Doesn't falling for a good friend suck?

[Siren Silently]

Share stories. Anal.

[reinvaldez]

No its not, just know first if what you feel is really love for him/her. :)

[Siren Silently]

I meant more or less, being infatuated for a good friend that you already know will result in nothing more but that. And making a move on it would result in the likely end of the friendship.

[NickLopez]

I meant more or less, being infatuated for a good friend that you already know will result in nothing more but that. And making a move on it would result in the likely end of the friendship.
Word.

[I'm DC]

yeah, I've hit the friend wall FAR too many times

[tawtaw]

Friends Zone is the most horrible thing ever.

[Chancetobe]

I meant more or less, being infatuated for a good friend that you already know will result in nothing more but that. And making a move on it would result in the likely end of the friendship.

Word. The thing about liking a friend is you pretty much already know how they feel about you. And are privy to their inner most secrets, which really only makes you like them more, but oftentimes it's about some other girl. But then whenever they are nice to you, you have a little flutter of hope, only to realize a little bit later that it was just because you are their friend. Shitty situation for sure.

[Jake Denning]

My most recent mishap happened like this....and then Emmure became my #1 artist for awhile.

[jco3]

My most recent mishap happened like this....and then Emmure became my #1 artist for awhile.


Haha same thing happened to me, my musical tastes took a fairly drastic change. Although I love Brand New, I began listening to The Devil and God, way, way, way too much. I remember quite vividly crying in to my pillow while listening to the album on repeat. Shit happens, I've moved on, or at least adapted to the concept that this girl will never become anything more...oh shit I feel some Devil and God coming on... I better stop reminiscing,

[Hamlet]

Word. The thing about liking a friend is you pretty much already know how they feel about you. And are privy to their inner most secrets, which really only makes you like them more, but oftentimes it's about some other girl. But then whenever they are nice to you, you have a little flutter of hope, only to realize a little bit later that it was just because you are their friend. Shitty situation for sure.

All true. Happened to me recently, and nothing will ever be the same, I can't be myself around her anymore. I used to tease her and flirt with her all the time before, why even bother now if it's never going to get me anywhere?

And speaking of music to get you through, even though there was no relationship or breakup, Dashboard Confessional is getting a lot of play time.

[Jake Denning]

Haha same thing happened to me, my musical tastes took a fairly drastic change. Although I love Brand New, I began listening to The Devil and God, way, way, way too much. I remember quite vividly crying in to my pillow while listening to the album on repeat. Shit happens, I've moved on, or at least adapted to the concept that this girl will never become anything more...oh shit I feel some Devil and God coming on... I better stop reminiscing,

woah there, nobody said to cry, I didnt puss out that bad :p

[trappedintime]

I fell for my best friend in 10th grade and I bought her a Valentine's Day present. And when she found out I liked her like that she stopped talking to me so much because she felt it was awkward. We weren't that great of friends anymore for awhile and eventually stopped talkin altogether. But we both apologized and I said I didn't want anything to get in the way of our friendship. And she's still my best friend to this day.

[ReadyForAction]

Friend zone and falling for you friend is not the same thing lol
on that note
falling for your friend sucks, especially when they start start talking about boys that they like and fret about, even though you know that you could make them so much happier

[bigblue2015]

My girlfriend of a year and a half right now was my best friend. Couldn't have worked out better. I have to admit though, there was about a 9 month stretch the year before we started going out where I wouldn't listen to anything but Beck's Sea Change. Rough times.

[jco3]

woah there, nobody said to cry, I didnt puss out that bad :p

Sometimes you've just gotta let your pussy hang out, ya know?

[AliceRocks]

I fell for my best friend (who was a guy), but he was and still is obsessed with his girlfriend so I spent 2 years in torture. It's all good now, though.

[mattmatumbo]

it doesn't suck that bad

[pilot_light_out]

I fell for my best friend in 10th grade and I bought her a Valentine's Day present. And when she found out I liked her like that she stopped talking to me so much because she felt it was awkward. We weren't that great of friends anymore for awhile and eventually stopped talkin altogether. But we both apologized and I said I didn't want anything to get in the way of our friendship. And she's still my best friend to this day.

(but you still wish you could bone her)

[onetwentyseven]

I meant more or less, being infatuated for a good friend that you already know will result in nothing more but that. And making a move on it would result in the likely end of the friendship.

this.
but more so the second half, the fear of losing a friend/making things awkward.

