I have problems...

[Mesthead!]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?

[Duexy]

3/10

[npmshah]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?
it is perfectly alrgiht to not have had your first kiss by 16 (though it is shocking, since from your profile pic you seem very pretty :-))
it just shows that you are picky, and when it comes to picking a partner, that is a great trait to have :-)
never rush into a relationship with a creep, you WILL regret it...
i am very sure you will get your first kiss soon, but try broadening your horizons... try new things and meet new people, i met my first girlfriend through outside activities
to be honest, i just got my first kiss last november at the age of 15, and it was actualy great knowing it was with someone i really liked...
if you like those guys, flirt with them and ask THEM out if theyre too scared to ask you, that is all i could think of for now, if you need more i would be glad to help :-)

[anthonydarko]

Honestly don't worry about having a boyfriend, not having a significant other is not the end of the world. Just enjoy being 16 and not having a lot of responsibility yet. Good things come for those who wait.

[phil19]

Honestly don't worry about having a boyfriend, not having a significant other is not the end of the world. Just enjoy being 16 and not having a lot of responsibility yet. Good things come for those who wait.

this

[fatweasel]

yeah his right - no big deal not having your first kiss. I didnt get mine til 17. then i did and it was fuckin sweet. And if thats you in your profile pic and you asked some boy you like out...im sure he'd be pretty stoked. providing your not a creep - just be playful and fun. and you will pwn every time.

[WakeUpBlondie]

it is perfectly alrgiht to not have had your first kiss by 16 (though it is shocking, since from your profile pic you seem very pretty :-))
it just shows that you are picky, and when it comes to picking a partner, that is a great trait to have :-)
never rush into a relationship with a creep, you WILL regret it...
i am very sure you will get your first kiss soon, but try broadening your horizons... try new things and meet new people, i met my first girlfriend through outside activities
to be honest, i just got my first kiss last november at the age of 15, and it was actualy great knowing it was with someone i really liked...
if you like those guys, flirt with them and ask THEM out if theyre too scared to ask you, that is all i could think of for now, if you need more i would be glad to help :-)

...and you have an Alesanal avatar.

[Kassie09]

It's not really a big deal, lots of super pretty girls don't have/have never had a boyfriend, you probably shouldn't determine your self worth based on boys.

[kianacarly]

I'm sixteen and have had one boyfriend, and even though we dated for a while we never really got that serious. I actually enjoy being single, and having a boyfriend just for the sake of having one is ridiculous. My friends are always saying I need a boyfriend, and I think it's better just to like someone and go from there, not just to have one to say that you do. The only guys who ask me out are creepy too. A guy likes me now, and apparently is planning on telling me. He's an acquaintance of mine, but honestly the first time I ever saw him, I thought he was mentally challenged, haha.

Don't rush it. Sixteen isn't that old and you still have time.

[thesafeword]

Stop trying so hard.

[OldJersey]

Jeez i wish this were my biggest problem in life.....

[framebyframe]

A lot of people in your town smell like poo

[speakhandsforme]

If it makes you feel better, love life isn't everything. At 16, I was sleeping with the beautiful girls but wasn't necessarily happy-- I did a lot of drugs.

[Duexy]

because pittsburgh is shitty

[thesafeword]

If it makes you feel better, love life isn't everything. At 16, I was sleeping with the cheerleading squad and dating beautiful girls left and right but wasn't necessarily happy-- I did a lot of drugs.
/sweet brag

[argg_xo]

boyfriends are overrated.

[Kassie09]

because pittsburgh is shitty
Is not.

[Duexy]

If it makes you feel better, love life isn't everything. At 16, I was sleeping with the cheerleading squad and dating beautiful girls left and right but wasn't necessarily happy-- I did a lot of drugs.

:rolleyes:

[Duexy]

Is not.
i know nothing about pittsburgh but i'm extremely immature so i love doing shitty things like that.

[Kassie09]

i know nothing about pittsburgh but i'm extremely immature so i love doing shitty things like that.

