along well and like each other. She's in grade 9 and I'm in 12, but she's as mature mentally/emotionally as a grade 12. So I'm not seeing the problem here.

Can any GIRLS please give your opinions on this?

I was in the same situation, we dated for almost 3 years but it got to the point where I turned 19, she was still 16, and things really changed...she seemed mature to me when we first started dating too, but college is a different ballgame. Your situation might be a lot different than mine, but i'm just sharing with you how mine turned out...and it did not end because we cheated on each other or anything of that sort at all, it pretty much came down to her not being able to relate to the problems i'd be having here in college while she's still stuck in high school.

Neo Cassady
02/16/09, 10:28 AM
My roommate dated a freshman when he was a senior in HS. I didn't know him then, but they've been together for 6 years and it's not creepy at this point. Probably was when he was 18 and she was 15 though :shrug:

MarsEatWorld
02/16/09, 10:33 AM
i hate how much age matters.

more heart
02/16/09, 10:36 AM
Not really but, 14? I bet she listens to shit bands.

pennie
02/16/09, 10:39 AM
Once she puts out it's all good.

HelpMeSleep
02/16/09, 10:53 AM
On a sidenote...anyone remember that thread that was like "im grade 12 she is grade 9 but she wants me UH OH"
haha. I remember that one!

wroteurname
02/16/09, 11:36 AM
haha. I remember that one!
best.thread.ever.

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 11:38 AM
i don't think it's weird. i dated someone 13 years older than i am and i'm almost 19. so not weird. go for it [=

Greg
02/16/09, 11:40 AM
i think it should be judge on a case by case basis. but for the most part usually big age gaps are a really bad idea. but not always. one of my good buddies right now is "dating" a girl 11 years older than him or so. and she has a kid. it sounds really jacked but knowing the whole situation i am actually cool with it overall. but it seems in most cases something shady is going on.

raychull
02/16/09, 11:40 AM
i don't think it's weird. i dated someone 13 years older than i am and i'm almost 19. so not weird. go for it [=

that's like me going out with my half brother, or any of his friends. awkward.

readyfredi
02/16/09, 11:40 AM
I feel like my age always gets in the way. I graduated early because I hated high school so I've always been around kids three and four years older than me....ugh

MarsEatWorld
02/16/09, 11:41 AM
i don't think it's weird. i dated someone 13 years older than i am and i'm almost 19. so not weird. go for it [=
ew they are now 30 something and you probably weren't even legal

HelpMeSleep
02/16/09, 11:55 AM
i don't think it's weird. i dated someone 13 years older than i am and i'm almost 19. so not weird. go for it [=
how old were you then?

MarsEatWorld
02/16/09, 11:57 AM
how old were you then?
just thinking about it is gross...

PS: i got that lily allen cd yesterday so addicting I love "fuck you"

SomedayTheFire
02/16/09, 11:58 AM
i don't think it's weird. i dated someone 13 years older than i am and i'm almost 19. so not weird. go for it [=
HOLY FUCK!

HelpMeSleep
02/16/09, 11:59 AM
just thinking about it is gross...

PS: i got that lily allen cd yesterday so addicting I love "fuck you"
it is. if I dated someone thirteen years older than me, he would be 32. he would be closer to my dad's age than mine.

it's soooo good. I love that one too. one of my favorites.

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 12:02 PM
how old were you then?

the same age i am now.
and it's not weird to me cos i have always always only hung out with people older than me. that's what happens when life rapes you up the asshole i guess. you get older quicker and people your age seem really immature.

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 12:03 PM
ew they are now 30 something and you probably weren't even legal

i was legal cos we dated the past couple of months.

raychull
02/16/09, 12:04 PM
the same age i am now.
and it's not weird to me cos i have always always only hung out with people older than me. that's what happens when life rapes you up the asshole i guess. you get older quicker and people your age seem really immature.

true. but thirteen years? that's still awkward.

HelpMeSleep
02/16/09, 12:05 PM
the same age i am now.
and it's not weird to me cos i have always always only hung out with people older than me. that's what happens when life rapes you up the asshole i guess. you get older quicker and people your age seem really immature.
how did life rape you up the asshole?

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 12:06 PM
true. but thirteen years? that's still awkward.
he's the same age as my sister. i hang out with my sister. it wasn't awkward and i don't really do the same things that people my age do. i'm sorry if you think it's weird/awkward but it isn't to me. and that's all that matters right? that i find someone who makes me happy.

robat19
02/16/09, 12:06 PM
everyone likes a milf...

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 12:08 PM
how did life rape you up the asshole?

when i was 13/14 my mom died then my grandma and grandpa died then my great uncle died whom i was close to and then my dog then cat died. so pretty much everyone i really loved and cared about died and then i moved 15hrs away from all my friends. that=rapage of the asshole

Swayback
02/16/09, 12:11 PM
the whole age thing in relationships is weird. i think it almost goes by brackets - both by age and by classification. for instance, if you're both in high school then it's okay. if you're both in college, then it's okay. also, as you get older, age difference becomes less significant imo.

HelpMeSleep
02/16/09, 12:12 PM
when i was 13/14 my mom died then my grandma and grandpa died then my great uncle died whom i was close to and then my dog then cat died. so pretty much everyone i really loved and cared about died and then i moved 15hrs away from all my friends. that=rapage of the asshole
ouch. that's rough. yeah, I think that might qualify.

readyfredi
02/16/09, 12:15 PM
the whole age thing in relationships is weird. i think it almost goes by brackets - both by age and by classification. for instance, if you're both in high school then it's okay. if you're both in college, then it's okay. also, as you get older, age difference becomes less significant imo.

I agree but as time goes on one person must go up a bracket....and that makes things hard because there is so many more opportunities for complications.

limepomegranate
02/16/09, 12:15 PM
ouch. that's rough. yeah, I think that might qualify.

yea it is rough still even though it's been so long but you learn to deal and take life as it comes and grow as a person. i probably have 1 friend who's my age so lol that goes to show how life experiences can make you just more prone to being with/dating older people! i just click more with them and i'm not big into partying etc.

atticus1492
02/16/09, 01:49 PM
That is nothing. Last year I dated an eighth grader.