[11:11]

Fell in love with my best friend for 3 years. If you knew what she was like, I absolutely guarentee you would have too.

We're past that now, though.

[JJJ]

pussies.

[trappedintime]

(but you still wish you could bone her)

so true. she has the biggest butt i have ever laid eyes on! ;-)

[TheHoldSteady]

This is just now beginning to happen to me.

Well actually it's happened before, but now the more fucked up thing is: I'm basically in love with her. Like never felt this way before kind of love. And we've been best friends for a while. Me and her have also been best friends with this other guy for a while. They had a huge fight, and who was there for her? Me. They make up, blah blah blah, he starts liking her even though he (and basically everyone else we know) knows I love her. Then she starts to like him.

fml.

[TheHoldSteady]

pussies.
Yes, because falling for a girl qualifies a person for being a pussy.

[11:11]

pussies.
Uhh excuse me?

[JJJ]

Yes, because falling for a girl qualifies a person for being a pussy.

Uhh excuse me?

Was referring to the people crying.

[TheHoldSteady]

Uhh excuse me?
Love the avatar, love that album.

[11:11]

Was referring to the people crying.
Oh. Carry on.

[bduke13]

It most certainly does

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Having sex with your friends is never a good idea.

[Everiggs]

Having sex with your friends is never a good idea.

Truth. But it can be hard to resist when you're actually in the moment.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Truth. But it can be hard to resist when you're actually in the moment.


It fucks up your friendship though. I know that first hand now though, and I will NEVER do it again

[sweetforever]

Happened to me back in high school. We've drifted apart over the years, never ended up being as close as we once were. Both of us ended up having feelings for one another and hooked up occasionally. I felt it ruined the friendship. Still friends though, wish we were as close as we used to be.

[Everiggs]

It fucks up your friendship though. I know that first hand now though, and I will NEVER do it again

Oh, I know. I dealt with the same situation a few years back.

[bung]

"Sex . . . to save the friendship?"

-Jerry to Elaine

[yakob89]

This is funny because back in high school We dated like freshman year and then became best friends. Over the years I began to fall for her hard. We would talk every night till 3 in the morning it was the best time of my high school time. But like you all say its terrible to fall for your best friend! Cuz no matter what happens after that it will never be the same! After I expressed my feelings to her my senior year, everything changed we didn't talk as much on the phone, didn't hangout with each other like we used to. Now that we're in college, she joined a sorority which makes it even harder. I never see her and when we do run into each other on campus its as if your talking to someone from high school that you weren't that close with but you say hi to be courteous. It's awful...

[thespearkid]

Ah, the friend zone. So hard to break through but on those rare occasions when it is shattered... so cash.

[Sventhegreat]

It is definitely a bitch. It's just something you got to move on from, as hard as it is.

[AtFullSpeed]

i didn't fall for someone, rather he fell for me, but...

he told me he was 'in love' with me and all this stuff, but i just wasn't interested. he was my best friend and now we don't talk at all. it's sad.

[TotalCollapse]

It can be tough. I liked a friend for over a year, but we're still friends, so it's all good.

[pilot_light_out]

someday i'll get my best friend in bed...

[MyWorldEntire]

what's even worse is when you fall for a friend and she starts going out with one of your best friends.

[bird+bee]

I feel so pitiful for liking my friend for the past four years. Now that I've thought about it, I'm gonna go wallow in shame...

[mattmatumbo]

someday i'll get my best friend in bed...

Wish i could say the same, he's a virgin!

jk btw, about the getting him into bed.

[MarsEatWorld]

what's even worse is when you fall for a friend and she starts going out with one of your best friends.
Ugh. that has happened to me before...fucking SUCKS.

[AlkalineAshes]

You know what tho guys? most friendships eventually end anyways on thier own after a certain period of time. Then you may never have a chance to share a certain connection and make something happen. think about it.I guess this is harder with high schoolers who have to see each other everyday. but whatev

[Dumpweed]

Call me crazy, but I think it's pretty important to at least be pretty good friends with your significant other before dating them. How on Earth do you just randomly date someone you aren't even sure you like/are compatible with? Every relationship I've been in has started with a rather lengthy friendship [although I did almost always have in mind dating them].

Oh and they've all ended. I got dumped last week by gf of almost 2 years. LOL. This post sucked. So I'm gonna spice it up a little.

