Guess who got dumped today..

[MLLMillenium]

..did you guess it?? IT WAS ME!!!!!!!!! ...

So yeah.. apparently after 6 months she doesnt know how she feels about me. She just randomly doesn't know if she loves me anymore and needs time apart to figure thigns out. Were on 'A Break'... so yeah lovely day it's been lemme tell ya. We're still going to talk but not see eachother this weekend. Im nto going to call ehr though, she can call me. Ill see her next weekend though and were gunna talk about things.. but basically it's looking to be indefinite.

Fuckin A.

[marbury1414]

..did you guess it?? IT WAS ME!!!!!!!!! ...

So yeah.. apparently after 6 months she doesnt know how she feels about me. She just randomly doesn't know if she loves me anymore and needs time apart to figure thigns out. Were on 'A Break'... so yeah lovely day it's been lemme tell ya. We're still going to talk but not see eachother this weekend. Im nto going to call ehr though, she can call me. Ill see her next weekend though and were gunna talk about things.. but basically it's looking to be indefinite.

Fuckin A.

Well, 2005 is the year of the breakup/indefinite hiatus...

[Darren McLeod]

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes these things happen and couples do end up back together, sometimes they don't work out. Don't worry too much over it - it's only been 6 months and you're still young... things could be worse.

Hopefully things work out the way you want them to.

[splitsecond]

Do you know why she did this? She is whore. Do you know how I can tell she is a whore? She has tits.

[MLLMillenium]

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes these things happen and couples do end up back together, sometimes they don't work out. Don't worry too much over it - it's only been 6 months and you're still young... things could be worse.

Hopefully things work out the way you want them to.

True, but the crappy thing is she was my best friend here.. so I'm hoping we can at least get back to that if we dont get back together.

[SonEric84]

Ugh I hate that shit...this just happened to my sister after almost 2 years. Hope it works out better for you than it did for her.

[splitsecond]

True, but the crappy thing is she was my best friend here.. so I'm hoping we can at least get back to that if we dont get back together.

You dont want that. Trust me. Its fucking imposssible to go back to friendship, especially if you were super close with her when you were dating. I have been trying that with my ex for about a year now (broke up over timing/distance), and every time we see each other, she flips out, obviously because she still wants it.

[MLLMillenium]

You dont want that. Trust me. Its fucking imposssible to go back to friendship, especially if you were super close with her when you were dating. I have been trying that with my ex for about a year now (broke up over timing/distance), and every time we see each other, she flips out, obviously because she still wants it.

Idk, were tkaing time apart, and I figure if we don't get back together. I wanna try and slwoly ease back into our friendship. I know shed have no trouble with it. It's just a matter of me getting over her.

[splitsecond]

The other option is to wait, get back to breing friendly, then get drunk with her and let things go where they obviously will. Many a relationship has been saved with that tactic. (And I am actually serious on this one).

[MLLMillenium]

The other option is to wait, get back to breing friendly, then get drunk with her and let things go where they obviously will. Many a relationship has been saved with that tactic. (And I am actually serious on this one).

She doesn't drink. I don't either.. not really anyways.. but Im planning on getting really fucked up tonight.

[noodledancer]

Well, 2005 is the year of the breakup/indefinite hiatus...
haha... clever.
it sure seems to be though. my friend did the same thing to her boy after almost 3 years & it didn't end well. i feel so bad for him.

[TryThisAgain]

..did you guess it?? IT WAS ME!!!!!!!!! ...

So yeah.. apparently after 6 months she doesnt know how she feels about me. She just randomly doesn't know if she loves me anymore and needs time apart to figure thigns out. Were on 'A Break'... so yeah lovely day it's been lemme tell ya. We're still going to talk but not see eachother this weekend. Im nto going to call ehr though, she can call me. Ill see her next weekend though and were gunna talk about things.. but basically it's looking to be indefinite.

Fuckin A.

