oral vs intercourse

[SingleDoubt]

so, my girlfriend and i have been together for like 8 months now... we had sex during our second month together and of course, we've had sex since then. but lately, its only been oral sex and im really getting tired of it. i want intercourse really bad. tonight kinda pushed it over the edge because we were alone in my house without the possiblity of anyone coming home and all we did was fool around... i got oral and it was great but i was pissed that i didnt get more. i kept my cool in that situation, but im really in a bad mood cause we're never alone considering i have 3 brothers and sisters.

so im wondering... is it lame that i want more or should i be happy with oral? ive heard from some people that oral is actually considered getting farther than intercourse so i dunno... thats what i like to think nowadays... what do you guys think?

[Katie Schmitz]

you're lucky you're getting any

[Rebs]

you're lucky you're getting any
seriously im lacking in this department.

[TryThisAgain]

you're lucky you're getting any

very true. it's been too long. :(


But...seriously, have you tried making the move man? Or are you just waiting for her to? 'Cause I know, as weird as it is, my ex got very self conscious for no apparent reason a while into our relationship, and pretty much the same thing happened to me until I went for it a little more. Then everything was fine.

[SonEric84]

I can't believe I read that. Oh no! Whatever will you do?! Oral but no intercourse?! You poor thing! haha Seriously though just be happy with what you're getting, there's more to a relationship than that stuff.

[SingleDoubt]

you're lucky you're getting any
well, i know that... maybe i didnt state the problem i have with this properly. the fact is, we've had sex before, it would be a completely different story if this was the first time, but we've done it multiple times and recently it just stopped. that is what's getting me so bummed

[Boring Pop Song]

yeah, there's a lot more in a relationship that comes before that. but when you get to that stuff, no handers are great.

[SingleDoubt]

very true. it's been too long. :(


But...seriously, have you tried making the move man? Or are you just waiting for her to? 'Cause I know, as weird as it is, my ex got very self conscious for no apparent reason a while into our relationship, and pretty much the same thing happened to me until I went for it a little more. Then everything was fine.
damn, dude you're describing my situation perfectly. she's so self-concious about sex and thats the big problem... how did you go about it though, just like "oh, do you wanna do it right now?" or what?

[SonEric84]

well, i know that... maybe i didnt state the problem i have with this properly. the fact is, we've had sex before, it would be a completely different story if this was the first time, but we've done it multiple times and recently it just stopped. that is what's getting me so bummed


Hmm well that is sorta strange...I say talk to her about it, if you guys are mature enough to do the deed you should be able to be mature enough to handle a conversation about it right? lol

[Boring Pop Song]

i agree

[SonEric84]

i agree


With me...?

[TryThisAgain]

damn, dude you're describing my situation perfectly. she's so self-concious about sex and thats the big problem... how did you go about it though, just like "oh, do you wanna do it right now?" or what?

Haha Well...okay, sometimes we'd be messing around or whatever, and I'd just kinda ask "do you want to?" or something like that, and other times, I just went for it...but like...basically, what she needs is a bit more reassurance. She might not think she's attractive enough for you, and she might think she's no good in bed...so...just try to let her know what you think of her a bit more. If any of that made sense. Yeah, there's more to a relationship than this stuff...and this shouldn't by any means be the basis of your relationship...but sometimes you hafta work things out in the bedroom, too, so...everyone bashing you for this should be a bit more realistic.

[Mercy Medical]

I can't believe I read that. Oh no! Whatever will you do?! Oral but no intercourse?! You poor thing! haha Seriously though just be happy with what you're getting, there's more to a relationship than that stuff.
Smart boy. :)

[Boring Pop Song]

yeah. i say just talk about it

[SonEric84]

Smart boy. :)


Why thank you.

[selftitled85]

even though there is a lot more to a relationship to sex, to go from some to none is a bitch. usually there is a reason to it. i think you should ask her about it.

[SingleDoubt]

even though there is a lot more to a relationship to sex, to go from some to none is a bitch. usually there is a reason to it. i think you should ask her about it.
her reason is that she feels too fat... even though she's far from it, she's got her mind set on it

[TryThisAgain]

her reason is that she feels too fat... even though she's far from it, she's got her mind set on it

Yup, it's all good, see my post on the 1st page bro :thumbsup:

[SingleDoubt]

Yup, it's all good, see my post on the 1st page bro :thumbsup:
yeah i saw that... im gonna try doin something like that next time

[Katie Schmitz]

seriously im lacking in this department.
sadly, i am as well. :(

[TryThisAgain]

sadly, i am as well. :(


Hahaha that's 3 of us in one thread that aren't getting any, trying to help someone out that already is

[brodudeman123]

her reason is that she feels too fat... even though she's far from it, she's got her mind set on it


Her reason for not wanting to fuck is that she feels to fat? If she's usually really self-conscious, that could be partially true. Just get her try to feel better about herself, make her feel pretty. But if a girl is in a relationship and she wants to fuck, she will fuck. But that doesn't really mean much. If you want good advice, read what Eric said on the page before this.