I think it would be really funny if Dateline did To Catch a Predator sting operations by luring the dudes to Chuck E. Cheese. Then Chuck E. would take his giant mouse head off [crushing kids dreams, realizing he isn't real] and reveal that he's Chris Hansen. But then, he'd put the head back on and proceed to do his usual thing. Just seeing/hearing Chuck E. Cheese say "It says here in the chat log that you said 'I want to dip your little boy ballsack in garlic sauce in the bathroom while animatronic animals have a pizza party outside,'" would be rather hilarious. Then finally the camera crew comes out from behind the band and they start recording the band and the pervert predator gets on stage and it turns into a weird pedo-rap video thing. Yeah. That would be cool.

[billyboatkid]

Who's A-nal?

[Raiden]

So ironic that I should notice a thread like this since I just got done having a conversation about this very thing to my best friend of 3 years. Always had feelings for, but never made a move because I thought she wasn't interested. She gets a b/f then decides the time is right to tell me she's had a huge crush on me since she's known me. I instantly get mad, because I liked her to. Flash forward 2 years to this valentines day her b/f breaks up with her. I decide to fly home to see if anything happens between us and they get back together the day before I get home. Talk about poor timing, but ya it always sucks especially when it isn't just oh I like my best friend. It's "Oh my best friend and hugest crush also liked me, but I never knew until it was to late" M-(

[toreflect]

Why yes, falling for a good friend does suck quite badly.

I met him, we clicked. I talked with him every single day since then without fail one way or another, and I feel awfully lonely when he isn't around. And oh my, it's quite obvious that I like him, anybody with eyes and a functioning brain would be able to determine this. That worries me in a way, for I think he knows that I like him but is just waiting for me to make a move. Will I make that move? I haven't the slightest idea. I would love to throw myself into this relationship, being both his best friend and most important person, but at the same time I would rather just stay close friends with him for fear of losing him forever. It's really just restating what people have said before. Nobody wants to make that move 'cause who knows what shall come from it...

You know what tho guys? most friendships eventually end anyways on thier own after a certain period of time. Then you may never have a chance to share a certain connection and make something happen. think about it.I guess this is harder with high schoolers who have to see each other everyday. but whatev

But it's like you said, this chance is just hanging in front of my face and swinging back and forth. I should take a chance and have something just... Happen, I guess. Haha, it sounds so easy...

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Oh, I know. I dealt with the same situation a few years back.


What happened? Were you guys just friends that had sex or were you friends that always had that sexual tension then you just fucked

[Everiggs]

Friends with tension...Hasn't been the same since.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Exactlyyyy. Such a bad idea

[Bloodsucker II]

Word. The thing about liking a friend is you pretty much already know how they feel about you. And are privy to their inner most secrets, which really only makes you like them more, but oftentimes it's about some other girl. But then whenever they are nice to you, you have a little flutter of hope, only to realize a little bit later that it was just because you are their friend. Shitty situation for sure.

woooooooooooooorrrrrrrrdddddddddd. It sucks.

[Greg]

Word. The thing about liking a friend is you pretty much already know how they feel about you. And are privy to their inner most secrets, which really only makes you like them more, but oftentimes it's about some other girl. But then whenever they are nice to you, you have a little flutter of hope, only to realize a little bit later that it was just because you are their friend. Shitty situation for sure.

THIS

THIS

and

THIS

so much truth here. except for me it's about some other guy for her instead of some other girl.

[samsara]

I hate it, makes things awkward.

[BryterJonah]

This has happened to me four times. Only with each time, one of my own friends would actually end up getting anywhere with the girls. So I'm over doing this sort of thing.

I just had something like this happen. My best friend knew I liked this girl, who was one of our good friends as well. They were friends longer and knew each other way better, but it wasn't like something you'd expect. Then I get a message on Myspace. He has to ask for my blessing before he goes out with her because he knows how I feel about her. He also shares that she liked him back as well and that they'd apparently really fallen for each other recently. So I say I don't care. I really didn't because I was going through a trippy philosophical phase. But yeah, now I'm going to his house now, they're both getting snuggly and smooching and I'm just in disgust. More over how boring friends that are couples are. I had four friends I hung out with, both couples. Couples equal pure boredom to hang out with. They break up weeks later. I'm not estatic, I don't care. That's that, we're still friends.