Smeee
02/16/09, 01:55 PM
That is nothing. Last year I dated an eighth grader.

That's hot.

Michifoxx
02/16/09, 03:44 PM
People date like that at my school all the time..
I guess if u really like her, it shouldnt matter what others say.

OdeToTheSun
02/16/09, 03:46 PM
Mitch? Is that you?

edit: Sorry.

Whatever floats your boat, dude.
Hey now rachel, i'm not the only one who is like that...
hahaha.

raychull
02/16/09, 03:51 PM
Hey now rachel, i'm not the only one who is like that...
hahaha.

hey, I wasn't trying to hate.
how's that going, by the way.

OdeToTheSun
02/16/09, 03:59 PM
hey, I wasn't trying to hate.
how's that going, by the way.
Good I guess. I haven't seen her since friday and we had the day off from school today.
I've talked to her though.

Might not see her tomorrow either if i'm not feeling better.

raychull
02/16/09, 04:02 PM
Good I guess. I haven't seen her since friday and we had the day off from school today.
I've talked to her though.

Might not see her tomorrow either if i'm not feeling better.

that's good. I hope you feel better, I just got over being sick.
I had today off as well

OdeToTheSun
02/16/09, 04:11 PM
that's good. I hope you feel better, I just got over being sick.
I had today off as well
Geez, I think she just put in her status box on myspace that she's thinking about me.
I think alot of people had today off, haha.

raychull
02/16/09, 04:13 PM
Geez, I think she just put in her status box on myspace that she's thinking about me.
I think alot of people had today off, haha.
That's nice

hahah, yeah. at least in the bay area.

OdeToTheSun
02/16/09, 04:19 PM
That's nice

hahah, yeah. at least in the bay area.
It's almost kinda weird, but I like it I guess.

Yep. That's the only thing Presidents Day is good for is getting a day off.

raychull
02/16/09, 04:22 PM
It's almost kinda weird, but I like it I guess.

Yep. That's the only thing Presidents Day is good for is getting a day off.
I'm sure you do, haha.

basically.

stayforawhile
02/16/09, 04:53 PM
Nah it's cool, I actually really want on one of my teachers. He's 24, I"m 18. It's completely do-able after graduation.

Greg
02/16/09, 05:31 PM
Nah it's cool, I actually really want on one of my teachers. He's 24, I"m 18. It's completely do-able after graduation.
dang! haha there was a hot teacher from my high school. now that i am a respectable (haha) age of 22 i should ask her out. bwahahaha

EDIT: I just goggled her. I found her on facebook haha i added her as a friend, hopefully she accepts! haha but i also found an online wedding registry for a wedding this July. i missed my chance hahahahaha

billyboatkid
02/16/09, 05:38 PM
For some reason I have this subconscience thing where I only date older girls... My current gf is almost 22 and I'm barely 20. :shrugs:

stayforawhile
02/16/09, 05:38 PM
dang! haha there was a hot teacher from my high school. now that i am a respectable (haha) age of 22 i should ask her out. bwahahaha

EDIT: I just goggled her. I found her on facebook haha i added her as a friend, hopefully she accepts! haha but i also found an online wedding registry for a wedding this July. i missed my chance hahahahaha
hahahah why did you wait so long! Start talking to her and become a home wrecker.

Greg
02/16/09, 05:42 PM
hahahah why did you wait so long! Start talking to her and become a home wrecker.
i never thought about actually doing it. haha i mean she is older than me and i guess i always thought i was too young to even try. but damn if she wasn't engaged i would probably email her tonight (she gave it to me back in the day) and be all like "oh hey what's up? we should catch up?" oh well. no real loss haha

phil19
02/16/09, 06:57 PM
i dont think the issue here is the three year difference. i think the issue here really is the fact that the girls 14.
my gf is 3 years younger than me but she was 18 when i met her so thats a bit different.

acfrue
02/16/09, 07:02 PM
As long as they're legal its fine by me!!!

robat19
02/16/09, 07:13 PM
As long as they're legal its fine by me!!!

Agreed. Ain't too long 'till your sister is legal.


























lolololol jkjkjkjkjkjkjk

swt_catastrophe
02/16/09, 07:17 PM
Not really but, 14? I bet she listens to shit bands.
exactly, and we all know that it's the only thing that really matters.

acfrue
02/16/09, 07:23 PM
Agreed. Ain't too long 'till your sister is legal.


























lolololol jkjkjkjkjkjkjk

Puck you......only 12 more days....

robat19
02/16/09, 07:26 PM
Puck you......only 12 more days....
Go ahead... free shot at my sister...

acfrue
02/16/09, 07:47 PM
Go ahead... free shot at my sister...

lol, no its more like "good luck even talking to her".

robat19
02/16/09, 07:51 PM
lol, no its more like "good luck even talking to her".

Yeah, she's a deaf mute...

areyoukiddingme
02/16/09, 07:55 PM
Nah it's cool, I actually really want on one of my teachers. He's 24, I"m 18. It's completely do-able after graduation.

At Memorial? That's horrible.

acfrue
02/16/09, 07:56 PM
Yeah, she's a deaf mute...

no, she talks to her boyfriend like 24/7.

raychull
02/16/09, 07:57 PM
At Memorial? That's horrible.
I love your avatar. what city is that?

areyoukiddingme
02/16/09, 08:01 PM
I love your avatar. what city is that?

Thanks! It's some of the Philadelphia skyline.

raychull
02/16/09, 08:04 PM
Thanks! It's some of the Philadelphia skyline.
oh sweet. thanks for letting me know, haha.

robat19
02/16/09, 08:08 PM
no, she talks to her boyfriend like 24/7.

Isn't that your sister?

PezMullet
02/16/09, 08:30 PM
my friend's turning 29 in April and his girlfriend just turned 18 yesterday... that's a big age gap. Go for it! it's only 3 little years.