You were actually right, it's quite shitty but I felt like arguing.

[Duexy]

your favorite band sucks

[googirl8907]

I was 2 months shy of my 18th birthday when I got my first kiss. It's really not a big deal.

[JJJ]

that sucks.

[imahoodlum]

It's not as big as a deal as you think it is. It will happen in due time.

[thesafeword]

start giving rusty trombones
You sick fuck.

[killerswells]

.anal.

gets the boys every time



seriously though, dont waste your time, most guys your age are morons anyway....you're better off pleasing yourself with your fathers electric nose hair trimmer...

[walking_by91]

Just wait it out, and eventually you'll find someone you actually care about. There's no point in being one of those girls that has to have a boyfriend every two seconds.

[walking_by91]

.anal.

gets the boys every time



seriously though, dont waste your time, most guys your age are morons anyway....you're better off pleasing yourself with your fathers electric nose hair trimmer...
Hahahhahah oh wow!

[bjm1702]

Just ask out the guy that you like

[fadedmemories]

You're taking this no boyfriend thing too seriously.

[anamericangod]

start giving rusty trombones

lol oh wow

[xica_sp4ever]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?

You're not ugly. Maybe all the guys that live in your city are douches. honestly, waiting is better anyways. You'll realize that one day.

[ReadyForAction]

Guys like girls that put out

in all honesty though just relax and let it come to you, being single is an incredibly underrated experience

[LaDiabla]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?

Youre perfectly normal. Only thing I would worry about are all the people smelling like poo.

On real advice: I've never had a boyfriend for a longer period of time than like 3 weeks. But that's my choice, I choose not to have a boyfriend because of personal issues...
Anyways, just go to the guys you like and ask them out! I mean you have nothing to lose. Just do it.

[bv_princess1]

HaY well guys arnt everything even though it is pretty cool to have one by your side sometimes. I'm pretty sure you will find the right one one day and if not he will find you. Then again you can't be too picky about it because the image is not the only thing that counts. People like personality and whats inside too so looks is not everything. So just be patient and you will see. :-)

[iAMhollyood315]

your young, most high school relationships fail when people move on to college happens 98% of the time. not saying don't get a boyfriend, but enjoy your high school years and don't get too attached and hung up on something serious.

[Mesthead!]

it is perfectly alrgiht to not have had your first kiss by 16 (though it is shocking, since from your profile pic you seem very pretty :-))
it just shows that you are picky, and when it comes to picking a partner, that is a great trait to have :-)
never rush into a relationship with a creep, you WILL regret it...
i am very sure you will get your first kiss soon, but try broadening your horizons... try new things and meet new people, i met my first girlfriend through outside activities
to be honest, i just got my first kiss last november at the age of 15, and it was actualy great knowing it was with someone i really liked...
if you like those guys, flirt with them and ask THEM out if theyre too scared to ask you, that is all i could think of for now, if you need more i would be glad to help :-)



Thanks =D
What type of like flirting do boys like the most?

[Mesthead!]

start giving rusty trombones

Lol, how about no.

[trappedintime]

You have nothing to worry about right now. You're only 16. Try not to worry about boyfriends and just have fun.

[StillTrying1288]

Being single is underrated trust me on that.

[denissuxx]

You have nothing to worry about.

My tip would be, to be more open and friendly with guys you like :)

[dakota0135]

Bless ya...
I'm going to agree with "good things come to those who wait"
the right guy will come along.
Just hope he's not made up by your best friend...

[npmshah]

Thanks =D
What type of like flirting do boys like the most?
type? well, i just like it when a girl comes up to me and says hi and then we just start talking
that usually works best as i tend to get VERY shy around pretty girls in person... but as long as theyre not literally throwing themselves on top of me and trying to be the biggest slut possible i am fine with any type of fliritng... i usually like to get to know the person before i kiss em.... lol
but the most important thing: DO NOT THROW YOURSELF ON TOP OF THEM!!!

