so my girlfriend's going out drinking tonight

[SingleDoubt]

okay, so last night i was talking to my girlfriend and i asked what she was doing tonight. she told me she was going out drinking with some girls and guys. now, this may not seem like a big thing, but when she gets drunk, she basically blacks out and doesnt know what she's doing and gets really horny. so i said (not this bluntly of course) "don't do anything stupid." so this gets her pissed off and she starts bitching about how i dont trust her around guys.

the fact is, the last time she got drunk, she called up one of her guy friends and started talking dirty to him. she says she can't remember doing that, but her friends swear it's true. so this time she's gonna be right there with these guys, not just on the phone with them. so i'm asking the guys out there, if this was your girlfriend, would you be a little upset too? am i right to be this uncomfortable or am i just being a controlling asshole?

[TJ.Wells]

i think your completely in the right, but you know women...

[Jra1]

nowt much you can do really, til you find out she fucked all of them at once in the club toilet

[SonEric84]

That's dumb...I think you're right.

[popdisaster00]

i'm on your side. i would be pissed.

[xglassjawx]

I agree

[FinchBulldog2]

Ya, I'd be disappointed with the drunken slut as well.

[Stereo Mike]

Ya, I'd be disappointed with the drunken slut as well.
hahaha. nice. But yeah, you're completely in the right.

[Vanity__Dearest]

i would just do exactly what she does. go out with my guy friends and a bunch of girls, and let her know the day she's going out. she's doing it for attention.

filthy whore.

[xglassjawx]

i would just do exactly what she does. go out with my guy friends and a bunch of girls, and let her know the day she's going out. she's doing it for attention.

filthy whore.
Yeah that'd give her a taste of her own medicine haha :D

[Goober Snacks]

Ive felt this way before to, and felt like i was being a controlling asshole. but the truth was i was just worried about her. But if i were you i would go with her.

[xglassjawx]

Yeah i'd be worried about her if that was my girlfriend

[xYouFailMex]

i would just do exactly what she does. go out with my guy friends and a bunch of girls, and let her know the day she's going out. she's doing it for attention.

filthy whore.I agree. silly slut......

[SingleDoubt]

Ive felt this way before to, and felt like i was being a controlling asshole. but the truth was i was just worried about her. But if i were you i would go with her.
well, i cant go out with her... no one wants to go out with a chaperone, especially not their boyfriend. plus i dont know any of the people she's going out with, it would be too wierd. i just wish she could go out and not get drunk. i mean, you dont have to get drunk to have fun

[Kid Kilowatt]

I am on her side, as there is a ninety-nine percent chance that she will give one of her male friends head, and this will lead to your suicide, which means everyone, except you, will win.

[xglassjawx]

i mean, you dont have to get drunk to have fun
Exactly

[SingleDoubt]

the thing that really sucks about this whole thing, is that if she does hook up with one of these kids, it's pretty much assured that i wont ever hear about it.

[FinchBulldog2]

the thing that really sucks about this whole thing, is that if she does hook up with one of these kids, it's pretty much assured that i wont ever hear about it.
Go bang some random skank just in case.

[preppyak]

the thing that really sucks about this whole thing, is that if she does hook up with one of these kids, it's pretty much assured that i wont ever hear about it.

Hmm, well if you can't go with her, play it the opposite way. Even if you don't, pretend you trust her completely.

If she doesn't do anything bad, it scores you points on her good side for the trust. If she fucks up and does something bad, you have even more reason to be mad because you trusted her.

Really, as much as it sucks to think about, it might be the best way to do it, because she is gonna go drink either way.

Wish you the best luck man.

[SingleDoubt]

Hmm, well if you can't go with her, play it the opposite way. Even if you don't, pretend you trust her completely.

If she doesn't do anything bad, it scores you points on her good side for the trust. If she fucks up and does something bad, you have even more reason to be mad because you trusted her.

Really, as much as it sucks to think about, it might be the best way to do it, because she is gonna go drink either way.

Wish you the best luck man.
that's the best advice ive heard all day. you're the shit, dude, thanks!

[Katie Schmitz]

Sorry to say but if your g/f really cared about you she'd be responsible about her actions. It's that simple!

[FinchBulldog2]

that's the best advice ive heard all day. you're the shit, dude, thanks!
So...where in Boston is this drunken slut gonna be tonight?

[SC0926]

Sorry to say but if your g/f really cared about you she'd be responsible about her actions. It's that simple!
yeah...i sorta agree, If she really cared about how u felt, shed let u come out with them...or something of that nature. Something to reassure u. But I agree with preppyak. Thats probably the best thing u can do.