Hey, could've been worse man. As much as it might suck to think about it this way now, at least it was only 6 months. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would've been. About 2 weeks ago, I was around here asking for help on how to get over my ex, who I had been with for 2 1/2 years. I'll tell you what everyone else told me. Go out, have fun, keep yourself distracted, and get your life back together. Eventually you'll get back on track.

[MLLMillenium]

Hey, could've been worse man. As much as it might suck to think about it this way now, at least it was only 6 months. The longer the relationship went on, the harder it would've been. About 2 weeks ago, I was around here asking for help on how to get over my ex, who I had been with for 2 1/2 years. I'll tell you what everyone else told me. Go out, have fun, keep yourself distracted, and get your life back together. Eventually you'll get back on track.

I know, honestly I love the girl. Like if we get back together GREAT. If not then not. it's up to her to call me and shit now. Shes the one who needs to sort things out not me. I just want to make sure we can save our friendship. Luckily there wasnt a big fight or anything when it all went down. I think it'll be cool after awhile. Till then im keeping myself busy as shit and always going out whenever I can really. I don't want to be sitting around at any point doing nothing because that just won't help.

[FeynmanWannabe]

Good luck handling the situation. The whole best friend aspect about it sucks the worst though. I don't know what I would do without my girlfiend/best friend. You just become so dependent on each other. Don't do something stupid, though. If you don't normally go out & get trashed, don't do it now. If you do, make sure you have someone to stop you from drunk-dialing her.

[MLLMillenium]

Good luck handling the situation. The whole best friend aspect about it sucks the worst though. I don't know what I would do without my girlfiend/best friend. You just become so dependent on each other. Don't do something stupid, though. If you don't normally go out & get trashed, don't do it now. If you do, make sure you have someone to stop you from drunk-dialing her.

haha I took care of that Im just satying over my friends. Ive only drank once before and it was with them plus I don't know her number by ehart.. I know sounds weird but it's always been on speed dial. So I'm leaving my cell at home.

[FeynmanWannabe]

haha I took care of that Im just satying over my friends. Ive only drank once before and it was with them plus I don't know her number by ehart.. I know sounds weird but it's always been on speed dial. So I'm leaving my cell at home.
That makes perfect sense. I don't know my girlfriend's number by heart, either for the same reason.

[roxy]

Well have fun tonight and I hope it all works out in the end. Situations like this suck.

[MLLMillenium]

Yeah, thanks everyone. Idk I think Im taking it better than I thought. Weird thing is I was like real scared before as it was happening but im much better now. Probably ebcuase I have never been dumped before.

[FeynmanWannabe]

Yeah, thanks everyone. Idk I think Im taking it better than I thought. Weird thing is I was like real scared before as it was happening but im much better now. Probably ebcuase I have never been dumped before.
Well, aren't we Mr. Fancy Pants?

[MLLMillenium]

Well, aren't we Mr. Fancy Pants?

lol no. Just never been that unlucky. My first GF we broke up cuz I moved and a Long distance relationship at the age of 15 and 14 doesnt work. This would be my 2nd real girlfriend now. Well Ex. So yeah I didint date for like 2.5 years.

[FeynmanWannabe]

lol no. Just never been that unlucky. My first GF we broke up cuz I moved and a Long distance relationship at the age of 15 and 14 doesnt work. This would be my 2nd real girlfriend now. Well Ex. So yeah I didint date for like 2.5 years.
I didn't date for like 5 years. Wait, what am I proud of again...?
Yep, first girlfriend at 14. Second at 19. Go me. Funny thing is that the first one lasted longer than the second one. :bigsmile:

[MLLMillenium]

I didn't date for like 5 years. Wait, what am I proud of again...?
Yep, first girlfriend at 14. Second at 19. Go me. Funny thing is that the first one lasted longer than the second one. :bigsmile:

Me too haha. First started at 14 ended 15 this one was 17 to 18 next week.

[Anton Djamoos]

Hopefully you stay on good terms with her and then you two can be friends out of the whole thing. It sucks but don't worry about it...things will get better.

[JHallow]

ok seriously what is a break? i never get that? like does that mean your single or what? my friend got dumped well she said she wanted a break. he was like do i hook up with other girls? do i sit around and wait for her?
thats the hardest thing. but good luck buddy i hope things work out for you.