[npmshah]

Bless ya...
I'm going to agree with "good things come to those who wait"
the right guy will come along.
Just hope he's not made up by your best friend...
your avy and profile pic=WIN

[TotalCollapse]

Don't worry about it. It's better being single than in a relationship with a guy who you barely like. Just wait and someone will come along. Don't get into a relationship with someone just for the sake of having a boyfriend and getting your first kiss. I've rejected plenty of guys because I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who is just so-so. When you find someone that you really truly like, get to know him and ask him out if he is too shy to make the first move. Plenty of people who are 16 have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't worry about it, you will find someone eventually. You're still young.

[samsara]

Just wait it out, if that dosent work then take the initiative and ask a guy out.

I bet those nasty girls dont sit there and wait for the guys to ask them out. They risk being hurt and letdown.

[cheezwhiz]

Jeez i wish this were my biggest problem in life.....

Haha same here. I miss being 16, feels like ages ago too.

[justletgo]

I can actually relate to you. The longest relationship I've ever had was like a week, and this was in like 8th grade. But it really doesn't bother me. I've had girls that liked me before, but I had pretty much the same problem you said you had. I am way too picky when it comes to girls. We're still in high school and the only relationship I can see myself having is a serious one. So, you might have the same problem as me. You just want to wait it out until you find someone that really connects with you, and I'm sure everything will be fine!!!

I'm actually being nice today, I'm not used to this haha.

[takemyhand]

I wasn't kissed/ had a bf until I was 16, I got my first kiss on the first day of summer when I was sixteen. haha.
I was all pissed off about never being kissed, like you are.

But, I think I wouldn't have minded waiting a little longer for a first kiss that was worth it.

But I guess after I dating that guy other guys claimed that they 'realized' I was datable ?

haha idk dude, guys are stupid..
don't sweat not kissing one haha, 16 is younggggggg !

[dakota0135]

your avy and profile pic=WIN

Thankyou :)

[DanixDisaster]

I think it's better to wait a while and find one guy you truly love than date a different guy every week.
Until then, just talk to some guys, be friends with 'em.
You'll end up with someone great one day.
^_^

[JaMi'SaVaMpIrE]

I didnt get my first kiss til like...3 and a half months ago i believe, and it was from my current boyfriend Corey. Weve bin together for almost 5 months now and i must say that this is my longest lasting relationship because Im so picky and I dont say yes to every guy thats asked me out. Truth is, I actually asked him out because he was so shy and because i had a wicked crush on him for a year before i finally had had enough of waiting for him to ask me. Sometimes the girl has got to take the initiative. Best thing Ive ever done! I couldnt be happier with any other guy except for him. :redlove:

My other relationships lasted 2 days, 2 weeks, and with Ryan 6 months but i saw him maybe once a month and rarely if ever talked to him so I'll call it 6 days instead lol. So yeah, its totally worth waiting. :celebrate:

[Hamlet]

Bless ya...
I'm going to agree with "good things come to those who wait"
the right guy will come along.
Just hope he's not made up by your best friend...

Um, no. Grey hair comes to those who wait.

If you want to find the guy of your dreams, you'd better start looking. Yes, unexpected things happen, maybe you'll spill coffee over some random guy who ends up asking you out, or maybe your best friend who you've had a crush on forever finally admits that he's in love with you and everyone lives happily ever after...

...actually, no. This isn't the movies. Nothing special will happen if you don't put your heart out there. It's a risk, but sometimes it pays off.

If you like someone enough that you want them to be your boyfriend, then take the risk.

[Tyler Revolution]

3/10

A little generous.

[sapphire29]

Okay. Being 22, I'm going to go ahead and say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with hanging out and actually enjoying life a little bit when you're 16 or 17. I know tons of people freakin' stake their lives on their boyfriend or girlfriend at that age, but it really isn't the end of the world to live life and not worry about it. Don't get me wrong, I understand wanting to be wanted- it's the best feeling in the world. But guys are clumsy with relationships when they are in high school- they are stupid, inexperienced, and not good at it. Wait til you get to college and beyond and find the real men who know what they are doing and have the self confidence to pull off actually being in a relationship. The ones that are actually worth dating are worth waiting for.