[Spicoli hey bud]

I'll take good care of her tonight, I promise

nah, just kidding, why don't you just go out with her?

[Vanity__Dearest]

if she does anything...don't tell her you know, and fuck her best friend.

[oldwirehands]

Why are you not drinking with her. My girlfriend gets flirty and horny when she gets drunk. She flirted with some dude right in front of me. When I told her that I was pissed about she started crying and saying "I love you so much. I didn't say any of those things".

If my girlfriend ever planned to drink around guys without me, I'd say, striaight up, it would make me extremely uncomfortable and might have a huge damper on our relationship.

Try to get on the drinking. If you can't tell her you don't feel comfortable with her doing that stuff when you're not there. If she's not willing to compromise, ditch her. Take a stand and put your foot down. If she cares about you, she'll compromise and would hate the thought of you leaving her.

[Caleb Cattivera]

just tell her youre going out with a bunch of girls. see what she says.

[Spicoli hey bud]

Why are you not drinking with her. My girlfriend gets flirty and horny when she gets drunk. She flirted with some dude right in front of me. When I told her that I was pissed about she started crying and saying "I love you so much. I didn't say any of those things".

If my girlfriend ever planned to drink around guys without me, I'd say, striaight up, it would make me extremely uncomfortable and might have a huge damper on our relationship.

Try to get on the drinking. If you can't tell her you don't feel comfortable with her doing that stuff when you're not there. If she's not willing to compromise, ditch her. Take a stand and put your foot down. If she cares about you, she'll compromise and would hate the thought of you leaving her.you don't even have to drink
just go out with her

[Vanity__Dearest]

Why are you not drinking with her. My girlfriend gets flirty and horny when she gets drunk. She flirted with some dude right in front of me. When I told her that I was pissed about she started crying and saying "I love you so much. I didn't say any of those things".

If my girlfriend ever planned to drink around guys without me, I'd say, striaight up, it would make me extremely uncomfortable and might have a huge damper on our relationship.

Try to get on the drinking. If you can't tell her you don't feel comfortable with her doing that stuff when you're not there. If she's not willing to compromise, ditch her. Take a stand and put your foot down. If she cares about you, she'll compromise and would hate the thought of you leaving her.compromising is fine. compromising on stupid things, such as a g/f needing to drink, isn't compromising...it's never that necessary to go out and drink when your in a relationship. if your girlfriend says that, and you aren't over 30, and have business friends, something is wrong or very fucked up in your relationship.

[SingleDoubt]

well, here's a happy ending... she ended up not going out cause it was gonna be all guys. we ended up just talking on the phone all night. thanks for all your help, guys

[Vanity__Dearest]

well, here's a happy ending... she ended up not going out cause it was gonna be all guys. we ended up just talking on the phone all night. thanks for all your help, guysno prob man, good luck.

[Caleb Cattivera]

yeah dude, glad it worked out. im sure you felt like shit all day...been there, done that. hope your weekend goes well too.

[xglassjawx]

if she does anything...don't tell her you know, and fuck her best friend.
A FUCKING MEN

[aminorthreat55]

Get a better girlfriend, problem solved.

[xglassjawx]

Get a better girlfriend, problem solved.
Or that, but Matts way seems more fun :D

[I am all talk]

what an uneventful ending

[allelish]

well, here's a happy ending... she ended up not going out cause it was gonna be all guys. we ended up just talking on the phone all night. thanks for all your help, guysUgh what a whore.

[Kram41]

well, i cant go out with her... no one wants to go out with a chaperone, especially not their boyfriend.
Your girlfriend thinks of you as worse than a chaperone? Strike one.

plus i dont know any of the people she's going out with, it would be too wierd.
I go out with people I don't know all the time and it's usually more fun meeting new people. Strike two.

i just wish she could go out and not get drunk. i mean, you dont have to get drunk to have fun
Strike three.

But seriously...my girlfriend and I go to schools four hours away from each other and we go party at our respective schools all the time. If you can't trust each other to stay within certain boudaries, you're probably in the wrong relationship. Just go have a good time yourself because otherwise you'll just be worrying the whole night.

