Attentions whores

[oldwirehands]

My girlfriend loves guys. She loves to flirt. She loves to attract attention. She wants to be with me forever (so she says). We've been together for going on 5 months. I wanted to make this last but I'm thinking with her love for attenion, its not going to happen. Anyone ever been in a situation like this?

[Stereo Mike]

I haven't but i've seen it happen to some of my friends. I guess you've just got to trust that she won't go too far.

[oldwirehands]

I haven't but i've seen it happen to some of my friends. I guess you've just got to trust that she won't go too far.

I trust her but it just really bothers me. I want to stay with her. I want to get past it but I've tried and tried and I can't. Especially since she cheated on me the first two weeks we were dating. She has gained a lot of trust with me since then but its been 5 months since that happened and I'm still getting over it.

[Stereo Mike]

I trust her but it just really bothers me. I want to stay with her. I want to get past it but I've tried and tried and I can't. Especially since she cheated on me the first two weeks we were dating. She has gained a lot of trust with me since then but its been 5 months since that happened and I'm still getting over it.
You really need to ask her to tone down all the flirting stuff if it bothres you this much. If she says she wants to be together forever then i'm pretty sure she'd do it.

[swirlofhues]

well, if the relationship doesn't last i think you should just forget about it and have fun with her. the less you worry, the more she'll want to be with you.

[Saves The Night]

Bubu Sk8er I have missed your threads lol I was actually getting worried you had disappeared since i hadnt seen one in a while.

[b e L I E v e]

ask her for a threesome

[futurebreed]

I was in that situation a while back and it ended ugly with her cheating on me three times in two nights. I guess you just have to hope for the best and pray she's faithful, or find someone who you know you can trust

[Rebs]

my best friend is like this, and she has some huge insecurity problems

[oldwirehands]

Bubu Sk8er I have missed your threads lol I was actually getting worried you had disappeared since i hadnt seen one in a while.

Haha Well, I'm glad some people have noticed I've been gone. I never get on that much because:

a) My Dad disabled my account so I can only go online when my brother comes home from school.
b) I'm with my girlfriend pretty much all day, every day.

I would be on more if my Dad didn't have my account disabled or have internet access on a schedule.

You really need to ask her to tone down all the flirting stuff if it bothres you this much. If she says she wants to be together forever then i'm pretty sure she'd do it.

I brought it up to her. I don't mind it so much when I'm around her. Its when she posts these pictures of herself on myspace for the attention and going around flirting with guys at school and shit. She hasn't given me a direct answer yet but whenever I do bring up a problem I have, she makes the good effort to fix it.

well, if the relationship doesn't last i think you should just forget about it and have fun with her. the less you worry, the more she'll want to be with you.

I don't have to worry about her cheating on me or leaving me. I know she won't. Its not a matter of trust, I just don't like her needing attention from other guys all the time.

my best friend is like this, and she has some huge insecurity problems

I think my girlfriend does to but she's getting better slowly. I got her to admit she has a nice body a few times. She has a smokin' body.

[preppyak]

I got her to admit she has a nice body a few times. She has a smokin' body.

You have experienced the advantages of a hot girlfriend, now you are entering some of the downfalls. If she is hot, guys are going to give her lots of attention, I shouldn't need to point that out. And its gotta be damn hard to turn down that kind of attention, but I wouldn't know, I'm not handsome/hot.

If you know she's not gonna cheat, why worry? Plus, it can give you the chance to throw even more attention her way, which can almost never end badly for you. :fuck:

[Blueskyburning]

meh, my last girlfriend was a bit of a flirt with other guys, whenever we went to any of my friend's parties she'd be pretty flirty. it did piss me off a little, but at the end of the day i knew she' d never cheat, i know she isn't like that anyway. if any guys had made a move though, they woulda been laid out on the floor.

[splitsecond]

You better be good in bed, or she is gonna whore out like mad crazy.

[Kid Kilowatt]

If you believe five months is long enough to know you want to be together forever, then you're not only pathetic, but you're also morons.

[reallygotta09]

My girlfriend loves guys. She loves to flirt. She loves to attract attention. She wants to be with me forever (so she says). We've been together for going on 5 months. I wanted to make this last but I'm thinking with her love for attenion, its not going to happen. Anyone ever been in a situation like this?

she seems like Melanie from the Real World

[Tyler Revolution]

Especially since she cheated on me the first two weeks we were dating.
You should have ended it right there.

[pnkifymecaptain]

Dude flirty girls are bad news..the only thing you have to hold onto is the fact that shell come back to you no matter what she does with other dudes. It does bother me to see the girl i adore be like that, i like her so much, but the fact shes a flirty girl and has that flirty personality just makes things hard. But at least youve been with her for a while.

[ColorMeBlue]

sometimes what guys call flirty is what girls call getting to know someone. I know that at one point i had a boyfriend who thought i was being flirty, but honestly the way i talked with my guy friends and girl friends is all the same. What he was considering flirting was just me talking to my friends. Eventually i figured that if it made him so uncomfortable id have to tone down the way i acted with guys, and he understood. That, and growing up with my dad i just naturally get along with guys better, so when i talk to them as friends it just seems normal to treat them the same way as i treat girls.

[oldwirehands]

If you believe five months is long enough to know you want to be together forever, then you're not only pathetic, but you're also morons.