It's not a big deal. This is the girl I thought I was in actual love with, yet I'm not hurt. I've already asked myself all those "what's so wrong with me" and "why is he/they better than me" questions before. I've been let down by expectations many a time. It's boring. I have a life and a future which ultimately have nothing to gain by relying on the comfort of others. I don't need a specific other. Then again, I've never even been in a relationship. At least I have my Eluvium.

[locklearmj]

I fell for a good friend while I was in a relationship with another girl. We were both in relationships and I didn't wanna be an "asshole" and leave my girlfriend for her or break up her relationship. Her relationship with him ended but before I had the chance she started dating another guy. A few months later I ditched my girlfriend. I'm single and she's still with the guy. Wish I could go back and change things....

[SamKS]

This just happened last night. I've told her how I felt before and nothing came of it so I let it go, then last night I just told her everything and I really don't think our friendship will be the same.

It's like you have feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same way exactly and that only makes you angrier but you shouldn't be mad at her for not having those feelings.

It kind of sucks and I'm going to move on I know and I'm not going to complain but it's rough right now and it happens to the best of us. The worst part is knowing how good of friends you are and if you're such good friends then why couldn't you be together? Then when that person starts getting with another guy that is a total douche it makes you even more angrier.

Moral of my story;
It's not good to hide your feelings, let the person know. Just do your best to not lose a friendship over it, that's even a worse feeling and noone deserves that.

[Ishbalan]

Anal.
What the devil?

It really does. She told me after two months we should just be friends.

[tawtaw]

If a good girl friend says "I just don't think of you in that way" it means you're not hot enough.

From my experience, anyway.

[Laural666]

I fell for my best friend in 10th grade and I bought her a Valentine's Day present. And when she found out I liked her like that she stopped talking to me so much because she felt it was awkward. We weren't that great of friends anymore for awhile and eventually stopped talkin altogether. But we both apologized and I said I didn't want anything to get in the way of our friendship. And she's still my best friend to this day.


Atleast your best friend doesnt want to be "fuck buddies" when your engaged to the love of your life and he still doesn't get it.

[LadyX183749]

Sometimes you don't know that best friend as well as you think you do. Don't do it

[Laural666]

Sometimes you don't know that best friend as well as you think you do. Don't do it

I wouldn't do it anyway, the word "bestfriend" kinda gets in the way of that.

[BryterJonah]

If a good girl friend says "I just don't think of you in that way" it means you're not hot enough.

From my experience, anyway.
It's those big fuckin' eyeballs man.

[trappedintime]

Atleast your best friend doesnt want to be "fuck buddies" when your engaged to the love of your life and he still doesn't get it.

You're engaged?

[tawtaw]

It's those big fuckin' eyeballs man.

Fuck that, man, my stache should be more than enough to woo them shallow bitches.

[Laural666]

You're engaged?
Yes i am[:

[ashmic]

at least it is better than having your best friend want you to fuck him to find out if he is gay.

[tawtaw]

Yes i am[:

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[Laural666]

at least it is better than having your best friend want you to fuck him to find out if he is gay.
Wow. did you do it?

[Niy-v]

yess it does suck falling for a really goo friend, i did and we ended up breaking'up but we
were so close that we stayed friends and now wer just kinda fuck buddies that are in love,
but she wont go out with me, very confusing! if someone can tell me why shes doing this
please tell me "/

[BryterJonah]

She hates your guts.

[Niy-v]

ummm your wrong.
she doesnt.

[TotalCollapse]

Yes i am[:
....wtf?

[BryterJonah]

http://i230.photobucket.com/albums/ee31/revoulution9/1238562645876.png

[ashmic]

Gross!

[trappedintime]

Yes i am[:

You are only 15! What the hell?! Get a grip. Life is more than just being with some fuckin' dude. You still have a lot to learn about life.

[Laural666]

You are only 15! What the hell?! Get a grip. Life is more than just being with some fuckin' dude. You still have a lot to learn about life.
Wow. First of all hes not just some "fucking dude" and your only 18 so maybe you should get a fucking grip asshole, get a life.

[trappedintime]

Wow. First of all hes not just some "fucking dude" and your only 18 so maybe you should get a fucking grip asshole, get a life.

Come by and say hello after you get pregnant okay?

[tawtaw]

How is babby formed?

[oh...rly]

Wow. First of all hes not just some "fucking dude" and your only 18 so maybe you should get a fucking grip asshole, get a life.