[Katie Schmitz]

Hahaha that's 3 of us in one thread that aren't getting any, trying to help someone out that already is
oh please; will someone please help me?

[brodudeman123]

oh please; will someone please help me?


I can see where your user title thing comes from. haha

[SLADE775]

so, my girlfriend and i have been together for like 8 months now... we had sex during our second month together and of course, we've had sex since then. but lately, its only been oral sex and im really getting tired of it. i want intercourse really bad. tonight kinda pushed it over the edge because we were alone in my house without the possiblity of anyone coming home and all we did was fool around... i got oral and it was great but i was pissed that i didnt get more. i kept my cool in that situation, but im really in a bad mood cause we're never alone considering i have 3 brothers and sisters.

so im wondering... is it lame that i want more or should i be happy with oral? ive heard from some people that oral is actually considered getting farther than intercourse so i dunno... thats what i like to think nowadays... what do you guys think?

Something's wrong.

Just know that.

[asianxcore]

Something's wrong.

Just know that.
gtfo

[splitsecond]

when she's not looking, put it in her pooper.

[EnderDove]

you're lucky you're getting any

(see below post)

[EnderDove]

seriously im lacking in this department.

Not too often you girls say that.

[swirlofhues]

dude, what the hell? hook it up with your brothers and sisters with your girl!

[ianfire]

you just need to make the first move, then it will all come together..... really

[ghostyouare]

you just need to make the first move, then it will all come together..... really
that's called rape here in california.

[SonEric84]

Her reason for not wanting to fuck is that she feels to fat? If she's usually really self-conscious, that could be partially true. Just get her try to feel better about herself, make her feel pretty. But if a girl is in a relationship and she wants to fuck, she will fuck. But that doesn't really mean much. If you want good advice, read what Eric said on the page before this.


ha Thanks dude, I try.

[Rebs]

Not too often you girls say that.
I know it, and I'm going crazy

[SC0926]

shes gotta get some more confidence in herself...just try to make her as comfy as possible and hopefully she will eventually be ok with everything.

[Saves The Night]

i find i enjoy oral more anyway...

[i like guitars]

stop being a bitch.

[A picasso blue]

that's called rape here in california.
well fuck you, california.

[lovely864md]

well fuck you, california.

quite literally in this case.

[underthetalking]

There's more to a relationship than sex. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we have yet to have sex and I have no complaints. We do oral and all that, but no sex and I have no problem with it. I'll wait as long as she needs to.

[i like guitars]

There's more to a relationship than sex. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we have yet to have sex and I have no complaints. We do oral and all that, but no sex and I have no problem with it. I'll wait as long as she needs to.

whats all that

[underthetalking]

whats all that

Every base but home.

[YourMusicSucks]

so, my girlfriend and i have been together for like 8 months now... we had sex during our second month together and of course, we've had sex since then. but lately, its only been oral sex and im really getting tired of it. i want intercourse really bad. tonight kinda pushed it over the edge because we were alone in my house without the possiblity of anyone coming home and all we did was fool around... i got oral and it was great but i was pissed that i didnt get more. i kept my cool in that situation, but im really in a bad mood cause we're never alone considering i have 3 brothers and sisters.

so im wondering... is it lame that i want more or should i be happy with oral? ive heard from some people that oral is actually considered getting farther than intercourse so i dunno... thats what i like to think nowadays... what do you guys think?

Seems like most of the people who posted so far lack seriously in the vagina department.

You should definately be feeling deprived. I hate oral, it's like driving half way somewhere then going home. Don't even get me started on handjobs.

I'd say put yourself in situations where it's just you, and take what you deserve. :P

[djUbilla]

well, i know that... maybe i didnt state the problem i have with this properly. the fact is, we've had sex before, it would be a completely different story if this was the first time, but we've done it multiple times and recently it just stopped. that is what's getting me so bummedGood point. You need to talk to her, dude. Ask her what's up. Trust me, you'll be much happier after you've talked it out.