MarsEatWorld
02/16/09, 08:45 PM
my friend's turning 29 in April and his girlfriend just turned 18 yesterday... that's a big age gap. Go for it! it's only 3 little years.
that kinda gives me some hope that I don't need at the moment.

robat19
02/16/09, 08:47 PM
that kinda gives me some hope that I don't need at the moment.

:-d

MarsEatWorld
02/16/09, 08:54 PM
:-d
><

acfrue
02/16/09, 09:19 PM
Isn't that your sister?

Uhhh...yeah?

robat19
02/16/09, 09:33 PM
Uhhh...yeah?

Liek OMG u guyz! I'm trying to talk to my bf!

acfrue
02/16/09, 09:42 PM
Liek OMG u guyz! I'm trying to talk to my bf!

IM TRYINZ TO TEXTZ HIM!!!!

x

x-regenbogen-x
02/17/09, 06:26 AM
you're not creepy. i'm dating a guy that's 3 years older than me. it's no big deal.

bsmith4007
02/17/09, 08:36 AM
I think its okay i love dating younger guys idk why but i do im 16 and the youngest i have dated yet was 13

alltimehoe93
02/17/09, 09:28 AM
I think it's okay but as far as how you're seen, it's just a matter of the particular ages. Like, your ages are going to be seen as a lot creepier than a 22 year old and a 25 year old.
It shouldn't matter if it's okay with you two though.

stayforawhile
02/17/09, 12:24 PM
At Memorial? That's horrible.
No, no, no I go to good ole' St. Rose.

ohheroine
02/17/09, 12:44 PM
my best friend just turned 19 and her boyfriend is 26. they're both legal at this point so, i guess its cool. but as far as being eighteen and interested in a 15 year old... thats weird. if she says no, dont go for it.

areyoukiddingme
02/17/09, 12:55 PM
No, no, no I go to good ole' St. Rose.

That's a great little commute in the morning.

stayforawhile
02/17/09, 02:26 PM
That's a great little commute in the morning.
It's not bad, about 15 to 20 minutes.

worthwaiting
02/19/09, 11:01 PM
When you are both under 18 then bigger age difference is not creepy.. (or when you are both over 18). Well I'm 18 and I'm dating a 23-year old.

Duexy
02/20/09, 02:27 AM
personally don't see what the big deal is

Mxbaby511
02/20/09, 08:17 AM
My boyfriend is four years older than me... Everyone throws a fit about it... But I really dont see the problem.

ohheroine
02/20/09, 03:49 PM
My boyfriend is four years older than me... Everyone throws a fit about it... But I really dont see the problem.

how old are you?

Greg
02/20/09, 03:56 PM
My boyfriend is four years older than me... Everyone throws a fit about it... But I really dont see the problem.
well OF COURSE you don't, otherwise you wouldn't be dating the dude. thanks captain obvious!

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 04:05 PM
I would date an older guy.

Greg
02/20/09, 04:22 PM
I would date an older guy.
oh snap

walking_by91
02/20/09, 04:39 PM
My parents are like 18 years apart. Yuck! haha kidding, it doesn't really bother me but yeah I feel like a huge hypocrit.

Greg
02/20/09, 04:43 PM
My parents are like 18 years apart. Yuck! haha kidding, it doesn't really bother me but yeah I feel like a huge hypocrit.
18 yrs apart for real? i guess it depends when they met. but yeesh. i don't which is older... but lets say it was your dad. when he was your age, your mom wasn't born.

mindblown? haha

walking_by91
02/20/09, 04:51 PM
18 yrs apart for real? i guess it depends when they met. but yeesh. i don't which is older... but lets say it was your dad. when he was your age, your mom wasn't born.

mindblown? haha
hahah yeppp I've thought about that like a million times. It's actually pretty weird, cuz I used to look after kids and i was like woahh weird. ya know? But yeah they met at my Dad's work. My dad and Mom just divorced and she was the secretary... you know how that goes.

samsara
02/20/09, 04:59 PM
meh i dont think that theres anything wrong with age difference. I always like guys that are 24

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 04:59 PM
oh snap
Haha. I wouldd

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:00 PM
meh i dont think that theres anything wrong with age difference. I always like guys that are 24
i like the 21-23 range.

samsara
02/20/09, 05:01 PM
i like the 21-23 range.

ha yeah I like guys from 18-24 but thats just me.

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:04 PM
ha yeah I like guys from 18-24 but thats just me.
that sounds about right.

robat19
02/20/09, 05:06 PM
i like the 21-23 range.
LOLOLOLOL

Bingham88
02/20/09, 05:11 PM
1 or 2 years is my limit i cant deal with the big of a difference. my girlfriends sister is 19 and shes dateing a 30 year old. creeps me out.

samsara
02/20/09, 05:12 PM
that sounds about right.

ha yeah people always think im weird but I always think its the maturity rate.

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:23 PM
LOLOLOLOL
i hate you

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:23 PM
ha yeah people always think im weird but I always think its the maturity rate.
it really is.

robat19
02/20/09, 05:24 PM
i hate you

lol. <3

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:25 PM
lol. <3
no!

robat19
02/20/09, 05:28 PM
no!

M-(

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:28 PM
M-(
*fantasizes about older men*

robat19
02/20/09, 05:30 PM
*fantasizes about older men*

I'm not old enough? ;-)

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:31 PM
I'm not old enough? ;-)
nopeee

robat19
02/20/09, 05:32 PM
nopeee

:-(

MarsEatWorld
02/20/09, 05:33 PM
:-(
Haha.