[kelevra]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?
stop fishing.

[hockeycoshow1]

stop fishing.
I read this as stop fisting.

[MADSTA]

I had my first boyfriend and kiss at 17, chill out.
I was 2 months shy of my 18th birthday when I got my first kiss. It's really not a big deal.
Aww, I love your avatar.

[googirl8907]

I had my first boyfriend and kiss at 17, chill out.

Aww, I love your avatar.
Thank you! I just found it.

[wewascontenders]

come to philly, i'll deal with your problem. ;-)

[fulltiltxb00gie]

come to philly, i'll deal with your problem. ;-)
..dave?

[CTMarshall]

just make yourself smell like "poo". seems to work fairly well in your town's dating scene.

[thespearkid]

What do you have against people who smell like poo?

[wewascontenders]

..dave?

joking....i don't like racoons.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

joking....i don't like racoons.
you sure? i hear they're pretty frisky.

[Kgod]

Okay, well, I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and never had a boyfriend. I haven't even had one of those little kid boyfriends. I've never been kissed.

Everyone I know has had one/has one. Even the nasty girl who weighs 300 pounds, smells like poop, and her teeth are rotting, wtf. She's not even nice, she's a bitch too. Well... I'm not ugly or gross, I take care of myself, and I am an extremely nice person. I'm confused. Maybe it's cause all the people I know are dumbasses?

I've been asked out before. The guys were creeps; they literally stalked me and smelled like poo.

Then, there's the guys I like and I have no idea what to do...

Help?!!?
.

Edit: don't worry, be yourself.

[Kevtron650]

If it makes you feel better, love life isn't everything. At 16, I was sleeping with the beautiful girls but wasn't necessarily happy-- I did a lot of drugs.

i did this too except the beautiful girls.

[Fedaykin]

Jeez i wish this were my biggest problem in life.....

Oh my fucking god i know right

A lot of people in your town smell like poo

poo is a much funnier word than shit

it is perfectly alrgiht to not have had your first kiss by 16 (though it is shocking, since from your profile pic you seem very pretty :-))
it just shows that you are picky, and when it comes to picking a partner, that is a great trait to have :-)
never rush into a relationship with a creep, you WILL regret it...
i am very sure you will get your first kiss soon, but try broadening your horizons... try new things and meet new people, i met my first girlfriend through outside activities
to be honest, i just got my first kiss last november at the age of 15, and it was actualy great knowing it was with someone i really liked...
if you like those guys, flirt with them and ask THEM out if theyre too scared to ask you, that is all i could think of for now, if you need more i would be glad to help :-)

whatever you do, take all your relationship advice from this 15 year old boy, he obviously speaks from the wisdom gained through years of experience

your favorite band sucks

this

Guys like girls that put out

in all honesty though just relax and let it come to you, being single is an incredibly underrated experience

LOL yes, let it ALL come
to you

Haha same here. I miss being 16, feels like ages ago too.

I remember almost nothing from my 16th year
Here's what you do: date anybody at your school older than you
they will be a legal adult, and youre a minor
continue to not kiss them
claim they raped you
and now you have a walking atm

[npmshah]

whatever you do, take all your relationship advice from this 15 year old boy, he obviously speaks from the wisdom gained through years of experience


Wow... You are so cool and original

[Everiggs]

Oh my fucking god i know right



poo is a much funnier word than shit



whatever you do, take all your relationship advice from this 15 year old boy, he obviously speaks from the wisdom gained through years of experience



this



LOL yes, let it ALL come
to you



I remember almost nothing from my 16th year
Here's what you do: date anybody at your school older than you
they will be a legal adult, and youre a minor
continue to not kiss them
claim they raped you
and now you have a walking atm


:thumbup:

[PenThrive]

Jeez i wish this were my biggest problem in life.....

Agreed.

A lot of people in your town smell like poo

My very thought.