Yeah, it would seem that way. This is different. Way different than her or I have ever experienced. We both want to make it work because we love eachother. If something comes up down the road that we can't work out, then I guess thats it. The only real thing that could end this relationship is if she cheats (again). The only reason I took her back the first time is that I had a good feeling about her, one that I never had. That, and I could really tell she thought of it as her biggest mistake.

Eh, anyone could analyze this relationship anyway they want but if you saw us together, you'd know we were in love.

You have experienced the advantages of a hot girlfriend, now you are entering some of the downfalls. If she is hot, guys are going to give her lots of attention, I shouldn't need to point that out. And its gotta be damn hard to turn down that kind of attention, but I wouldn't know, I'm not handsome/hot.

If you know she's not gonna cheat, why worry? Plus, it can give you the chance to throw even more attention her way, which can almost never end badly for you. :fuck:

I already made a thread about how I get sex everyday. She loves the way I fuck her haha.

sometimes what guys call flirty is what girls call getting to know someone. I know that at one point i had a boyfriend who thought i was being flirty, but honestly the way i talked with my guy friends and girl friends is all the same. What he was considering flirting was just me talking to my friends. Eventually i figured that if it made him so uncomfortable id have to tone down the way i acted with guys, and he understood. That, and growing up with my dad i just naturally get along with guys better, so when i talk to them as friends it just seems normal to treat them the same way as i treat girls.

Noooo, this is flirting. Its not that, that bugs me, its the fact that she trys to attract all this attention from the oppisite sex even when I'm not with her. She said its always been easier to make guy friends. Duh, its easier for me to make girl friends to. Do I need to explain anymore?

I think we have it all worked out. If I have to have this kind of conversation with her again, its going to be ugly.

[Kid Kilowatt]

Yeah, it would seem that way. This is different. Way different than her or I have ever experienced.
You're fifteen, or so, you haven't experienced anything.

[lackofcolour 13]

well, if the relationship doesn't last i think you should just forget about it and have fun with her. the less you worry, the more she'll want to be with you.
yeah. Im way to wrapped up in this girl that I adore. And Im starting to wonder if Im reading into highschool romance too much.

[oldwirehands]

You're fifteen, or so, you haven't experienced anything.

Since when are my girlfriend and I fifteen?

[tragic.beauty]

Hmm....attention whores suck. There are male versions, too, but females can be worse, I guess. I hope you can trust her, and good luck deciding what to do!

[getupkid53]

Since when is my girlfriend and I fifteen?
Since when ARE my girlfriend and I fifteen. You're improper use of grammar is not helping your cause buddy boy.

Regardless, it will never stop. If it bothers you now, think of how much worse it will be when you are engaged, married, pregnant, and eventually parents. It's all downhill if she doesn't clean up her act immediately. If you're a nice guy, there is no reason for you to settle for someone you don't trust, or don't think is perfect. Compromising your dreams is why relationships end up in divorce. You will find the right one someday, don't sweat it now. The average age for couples to get married is 25 - 27 y/o.

[oldwirehands]

Since when ARE my girlfriend and I fifteen. You're improper use of grammar is not helping your cause buddy boy.

Regardless, it will never stop. If it bothers you now, think of how much worse it will be when you are engaged, married, pregnant, and eventually parents. It's all downhill if she doesn't clean up her act immediately. If you're a nice guy, there is no reason for you to settle for someone you don't trust, or don't think is perfect. Compromising your dreams is why relationships end up in divorce. You will find the right one someday, don't sweat it now. The average age for couples to get married is 25 - 27 y/o.

I knew 'is' didn't sound right. I don't care when I'm hung over.

This girl is perfect for me. I'm the one with the personality disorders. Its all in my fucking head. I need psychiatric help and soon. This sucks.

I'm having an episode again. I told her I didn't want to talk to her because I was depressed and fell asleep around 9pm. I woke up at 6 to find a bunch of texts and voice mails from her. Five hours later, I'm still not wanting to talk to her or anyone really. I'm debating if I should take some Nyquil and go back to bed.

[richter915]

she's gonna fuck you over...then when you break it off, she'll cry and blame it on you.

get rid of her ASAP, relationships are a waste of time.

[b e L I E v e]

i swear i look at this post again and thought it said

Attention: Whores

instead of attention whores

woah

[SLADE775]

ask her for a threesome
Best idea ever.

[Anton Djamoos]

Threesomes are overrated.

[oldwirehands]

Threesomes are overrated.

"I can't do it, I'm not an orgy guy! I'd have to change the way I live! The way I dress! I would have to get new friends! I'd need orgy friends! Nope, can't do it."

[Jra1]

the amount of 3somes i've been offered is unreal... guy asked me to share his girlfriend, and twice 2 girls have asked me. now i don't know about you guys but 3 seems pretty high for me... considering the shortish length of my sexual escapades

also, in 1 day i had 2 seperate girls ask me to pee on them. - i swear im cursed.


or blessed if you're into that thing
(for the record i've taken up none of the offers... and the 1 i did think about, fell through anyway)

[oldwirehands]

the amount of 3somes i've been offered is unreal... guy asked me to share his girlfriend, and twice 2 girls have asked me. now i don't know about you guys but 3 seems pretty high for me... considering the shortish length of my sexual escapades

also, in 1 day i had 2 seperate girls ask me to pee on them. - i swear im cursed.


or blessed if you're into that thing
(for the record i've taken up none of the offers... and the 1 i did think about, fell through anyway)

Eh, thats the UK for ya.

[Jra1]

Eh, thats the UK for ya.
sluts are the only thing we have going for us