Greg
02/20/09, 05:40 PM
Haha. I wouldd
it doesn't surprise me i guess. haha i think it depends on the situation with those 2 particular people.

trappedintime
04/15/09, 06:29 AM
My friend is starting to date a 14 year old but she looks like she could be 19. He came to me and asked if it looked weird, and I told him to not mess with her. And then he showed me of picture of her, she's hot. So I just told him to not try anything and if he does, then to be careful.

kwsqd
04/15/09, 06:48 AM
solid advice

Zieb
04/15/09, 07:14 AM
I'm 22, my GF is 16. O.o

I'm just getting my ass ready to be raped for 15 years in prison. >_<

kwsqd
04/15/09, 07:17 AM
I'm 22, my GF is 16. O.o

I'm just getting my ass ready to be raped for 15 years in prison. >_<
How long have you been dating...?

uglystar03
04/15/09, 08:40 AM
i don't think its the age difference that matters, but the actual age.
my sister is dating someone three years older than her, but she's 19 and he's 22.
i don't know, to me 14 and 17 is kind of..wrong?

Hit it right on the head there. The older you get, the greater the acceptable age difference. I don't agree with 18 year olds dating 25 year olds, but 25 and 32 doesn't bother me at all. I think it just depends on where each individual is at in their life.

killerswells
04/15/09, 08:49 AM
so, everyone is talks about older dudes and younger girls. what about the other way around?

i was 18 and dated a girl that was 23. it wasn't weird at first, until my halo playing and pot smoking got in the way.

Kassie09
04/15/09, 08:55 AM
I always think it's weird when girls date younger boys. I mean, it's not weird at all but in my head it feels wrong, I guess because it doesn't seem like the stereotypical thing to do.

but i bet your friends congratulated you profusely on your accomplishments for getting an older girl.

killerswells
04/15/09, 09:12 AM
yeah i was the man for a few weeks. but you are correct, i think she finally realized that not only do girls mature faster than guys, but she was obviously much more mature than an 18 year old freshman.

still though, she taught me things i will never forget. :biggrin:

Kassie09
04/15/09, 09:15 AM
yeah i was the man for a few weeks. but you are correct, i think she finally realized that not only do girls mature faster than guys, but she was obviously much more mature than an 18 year old freshman.

still though, she taught me things i will never forget. :biggrin:

High five!

uglystar03
04/15/09, 09:16 AM
so, everyone is talks about older dudes and younger girls. what about the other way around?

i was 18 and dated a girl that was 23. it wasn't weird at first, until my halo playing and pot smoking got in the way.

I would probably be extremely proud of myself in that situation, unless she was fat and ugly and thats why she dated younger guys.

It's odd to see girls go for guys that are younger. To me, it just doesn't seem right? For some reason, I feel like the guy should be more experienced in life. Maybe I'm just sexist? But if the maturity level matches, I guess it isn't an issue.

killerswells
04/15/09, 09:58 AM
I would probably be extremely proud of myself in that situation, unless she was fat and ugly and thats why she dated younger guys.

It's odd to see girls go for guys that are younger. To me, it just doesn't seem right? For some reason, I feel like the guy should be more experienced in life. Maybe I'm just sexist? But if the maturity level matches, I guess it isn't an issue.

normally, i would say you are correct. girls that go for younger guys are usually fat and/or ugly as sin. this girl was totally hot and on the tennis team at my university.

i met her at a lacrosse party while wasted and impressed her with my rendition of the mc hammer dance.

note to all guys, in order to get hot, older women, learn the mc hammer dance.

Laural666
04/15/09, 10:01 AM
Im 15 and my bf is 19 and eve been together for a hile, he'll be 20 in a month and people give si so much shitt about it but you just have to learn to ignore it when you love someone.

kwsqd
04/15/09, 10:35 AM
Im 15 and my bf is 19 and eve been together for a hile, he'll be 20 in a month and people give si so much shitt about it but you just have to learn to ignore it when you love someone.
how long?

killerswells
04/15/09, 10:44 AM
its one thing to be 18 and he is 22. but really, a guy who is 19 only wants one thing from a girl that is 15 years old...

and that is the fact that when they go out for dinner they can order from the kids menu with no hassles.

.invisible ink.
04/15/09, 10:46 AM
normally, i would say you are correct. girls that go for younger guys are usually fat and/or ugly as sin. this girl was totally hot and on the tennis team at my university.

i met her at a lacrosse party while wasted and impressed her with my rendition of the mc hammer dance.

note to all guys, in order to get hot, older women, learn the mc hammer dance.

i beg to differ. the logic behind your statement is faulty. why would a young, hot guy get with a fat or ugly as sin older woman? Have you not heard of cougars? Cougars are typically hot older women who like younger men. I've never heard of a young guy getting with a gross older woman just for the hell of it when they can get young, hot chicks.

Smeee
04/15/09, 10:46 AM
its one thing to be 18 and he is 22. but really, a guy who is 19 only wants one thing from a girl that is 15 years old...

and that is the fact that when they go out for dinner they can order from the kids menu with no hassles.

Hahaha. To be fair, it's cheaper for the guy to buy his girl dinner, so he's getting a good deal? :shrug:

Kassie09
04/15/09, 10:47 AM
When I was fifteen my boyfriend was nineteen, i think that's fine. However, now that i am eighteen, i look at fourteen year olds as little kids so it kinda seems weird looking back at it that a nineteen year old would want to date a fifteen year old.

killerswells
04/15/09, 10:51 AM
i beg to differ. the logic behind your statement is faulty. why would a young, hot guy get with a fat or ugly as sin older woman? Have you not heard of cougars? Cougars are typically hot older women who like younger men. I've never heard of a young guy getting with a gross older woman just for the hell of it when they can get young, hot chicks.

you are correct. all i said was that older, ugly girls go for younger guys, i never said the young guys actually follow through and sleep with said older/uglier ladies.

and again you are correct, if i ever crossed paths with a cougar, i would let her manhandle me.

.invisible ink.
04/15/09, 10:55 AM
you are correct. all i said was that older, ugly girls go for younger guys, i never said the young guys actually follow through and sleep with said older/uglier ladies.

and again you are correct, if i ever crossed paths with a cougar, i would let her manhandle me.

good to know ;)

uglystar03
04/15/09, 11:09 AM
its one thing to be 18 and he is 22. but really, a guy who is 19 only wants one thing from a girl that is 15 years old...

and that is the fact that when they go out for dinner they can order from the kids menu with no hassles.