So defensive...

[perceptrons]

So defensive...
He was attacking the love of her life man, she had to do what needed to be done. She's 15, she should know.

[dropdead_julia]

It also sucks when some of your good friends likes the person too.

Esp when he has a crush on you, but you can't do anything about it because that's not being a 'good friend'.

[deathinkosovo]

I wish my "good friend" didn't have a boyfriend, especially if she's going to complain about him all the time. They've been dating for years, but she always remarks about how he's fat or something. Shucks.

[kelevra]

no it doesn't, FWB rules!

[kemichels]

NO. Falling for your mom sucks, mnothercuker. im fdrunk

[kemichels]

yeah you fucking noobs. Now watch this fucking seal do work.

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THANKS/

[tawtaw]

yeah you fucking noobs. Now watch this fucking seal do work.

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THANKS/

D'AWWWWWWWW

[Laural666]

Come by and say hello after you get pregnant okay?
Aren't you immature.

[LENS!E.love.]

haha. this just recently happend to me. :/
i hate it.
now its all weird.

[owiseone35]

This happened to me and it sucks. Now we just stopped talking and she pretends like I don't exist, plus everyone in high school loved talking about it so that just made it worse.

[SeeYouSeptember]

I fell for my best friend in 10th grade and I bought her a Valentine's Day present. And when she found out I liked her like that she stopped talking to me so much because she felt it was awkward. We weren't that great of friends anymore for awhile and eventually stopped talkin altogether. But we both apologized and I said I didn't want anything to get in the way of our friendship. And she's still my best friend to this day.

I hate you, I lose so many friends this way and quiet frankly I dont think I have many friends anymore.

[SilenceBrokenTT]

You're thirteen...

[trappedintime]

ONLY thirteen.

[AlkalineAshes]

jesus i cant believe people keep saying "ya this happend to me". yes its very relatable but we need to grow balls and get over it.if you keep bein that guy who the girl talks to the guy she really likes about.. you will never be the one with the girl

[tawtaw]

You're thirteen...

Obviously being 15, I'm kinda against the whole age "discrimination" thing...

But yeah, 13.

[SeeYouSeptember]

Whoopdy do, two fucking years.

[AlexEnglish]

ive had this happen once. me and this person tried having a relationship, but it didnt really work out so well, she ended up dating an old friend of mine.
this girl is now a good friend of mine, but has caused countless problems in relationships after her.
this happen to anybody else?

[BryterJonah]

Even 16 year olds shouldn't bitch about shit like this.

Frankly, I can't sympathize with any of you whinos. Was Einstein all about girls? No. He was about bettering himself and trying to further understand the world and universe he lived in. So if some wah-wahs wanna complain about losing out on love(sex)with some chick they're gonna know for like 3 years, then ramble on. Either understand how trivial your problems are and do something worthwhile, or await an end to you nowhere land.

[Accident]

Whoopdy do, two fucking years.

@ 2:00 should help ya out!!

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[tawtaw]

Even 16 year olds shouldn't bitch about shit like this.

Frankly, I can't sympathize with any of you whinos. Was Einstein all about girls? No. He was about bettering himself and trying to further understand the world and universe he lived in. So if some wah-wahs wanna complain about losing out on love(sex)with some chick they're gonna know for like 3 years, then ramble on. Either understand how trivial your problems are and do something worthwhile, or await an end to you nowhere land.

Textbook adolescence is what it is.

Also, you trying to act superior doesn't really do anything except make you look like a douche.

[BryterJonah]

Also, you trying to act superior doesn't really do anything except make you look like a douche.

I know the price I must pay for being so awesome.

[Sargent Sausage]

yeah im in the sitution to fuckin many times. i dont no how to transition good friend to something more but drunken kiss usually does the trick

[.invisible ink.]

Even 16 year olds shouldn't bitch about shit like this.

Frankly, I can't sympathize with any of you whinos. Was Einstein all about girls? No. He was about bettering himself and trying to further understand the world and universe he lived in. So if some wah-wahs wanna complain about losing out on love(sex)with some chick they're gonna know for like 3 years, then ramble on. Either understand how trivial your problems are and do something worthwhile, or await an end to you nowhere land.

you're slowly becoming one of my favorite posters.

[BryterJonah]

you're slowly becoming one of my favorite posters.
I'm not sure if this is a good thing, but I'll take it.