leaving after graduation

[moronindisguise]

i have a question. my lady and i have been together for 2 years. her parents don't like me and we arent allowed to see each other right now. i graduated last year and she's graduating in december, but she turns 18 in Feb. we want to get a place together so we can finally hangh out ----so here is my question. can she move out of her house and away from her parents without their consent after she graduates, or are we going to have to wait until February?

[xYouFailMex]

Your going to wait until February when she turns 18. Technically her parents don't "own" her anymore.

[Kid Kilowatt]

I hope you realize that this is a road to welfare, and it is a waste of your youth. It may take a few months, but you'll realize that you'd rather be out philandering with other women.

[roxy]

If you want to get a place together to hang out with her that seems like a huge waste of money for you and her. Hang out somewhere that doesn't charge rent.

[FinchBulldog2]

i have a question. my lady and i have been together for 2 years. her parents don't like me and we arent allowed to see each other right now. i graduated last year and she's graduating in december, but she turns 18 in Feb. we want to get a place together so we can finally hangh out ----so here is my question. can she move out of her house and away from her parents without their consent after she graduates, or are we going to have to wait until February?
You took your disguise off.

[moronindisguise]

we want to live together, i didnt mean just hang out, i was just half assing the post. haha. i just want to be with m'lady. and she hates it at her house. call me stupid if you want, but im sure that you guys wouldnt want people downing your plans when you have problems. i was just looking for advise. i guess i looked at the wrong place

[roxy]

its just like the other kid say look into the future and quality of life you would have if you proceeded with your plan. i didnt mean to make you upset.

[moronindisguise]

thats the thing though. i live with my parents right now and it SUCKS so bad. i dont have anyone to talk to really because im in this small ass town full of rednecks. plus she's my best friend and we get along SO well. i know financially its not the best idea, but emotionally and mentally. i can't wait. it sucks so bad where im at in life right now.

[roxy]

if it is that bad then you need to get out of there. are either of you going to school, do either of you have even enough money or a job to even pay for rent. most places want first, last, and deposit.

[moronindisguise]

we knew we wanted out like 2 months ago, so we started saving. we have like 1200 dollars saved up so we can get a place. and its a kinda small city where we want to go so places arent too expensive. she'll be going to beauty school to get it out of the way. and im wanting to go back to college either in the spring or next fall

[roxy]

then why not try it out, just be careful and stay on good terms with your families so in case you guys mess up you have someone to fall back on.

[moronindisguise]

haha, yeah, exactly. thank you : ))

[noodledancer]

i'm a bit of a cynic by nature, so don't be too upset with this: would it be possible for you two to move out of your parents' homes, but not live together? you two are still pretty young & living with someone isn't easy- what would happen if you broke up? it might be a good idea to take things a bit slower. plus, it may prevent/limit pissing off your families. speaking of which, wait 'til she's 18... it'll make things less messy.

good luck with whatever you decide.

[sleepygrlgreen]

i'm a bit of a cynic by nature, so don't be too upset with this: would it be possible for you two to move out of your parents' homes, but not live together? you two are still pretty young & living with someone isn't easy- what would happen if you broke up? it might be a good idea to take things a bit slower. plus, it may prevent/limit pissing off your families. speaking of which, wait 'til she's 18... it'll make things less messy.

good luck with whatever you decide.ditto.

what noodledancer said is pretty solid advice. don't go into this too fast. i know how great the idea of you two finally being together sounds, but you should take it slow. good luck!

[selftitled85]

we knew we wanted out like 2 months ago, so we started saving. we have like 1200 dollars saved up so we can get a place. and its a kinda small city where we want to go so places arent too expensive. she'll be going to beauty school to get it out of the way. and im wanting to go back to college either in the spring or next fall


got bad news written all over it. no matter where you go if the place is cheap then you will just get the shaft on utilities. then you have to find a decent paying job as she is in school. her parents may not like you and you might hate it at home but once your in the real world and completely break off from them you will realize how bad of a mistake this is.

[radiofriendly]

got bad news written all over it. no matter where you go if the place is cheap then you will just get the shaft on utilities. then you have to find a decent paying job as she is in school. her parents may not like you and you might hate it at home but once your in the real world and completely break off from them you will realize how bad of a mistake this is.
yeah man, seriously evaluate the relationship and the situation. you wanting to move out to be with her, and her hating living at home doesn't mean you 'live on love'. i promise i understand the situation, but you seriously can't ride that wave. regardless of what you might think, you've gotta prioritze. you got think about what's gonna get you by. i just don't think this is the type of situation where you can just solve things as they come. i'd do some more planning. you'll probably need more than 1200 dollars every two months. im sure you know that, though. word