I can tell you, that must be one stupid 19 year old then. Have they not heard of statutory rape? I'm scared of prison. I wouldn't even think of touching a minor. Back when I was 18/19 and my girlfriend was 16/17 I was scared to do anything with her, even though her mother loved me and would never turn me in.

killerswells
04/15/09, 11:15 AM
I can tell you, that must be one stupid 19 year old then. Have they not heard of statutory rape? I'm scared of prison. I wouldn't even think of touching a minor. Back when I was 18/19 and my girlfriend was 16/17 I was scared to do anything with her, even though her mother loved me and would never turn me in.

hahahaha. truth. i know me, personally, am too fragile and would not last 10 minutes in jail. plus, my butt is too cute.

funny story to go with this. my gf just told me a story ( she is a nurse). this guy is about to be raped in jail, and to fight back, he uses some kind of shank (probably a carved toothbrush lol) and cuts the attackers balls. it is so bad the guys testicles literally fall out of his body and are merely hanging by his vas deferens ( i think thats what they are, i suck at anatomy).

moral of the story. dont sleep with young girls and end up in jail. you will lose your testicles.

tawtaw
04/15/09, 11:51 AM
I think the 20 year old dating the 15 year old is sketchy as fuck.

caress me down
04/15/09, 12:26 PM
2.5 year difference

zion the lion
04/15/09, 02:33 PM
Im 15 and my bf is 19 and eve been together for a hile, he'll be 20 in a month and people give si so much shitt about it but you just have to learn to ignore it when you love someone.

Thats acutally illegal.

edit: Someone liked me last year who was 10 years older than me, but he's smart enough to wait. I also had someone pretty much stalking me, leaving text messages saying that he fell in love with my eyes last year...he was 28. I'm pretty sure those two only liked me for one reason though. A normal 15 year old and a normal 20 year old dont have much in common.

killerswells
04/15/09, 02:47 PM
when i was with my ex, her neice and i kind of bonded over liking the same music and surfing and whatnot. mind you, she was 14 at the time so it was nothing more than a big brother type thing.

now the girl is 16 and dating some guy who is 18, and she is sleeping with him. from the sounds of what she is telling me, he pretty much manipulates the girl into having sex with him on a daily basis. and if she doesnt sleep with him, he makes her feel guilty and threatens to break up with her. typical 18 year old douche bag.

now, no one knows what is going on besides me, and i have told her multiple times to dump the guy, but she is 16 and "in love" with this moron. i feel obligated to tell her family, and possibly even the police, but then i will be the asshole. and i know it is better to be the asshole now, than to let something bad happen to her, but it still bothers me. help a brotha out...

SomedayTheFire
04/15/09, 02:54 PM
when i was with my ex, her neice and i kind of bonded over liking the same music and surfing and whatnot. mind you, she was 14 at the time so it was nothing more than a big brother type thing.

now the girl is 16 and dating some guy who is 18, and she is sleeping with him. from the sounds of what she is telling me, he pretty much manipulates the girl into having sex with him on a daily basis. and if she doesnt sleep with him, he makes her feel guilty and threatens to break up with her. typical 18 year old douche bag.

now, no one knows what is going on besides me, and i have told her multiple times to dump the guy, but she is 16 and "in love" with this moron. i feel obligated to tell her family, and possibly even the police, but then i will be the asshole. and i know it is better to be the asshole now, than to let something bad happen to her, but it still bothers me. help a brotha out...
Do it. You will regret it later if you don't.

zion the lion
04/15/09, 02:57 PM
when i was with my ex, her neice and i kind of bonded over liking the same music and surfing and whatnot. mind you, she was 14 at the time so it was nothing more than a big brother type thing.

now the girl is 16 and dating some guy who is 18, and she is sleeping with him. from the sounds of what she is telling me, he pretty much manipulates the girl into having sex with him on a daily basis. and if she doesnt sleep with him, he makes her feel guilty and threatens to break up with her. typical 18 year old douche bag.

now, no one knows what is going on besides me, and i have told her multiple times to dump the guy, but she is 16 and "in love" with this moron. i feel obligated to tell her family, and possibly even the police, but then i will be the asshole. and i know it is better to be the asshole now, than to let something bad happen to her, but it still bothers me. help a brotha out...

I've been in enough abusive situations to know thats one of the first signs. And I have enough friends in abusive relationships to know that she's not going to really listen to anything you or anybody else says because she's "in love". She almost has to see it herself.

uglystar03
04/15/09, 03:23 PM
when i was with my ex, her neice and i kind of bonded over liking the same music and surfing and whatnot. mind you, she was 14 at the time so it was nothing more than a big brother type thing.

now the girl is 16 and dating some guy who is 18, and she is sleeping with him. from the sounds of what she is telling me, he pretty much manipulates the girl into having sex with him on a daily basis. and if she doesnt sleep with him, he makes her feel guilty and threatens to break up with her. typical 18 year old douche bag.

now, no one knows what is going on besides me, and i have told her multiple times to dump the guy, but she is 16 and "in love" with this moron. i feel obligated to tell her family, and possibly even the police, but then i will be the asshole. and i know it is better to be the asshole now, than to let something bad happen to her, but it still bothers me. help a brotha out...

If he is manipulating her into having sex, then that is really wrong. She needs to dump his ass. When I was 18 and dating a 16 year old, I never instigated anything. I didn't want to put pressure on her because well, frankly, it was illegal! I would maybe tell her family and see what comes of that. I would feel bad calling the police, because it would likely ruin his life.

killerswells
04/15/09, 03:31 PM
Do it. You will regret it later if you don't.


I'd say maybe talk to your ex? I mean then if she felt the same sort of struggle she could talk to her niece and/or consider telling the girls parents/police. idk, it sounds horrible, not to mention illegal.