[NameTaken69]

i think your right to be worried if she has done stuff like that in the past, she should realize that and respect why you are worried, but girls will be girls

[PunkDrums182]

okay, so last night i was talking to my girlfriend and i asked what she was doing tonight. she told me she was going out drinking with some girls and guys. now, this may not seem like a big thing, but when she gets drunk, she basically blacks out and doesnt know what she's doing and gets really horny. so i said (not this bluntly of course) "don't do anything stupid." so this gets her pissed off and she starts bitching about how i dont trust her around guys.

the fact is, the last time she got drunk, she called up one of her guy friends and started talking dirty to him. she says she can't remember doing that, but her friends swear it's true. so this time she's gonna be right there with these guys, not just on the phone with them. so i'm asking the guys out there, if this was your girlfriend, would you be a little upset too? am i right to be this uncomfortable or am i just being a controlling asshole?
That's why I don't date girls who drink

[Jason Tate]

okay, so last night i was talking to my girlfriend and i asked what she was doing tonight. she told me she was going out drinking with some girls and guys. now, this may not seem like a big thing, but when she gets drunk, she basically blacks out and doesnt know what she's doing and gets really horny. so i said (not this bluntly of course) "don't do anything stupid." so this gets her pissed off and she starts bitching about how i dont trust her around guys.

the fact is, the last time she got drunk, she called up one of her guy friends and started talking dirty to him. she says she can't remember doing that, but her friends swear it's true. so this time she's gonna be right there with these guys, not just on the phone with them. so i'm asking the guys out there, if this was your girlfriend, would you be a little upset too? am i right to be this uncomfortable or am i just being a controlling asshole?
Been there, dealt with that. Fuck girls and alcohol.

[ghostyouare]

Been there, dealt with that. Fuck girls and alcohol.
Girls and alcohol are the only ways i can get action.

[apoemtothedead]

Girls and alcohol are the only ways i can get action.
damn. you can get action? :( lucky.

[ghostyouare]

damn. you can get action? :( lucky.
Well it was a guy who looked liek a girl and at this point in my life ill take anything.

[apoemtothedead]

Well it was a guy who looked liek a girl and at this point in my life ill take anything.
christine?

[swirlofhues]

christine?

i hit on men.

[richter915]

I would totally beat the shit outta her

seriously, I would never date a girl who thinks it's fun to go out and get shitfaced...not in my bag of chips if ya know what I mean.

[monkeyboy14]

I am on her side, as there is a ninety-nine percent chance that she will give one of her male friends head, and this will lead to your suicide, which means everyone, except you, will win.
Seriously do you have to be an arsehole all of the time?

[ghostyouare]

christine?
ok i would take almost anything.

[SingleDoubt]

I would totally beat the shit outta her

seriously, I would never date a girl who thinks it's fun to go out and get shitfaced...not in my bag of chips if ya know what I mean.
thats a good solution... im gonna remember that, one drink = one black eye

[Darren McLeod]

thats a good solution... im gonna remember that, one drink = one black eye
"How does beers after work sound, Ted?"
"Sounds like Martha's gonna have another black eye to explain to the neighbours!"

[dave vegan]

make her listen to throwdown records on repeat until she's completely brocore and true 'til death.

[de la sympathie]

I'm on your side. If she's going out, why don't you jsut tell her you're going to go with her? That way, she can't whore herself off without you noticing. And then you might be able to stop her from doing something she may later regret.

[kissthelipless]

you should go out drinking and have sex with a whole bunch of your women friends, show her whos boss.

[ColorMeBlue]

i agree with what everyone said about trusting her, at the same time you should make it clear that you dont feel comfortable with her going out and drinking with guys. Especially with the past experiences you say she has had.

At the same time, give her credit that she didnt just go with all those guys, it means that she was at least considarate of how you would feel.

im glad everything worked out.

[StartingLine182]

I would totally beat the shit outta her

seriously, I would never date a girl who thinks it's fun to go out and get shitfaced...not in my bag of chips if ya know what I mean.


Im with this idea.

[JHallow]

i would of turned up to wear she was going, with a few ladies, pretend i didnt see her and make sure she saw me.... then id look like i was having the best time ever. that should cut her up........ or piss her off

[xkimbox]

Drinking causes so many problems.

That's why I don't do it! :bigsmile:
XXX

[Tyler Revolution]

well, i cant go out with her... no one wants to go out with a chaperone, especially not their boyfriend. plus i dont know any of the people she's going out with, it would be too wierd. i just wish she could go out and not get drunk. i mean, you dont have to get drunk to have fun
I didn't read this whole thread, so just to this post, but that's stupid. There's no reason you shouldn't be able to go with her.

Drinking causes so many problems.

That's why I don't do it! :bigsmile:
XXX
Fuck off.

[crit]

I'm with you.

[Tyler Revolution]

Avril?

[Nick Lopez]

Avril?
that's hwat i thought too.