[lovely864md]

Im very sorry to hear that.

Try and keep busy, I know it sounds stupid but itll help you keep your mind off her.

[splitsecond]

ok seriously what is a break? i never get that? like does that mean your single or what? my friend got dumped well she said she wanted a break. he was like do i hook up with other girls? do i sit around and wait for her?
thats the hardest thing. but good luck buddy i hope things work out for you.

A break is a girl wanting to be a whore cause she is scared of commitment, as are most girls this day in age. Our society is seriously fucked up when girls are more scared to commit than guys. And that has been my experience with peoples breakups 90% of the time.

[roxy]

A break is a girl wanting to be a whore cause she is scared of commitment, as are most girls this day in age. Our society is seriously fucked up when girls are more scared to commit than guys. And that has been my experience with peoples breakups 90% of the time.

it matters the circumstances around the relationship. when you are with someone for so long you sometimes need a break. it sometimes just gets overwhelming. but for only six months i think he said, then yes she just wants to get with other guys and have an excuse. it all depends on the people involved.

[splitsecond]

it matters the circumstances around the relationship. when you are with someone for so long you sometimes need a break. it sometimes just gets overwhelming. but for only six months i think he said, then yes she just wants to get with other guys and have an excuse. it all depends on the people involved.

Breaks are bullshit. Period.

[roxy]

I think they are pointless. its either your relationship is over or its not, no break. but some people are different.

[ianfire]

forget about her and just do your thing

[MLLMillenium]

Im very sorry to hear that.

Try and keep busy, I know it sounds stupid but itll help you keep your mind off her.

I'm trying to.. not much to do Idk what the fuck to do tomorrow. Im trying to find people to drink/smoke with. I really just wanna get fucked up and forget it all cuz I just don't care anymore. I have that weird urge to just fight somone also idk y. I just do.

[Just Decent]

watch "Swingers" asap... trust me.. and do as they say, you'll see...

[Slurps]

That sucks, sorry to hear that.

[Shoes]

Do you know why she did this? She is whore. Do you know how I can tell she is a whore? She has tits.
Whoa, you're a sexist fool.


But dude I'm really sorry to hear about this, I hope it all works out for you

[MLLMillenium]

forget about her and just do your thing

If it were only that easy.

[CHRISRIPPEDOUT]

dude, my girlfriend broke up with me TWICE for the same reason, she didn't know if it was right for her....i gave her the space she asked for and didn't act like a fuck head and she came back and since then it's been 3 and a half years strong. Just don't be a jackass and show beg her to come back and shit, let her figure it out for herself and don't give her any reasons to stay single. If it's meant to be it will be.

[MLLMillenium]

dude, my girlfriend broke up with me TWICE for the same reason, she didn't know if it was right for her....i gave her the space she asked for and didn't act like a fuck head and she came back and since then it's been 3 and a half years strong. Just don't be a jackass and show beg her to come back and shit, let her figure it out for herself and don't give her any reasons to stay single. If it's meant to be it will be.

I am I'm not goign to call talk to her or anything. She said shes gunan call me sometime this weekend. Plus she promised to see em next week shes gunna talk about things since well both be more calm now. Plus it's my brithday so we wanna have fun regardless try and salvage our friendship also.

So don't worry I'm not going too.. beside this is the 2nd time it's happend the first time was when I asked ehr out it was a long summer but it was worth it hopfully it will go out again.

What did you mean by the highlighted.

[Mercy Medical]

Well, 2005 is the year of the breakup/indefinite hiatus...
Hahahaha

[CoffeeGirl263]

Breaks are bullshit. Period.

Ditto. If a serious relationship requires a real "break" than it should just be over. I had a break for three days with my boyfriend (he initiated it) and couldn't handle trying to figure out where we stood with each other. I just ended up confronting him and telling him that if he wanted me, he had to stay with me and figure it out. So, we were still going out, but gave each other a few weeks of space. It totally worked out.