That's an awful situation to be in and whether its ending up the asshole or not I'm pretty sure she'll thank you for it later. Bad sexual relationships isn't something you just forget, so this could effect her the rest of her life with future guys.

I've been in enough abusive situations to know thats one of the first signs. And I have enough friends in abusive relationships to know that she's not going to really listen to anything you or anybody else says because she's "in love". She almost has to see it herself.

If he is manipulating her into having sex, then that is really wrong. She needs to dump his ass. When I was 18 and dating a 16 year old, I never instigated anything. I didn't want to put pressure on her because well, frankly, it was illegal! I would maybe tell her family and see what comes of that. I would feel bad calling the police, because it would likely ruin his life.

thank you much. you guys pretty much confirmed what i was going to do. im going to tell my ex, and let her break it to the family. i really dont want to confront them first hand and have to explain why i was speaking to their 16 year old daughter and grand daughter about sleeping with dudes. just, no.

i think getting the police involved is not a good idea either. as much as the dude is probably a little prick, he is just a regular horny teenage boy, and will probably learn his lesson when the girls dad/brothers/friends find out and confront him.

trappedintime
04/15/09, 03:31 PM
I love it when older chicks like me. ...
I love making out with older chicks. ...
I love older chicks. ...
Older chicks... Yea.

killerswells
04/15/09, 03:32 PM
I love it when older chicks like me. ...
I love making out with older chicks. ...
I love older chicks. ...
Older chicks... Yea.

well said.

Mibabalou
04/15/09, 03:36 PM
i always blame the girls

zion the lion
04/15/09, 03:40 PM
I'm going to date some older guy when I turn 18. A rich older guy, in his 30's or 40's, and I'm going to spend all his money on plastic surgery and designer clothes/shoes/a slip and slide...and it will be great.

Mibabalou
04/15/09, 03:44 PM
I'm going to date some older guy when I turn 18. A rich older guy, in his 30's or 40's, and I'm going to spend all his money on plastic surgery and designer clothes/shoes/a slip and slide...and it will be great.

ur not alive

zion the lion
04/15/09, 03:46 PM
ur not alive

Is that possible?

seesky?fly.
04/15/09, 04:50 PM
hey, i like someone at the moment who's like 5/6 years older than me? yeah i know, that's a much bigger age difference, but at the end of the day who gives a shit, it's your own life to live.

Hamlet
04/15/09, 04:53 PM
Age ain't nothin' but a statutory rape charge.

zion the lion
04/15/09, 05:01 PM
hey, i like someone at the moment who's like 5/6 years older than me? yeah i know, that's a much bigger age difference, but at the end of the day who gives a shit, it's your own life to live.

But thats a different age difference. Its you (who's an adult now) liking another adult. This guy was basically an adult and he was dating someone who's still not done with puberty and who's judgment skills still arent fully there.

seesky?fly.
04/15/09, 05:15 PM
But thats a different age difference. Its you (who's an adult now) liking another adult. This guy was basically an adult and he was dating someone who's still not done with puberty and who's judgment skills still arent fully there.

yeah, that's true, but you still do get the same kind of prejudice, i mean, my friends see some kind of problem with it telling me to stop wasting time on people who are just wasting themselves away on younger women, so i guess it is linked to the same kind of situation; just believing in what's going on in the heart and not listening to those around you.

silentstar1134
04/15/09, 05:25 PM
I have actually been in this situation before. It sucks. I would suggest not doing it because that is a problem waiting to happen. I thought I knew the girl a few years younger than me but it turns out that I really didn't. My honest advise is to remain friends and wait. If she sticks around with you until she is of the age onf consent than good for you. But unfortunately, it usually doesnt turn out this way. Prob better to just move on for now though, make your feelings heard and leave,

Laural666
04/16/09, 07:13 AM
how long?
Almost a year.

Laural666
04/16/09, 07:15 AM
Thats acutally illegal.

edit: Someone liked me last year who was 10 years older than me, but he's smart enough to wait. I also had someone pretty much stalking me, leaving text messages saying that he fell in love with my eyes last year...he was 28. I'm pretty sure those two only liked me for one reason though. A normal 15 year old and a normal 20 year old dont have much in common.
I know that and its ony 4 years

Laural666
04/16/09, 07:16 AM
and we have everyhting in common

Chancetobe
04/16/09, 07:27 AM
Even though I'm kinda uncomfortable with it, I'm pretty sure I'm going to wind up with an older man anyway.

But yeah, stay away if they can't consent. If they are worth it, then you'll wait until they are of age, when there will be less complications.

Laural666
04/16/09, 08:10 AM
Age is just a number and i really dont appreciate everyones fucking critisism, its bullshit i love m bf and he loves me and thats all that should matter.
Im really mature for my age and thanks for your support guys it really makes me feel like a great person.

Laural666
04/16/09, 08:14 AM
hey, i like someone at the moment who's like 5/6 years older than me? yeah i know, that's a much bigger age difference, but at the end of the day who gives a shit, it's your own life to live.
Exactly!
You only live once.

Kassie09
04/16/09, 09:59 AM
Wowwww, everyone should stop attacking the Laural girl, Jesus Christ. Her age difference is not that significant, perhaps her boyfriend is slightly immature, she's perhaps mature(just not on the internet) and it works for them. She's obviously not being raped by her boyfriend.

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 12:43 PM
lol

Laural666
04/16/09, 12:53 PM
Yeah but that's not all that DOES matter.
If a 20 year old dude is in love with a 12 year old girl then that love is all that should matter?
Saying 'all you need is love' and 'love is the only thing that matters' 'love is never wrong' is what's bullshit.
You're just a kid and there's a really good reason for the laws about adults being involved with minors.
Forst of all im not fucking 12 years old and people should stop criticizing thats whats bulshit, dont fucking judge me just because you dont think its right okay im mature and i love my bf, i hate guys my age there immature and everything is always about what they can get ut Anthony is not like that at all so stop fucking talking shit about it and everybody just needs to find something else to discuss then me and my 19 year old fucking bf.

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 12:55 PM
Forst of all im not fucking 12 years old and people should stop criticizing thats whats bulshit, dont fucking judge me just because you dont think its right okay im mature and i love my bf, i hate guys my age there immature and everything is always about what they can get ut Anthony is not like that at all so stop fucking talking shit about it and everybody just needs to find something else to discuss then me and my 19 year old fucking bf.
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oh and you have a very very long run on sentence sweetie

Laural666
04/16/09, 12:58 PM
First
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oh and you have a very very long run on sentence sweetie
Wow a run on sentence, who the fuck are you my 3rd grade teacher?
Go get a life really because if al you have to do is sit and criticize people on there run on sentences your life must be just filled with fucking emptiness.

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 01:00 PM
Wow a run on sentence, who the fuck are you my 3rd grade teacher?
Go get a life really because if al you have to do is sit and criticize people on there run on sentences your life must be just filled with fucking emptiness.
all
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and the "must be just filled..." sounds a little weird. try fixing your wording.

Laural666
04/16/09, 01:02 PM
all
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and the "must be just filled..." sounds a little weird. try fixing your wording.
Am i supposed to thank you?

tawtaw
04/16/09, 01:18 PM
You're supposed to get the idea and stop posting.

zion the lion
04/16/09, 01:50 PM
I know that and its ony 4 years

It will ruin his life if youre having a sexual relationship and someone in your family gets tired of it. If youre sending him naked pictures it's kiddie porn, if you have sex its statutory rape, and if he's touching you it's molestation. I dont really care, its your life, but really this guy is going to have to spend the rest of his life going door to door every time he moves saying "hey I'm a registered sex offender for my crimes against minors"...that shit doesnt go over well.

edit: if you really loved him, you would realize there the cons outweigh the pros, and that it would be best to wait, and if he really loved you he wouldnt be having a sexual relationship with you right now (which it seems like he is from your other posts).

killerswells
04/16/09, 02:10 PM
Am i supposed to thank you?

yes. yes you are.



and your 19 year old boyfran is probably sleeping with 6 other 15 year old's with poor grammar. and he most likely "loves" them as much as he "loves" you.

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 02:14 PM
Am i supposed to thank you?
it would be nice to be appreciated. so yes. thank me and say i am your bitch.

Sargent Sausage
04/16/09, 02:19 PM
What difference does this difference in age make?

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 02:24 PM
:-d You have no idea how much I'm appreciating that.
lol no problemo chickadee no problemoooo

blinkme
04/16/09, 02:25 PM
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oh and you have a very very long run on sentence sweetie

this is the best kind of response to a post like that.

cory-182
04/16/09, 02:25 PM
Okay, so I'm wondering why people have such a problem with a 3 year age difference in relationships? I like this girl who's 3 years younger and that's the only reason she says no to going out. I don't think it should matter, so long as we get along well and like each other. She's in grade 9 and I'm in 12, but she's as mature mentally/emotionally as a grade 12. So I'm not seeing the problem here.

Can any GIRLS please give your opinions on this?

Don't do it dude. I'm 23 and dating a 20 year old. Not only do they hold you back from going out to bars (if you do that), but they also are very immature (at least mine is).

Wait until she turns 21 and then see what happens.

killerswells
04/16/09, 02:27 PM
What difference does this difference in age make?

I'm already dead but someone should be caught and held responsible for this bloody mess.

thehereaway
04/16/09, 02:27 PM
Wowwww, everyone should stop attacking the Laural girl, Jesus Christ. Her age difference is not that significant, perhaps her boyfriend is slightly immature, she's perhaps mature(just not on the internet) and it works for them. She's obviously not being raped by her boyfriend.

I agree. A 15 year old girl going out with a 19 year old guy isn't that bad.

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 02:28 PM
this is the best kind of response to a post like that.
why thank you!

zion the lion
04/16/09, 02:38 PM
I agree. A 15 year old girl going out with a 19 year old guy isn't that bad.

Yes boaderline pedophiles should get away with dating and "loving" girls who are just getting out of puberty and dont really know the difference between love and lust...nothing is wrong with a 15 year old dating an almost 20 year old except for the fact that its against the law.

caress me down
04/16/09, 03:28 PM
This is kind of ridiculous I was 15 when I started dating my boyfriend who was 18 at the time and it wasn't a big deal at all, even if it was "against the law".

limepomegranate
04/16/09, 03:54 PM
This is kind of ridiculous I was 15 when I started dating my boyfriend who was 18 at the time and it wasn't a big deal at all, even if it was "against the law".
were you fucking him? that's why everyone's saying it's a big deal i think.

takemyhand
04/16/09, 03:55 PM
a senior dating a freshman?

Not a big age difference, but seems like you'd both be at two different points in your life for it to work out.
Like, she's all excited for 10th grade while your getting reading to be a grown-up and maybe go to college?

But I mean, anything is possible.

&you can't have sex with her until she's legal ;D

AndrewIcex
04/16/09, 06:26 PM
Sometimes... the parents tend to try and step in the way of the older guy and the younger girl relationship, then that makes both parties try to sneak it, it just isn't right, wait till its legal, or just find someone else, trust me... tons of damn people out there for your taking, its not worth going to jail over (guys) and its not worth getting called a slut for (girls), this same thing just happened to a friend of mine, its complicated.

My two cents, the end.

Kozzy333
04/16/09, 07:53 PM
I think the 20 year old dating the 15 year old is sketchy as fuck.

This.

The guy sounds creepy but if you "love" him, go for it I guess.

Michifoxx
04/17/09, 05:55 AM
Why would a 20 year old be looking at 15 year olds in the first place..?