[MLLMillenium]

This week just keeps getting worseeeee... im so fucking like down right now. I hate this.

[Mercy Medical]

This week just keeps getting worseeeee... im so fucking like down right now. I hate this.
Welcome to my life. I know how it feels to be dumped out of the blue by someone who said they wanted to spend the rest of their life with you, then suddenly says "I'm not sure how I feel anymore." Love is such a fuckin' bitch.

[MLLMillenium]

Welcome to my life. I know how it feels to be dumped out of the blue by someone who said they wanted to spend the rest of their life with you, then suddenly says "I'm not sure how I feel anymore." Love is such a fuckin' bitch.

Yeah, but not just that more shit keeps happening. Then I said some dumb shit but it was cuz I was amd at everything. She found out about it and is pissed at me even though it wasn't directed at her. SO now I have to deal with that also, she fuckin called alst night but we didin't talk about anything really. Also I'm wayy sick on top of it.. I have to see the doctor today becuase I was spitting up blood.

[Mercy Medical]

Yeah, but not just that more shit keeps happening. Then I said some dumb shit but it was cuz I was amd at everything. She found out about it and is pissed at me even though it wasn't directed at her. SO now I have to deal with that also, she fuckin called alst night but we didin't talk about anything really. Also I'm wayy sick on top of it.. I have to see the doctor today becuase I was spitting up blood.
I'm sorry dude, I hope everything gets better for you. I know for the most part what it feels like to be where you are (I'm sure others do too) and it sucks.

[Katie Schmitz]

It's true ... love sucks

[Mercy Medical]

It's true ... love sucks
It's such a great thing when you have it, but when you don't or someone takes it away from you...oh good God...

[MLLMillenium]

It's such a great thing when you have it, but when you don't or someone takes it away from you...oh good God...

Foreal, this is what I get for dating somone who likes simple plan. lol, god i hate this.. :shake:

[Mercy Medical]

Foreal, this is what I get for dating somone who likes simple plan. lol, god i hate this.. :shake:
Hey, there's nothing wrong with liking Simple Plan. What's wrong is how far people take that like for Simple Plan. Haha

[MLLMillenium]

Hey, there's nothing wrong with liking Simple Plan. What's wrong is how far people take that like for Simple Plan. Haha

She likes country.. gah I'm looking for something here... haha I can't even find anything I really dislike to help me with this. Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Wtf am I supposed to do.. what do you do after break ups?

[Mercy Medical]

She likes country.. gah I'm looking for something here... haha I can't even find anything I really dislike to help me with this. Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Wtf am I supposed to do.. what do you do after break ups?
Ummm, well, after my last breakup we weren't really over for a good year or so. It was a constant back and forth on and off thing, but we were never officially "together."

I've been rather depressed, but you just kind of find the other things in your life that make you really happy and focus on those things.

[MLLMillenium]

Ummm, well, after my last breakup we weren't really over for a good year or so. It was a constant back and forth on and off thing, but we were never officially "together."

I've been rather depressed, but you just kind of find the other things in your life that make you really happy and focus on those things.

Ugh Im worried that might happen with us. I hope not. My main problem is right now.. without her the majority of my social life is gone.. so trying to stay busy is hard as hell. Since before we dated we hung out all the time anyways.. lameee... well i gtg to class cya everyone.

[Mercy Medical]

Ugh Im worried that might happen with us. I hope not. My main problem is right now.. without her the majority of my social life is gone.. so trying to stay busy is hard as hell. Since before we dated we hung out all the time anyways.. lameee... well i gtg to class cya everyone.
The whole back and forth thing is only nice because you get to still sort of be with that person, but I guess it's a false sense of security and it really sucks in the end. I suggest not letting it happen. It sucks because my ex was and is still my best friend.

[Goober Snacks]

Ive been there to, hopefully it will work out. But you dont need her.

[troublelovesme]

relationships suck. i gave up after the fifth....

[Gabe Gross]

i just want to let you know that i had a beer in your honor tonight...no joke. and if you want me to slash her tires, i dont charge to ap members