Laural666
04/17/09, 09:49 AM
it would be nice to be appreciated. so yes. thank me and say i am your bitch.
First of all im not your bitch, nor will i ever be your fucking bitch.

limepomegranate
04/17/09, 11:52 AM
First of all im not your bitch, nor will i ever be your fucking bitch.
yes you are. i didn't say we had to fuck but ok i guess. if you want it that way.
now get on your knees and beg me to fuck you.

chicagogirll04
04/17/09, 12:02 PM
I really think it would make your life easier if you just waited until it was legal.
It could turn out really bad for the guy you "love".

tawtaw
04/17/09, 03:57 PM
yes you are. i didn't say we had to fuck but ok i guess. if you want it that way.
now get on your knees and beg me to fuck you.

Hawt.

Sventhegreat
04/17/09, 04:04 PM
This is kind of ridiculous I was 15 when I started dating my boyfriend who was 18 at the time and it wasn't a big deal at all, even if it was "against the law".

YOU'RE kind of ridiculous.

caress me down
04/17/09, 04:40 PM
were you fucking him? that's why everyone's saying it's a big deal i think.
Yes. And we're still going out haha.

caress me down
04/17/09, 04:40 PM
YOU'RE kind of ridiculous.
lol k I'll take that seriously coming from some dude on the internet

bigblue2015
04/17/09, 05:09 PM
This is a completely pointless thread. Everything about it is pointless because the same arguments have been recycled for 5 pages now. Every relationship is different.

AndrewIcex
04/17/09, 07:37 PM
This is a completely pointless thread. Everything about it is pointless because the same arguments have been recycled for 5 pages now. Every relationship is different.


Agreed.period.

limepomegranate
04/17/09, 10:13 PM
Bahahaha, you're my favorite.
lol whythankyou

zion the lion
04/18/09, 12:41 PM
I wasn't even aware of this until last week. A bunch of dudes at my sisters school were passing about naked pics of some chick and now they face kiddie porn chargers and being registered sex offenders. In this situtaion I think the law is wrong. If its minors with naked pictures of minors they shouldn't be charged with that under most circumstances.

I think its funny because in most situations the guys are dicks (like them sending around naked pictures of some girl). In a way it is wrong because once my mom caught me "sexting" and threatened to press charges against my then boyfriend if he ever sent me a dirty text again. I think its ok if both people are above the age of consent, but the law is right when it comes to 12 year olds sending naked pics of each other around.

Trioxide
04/27/09, 05:01 AM
you know, nothing is shocking after knowing people who are 23 and have slept with a 17 year old... so if you like em young, you like em young, just as long both of you are happy.

kdefrisc
04/28/09, 09:18 PM
well the thing is, it's illegal for you to have sex... i guess i could understand having a sexless relationship with someone that much younger but its still a bit... off. i think that the older you get the age difference thing isn't as big of a deal, but for a 14 year old girl, i would say avoid, for everyone's betterment

KenjiBeast
04/28/09, 09:38 PM
Is it bad that I still practice the pube test? i.e. If she's got bush, she's old enough to mess with.

>_> I mean, at least within reason.

Ishbalan
04/29/09, 12:19 PM
Biggest difference I know of is a 19 year old guy and a 13 year old girl. This is one of those intervention kind of things.

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:29 PM
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2008/02/01-07/hugh-hefner-plastic-surgery.jpg

But they're in love!

kwsqd
04/29/09, 12:30 PM
mary, we were just talking about this.

killerswells
04/29/09, 12:32 PM
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2008/02/01-07/hugh-hefner-plastic-surgery.jpg

But they're in love!

im pretty sure he ditched those chicks and got some younger ones that are like 20 years old. thats like a 50 year age difference. nasty.

mmmmmpoetry
04/29/09, 12:33 PM
I dated an eight year old once, but she broke my heart and told me I had cooties.

abbysmith
04/29/09, 12:35 PM
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/famecrawler/2008/02/01-07/hugh-hefner-plastic-surgery.jpg

But they're in love!
They aren't together anymore, but that was funny nonetheless.

Anyhow, bad idea. I know I wouldn't want to date a 17 year old at my age. Even if it's only 3 years apart, at this point in your lives your just on different levels. I'd assume you're starting college soon and she's still in her first year of high school

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:35 PM
im pretty sure he ditched those chicks and got some younger ones that are like 20 years old. thats like a 50 year age difference. nasty.

Yeah, those nasty creepy twins that always dress the same and a few others.

In high school I think 2 years is really the max anyone should go. Freshman are babies, let her be happy with boys her own age.

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:36 PM
They aren't together anymore, but that was funny nonetheless.

Anyhow, bad idea. I know I wouldn't want to date a 17 year old at my age. Even if it's only 3 years apart, at this point in your lives your just on different levels. I'd assume you're starting college soon and she's still in her first year of high school

What the shit you live in Rochester.

abbysmith
04/29/09, 12:37 PM
What the shit you live in Rochester.
Yes, why, do you live near here?

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:39 PM
Yes, why, do you live near here?

Haha yeah I live in Fairport.

abbysmith
04/29/09, 12:41 PM
Haha yeah I live in Fairport.
I live in Brighton, but I go to Penfield. Which blows.

kwsqd
04/29/09, 12:41 PM
I hate Rochesteronians

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:43 PM
I live in Brighton, but I go to Penfield. Which blows.

Really? I have a couple of friends there. At least you guys don't have as many bomb threats or fights as a few years ago!

abbysmith
04/29/09, 12:44 PM
Really? I have a couple of friends there. At least you guys don't have as many bomb threats or fights as a few years ago!
Yeah, those bomb threats got really, really annoying. I'm so glad people haven't done them in a while.

lovely864md
04/29/09, 12:47 PM
Yeah, those bomb threats got really, really annoying. I'm so glad people haven't done them in a while.

Didn't you guys get in the Guinness Book or something? I went to the homecoming game there two years ago and all the security guards and everything really weirded me out.

abbysmith
04/29/09, 12:51 PM
Didn't you guys get in the Guinness Book or something? I went to the homecoming game there two years ago and all the security guards and everything really weirded me out.
I have no idea if we did, but that would have been awesome. And all the security guards are pretty weird, but some of them are actually kind of nice. They're less creepy then they were in the middle school.