[djUbilla]

even though there is a lot more to a relationship to sex, to go from some to none is a bitch. usually there is a reason to it. i think you should ask her about it.Exactly.

[getupkid53]

I bet you gave it to her so good before, her vag just hurts a bunch. Of course thats a lie, but it might make you feel a little better.

EDIT: Hickpuff - My uncle just got his masters in law from Lincoln. If you were honestly just looking for a hook up with a decent guy (I'm not saying you are), I'm sure he has a whole list of them for ya. Regardless, a good looking lada like you're self shouldn't have any trouble sizzlin' in the mix.

[dayafteryesterday]

I can't believe I read that. Oh no! Whatever will you do?! Oral but no intercourse?! You poor thing! haha Seriously though just be happy with what you're getting, there's more to a relationship than that stuff.


finally a guy that i can agree with. If that guy is in a relationship just for the sex, thats the wrong reason buddy.

[chroma23]

It depends on my mood, sometime i prefer oral over sex. It all depends for me.

[WakingTheMisery]

i want sex.

[open mind]

i like oral then moving on to the real deal

[Bishop]

Tell her to get naked and then proceed.

[Nick Lopez]

Could it be that you're just terrible in bed?

[Lovewaslove]

I feel your pain, But heres what you do. Your girlfriend is obviously a bitch, so that fateful day when She does decide to let u wax it, U hit it up doggystyle and "accidently" put it in her but and keep it there. Then to ice the cake I say u give her the donky punch Which is You punch her in the back of the head so she passes out and tightens up then U can leave scott free... Also Id write Welcome to the wonderfull world of aids on her mirror just to fuck with her..

[mogwaifearsatan]

I feel your pain, But heres what you do. Your girlfriend is obviously a bitch, so that fateful day when She does decide to let u wax it, U hit it up doggystyle and "accidently" put it in her but and keep it there. Then to ice the cake I say u give her the donky punch Which is You punch her in the back of the head so she passes out and tightens up then U can leave scott free... Also Id write Welcome to the wonderfull world of aids on her mirror just to fuck with her..

Best advice yet. :thumbsup:

[Just Decent]

I'm sure nothing will change unless you talk to her... maybe she is feeling insecure and you need to compliment her more... everyone should be having fun, or else, why bother?

[save_me]

i like having sex---dunno whats wrong with her.

[SonEric84]

i like having sex---dunno whats wrong with her.



Shouldn't you wait till you leave the womb?

[mirtizzle]

i can't grasp the fact some girl would rather give head than get laid. what a step back for the women's movement.

[mogwaifearsatan]

In a perfect world, my girl problems would involve deciding wether getting head or having sex with my girlfriend was better. Be happy you are getting any.

[marrost]

Oral is nice foreplay, but if it usually goes on for longer than five minutes, AND you're dating the person, something is very wrong.

[boldt_action]

Shouldn't you wait till you leave the womb?
haha..another thread..another burn

[jaimej]

If you think that something's up, here's an idea, ASK HER. And not like, "Why won't you fuck me anymore bitch?" But do it before you hook up, and ask her if something has happened that makes her uncomfortable to go as far as you had before. If you're nice about it and care then she will most likely be honest with you.

[SonEric84]

haha..another thread..another burn

haha She had it coming to her.

[jaimej]

Seems like most of the people who posted so far lack seriously in the vagina department.
You should definately be feeling deprived. I hate oral, it's like driving half way somewhere then going home. Don't even get me started on handjobs.
I'd say put yourself in situations where it's just you, and take what you deserve. :P
Carmel, huh? How old are you?

[boldt_action]

haha She had it coming to her.
she sure did

[underthetalking]

i like having sex---dunno whats wrong with her.

... and you're from CT

... and you're about a week older than me.


I think I'm in love.

[infamous_alias]

... and you're from CT
... and you're about a week older than me.
I think I'm in love.


Uhh, she's like 13 dude.

[underthetalking]

Uhh, she's like 13 dude.

I was joking buddy.





Not according to the date...

But then again, I shouldn't really base anything on that.

[infamous_alias]

I was joking buddy.
Not according to the date...
But then again, I shouldn't really base anything on that.


http://www.absolutepunk.net/showpost.php?p=2074067&postcount=10

Do yourself a favor...Read the thread and laugh yourself to sleep.

[gillianhsieh]

yeah that was f***ing nasty i dunno about kids having sex.

[missindependant]

you shouldnt be upset about this...and its a good thing that you held in your anger/dissapintment cuz you could have risked the chance of losing your gf. most girls hate it when guys try to rush them into sex all the time..maybe you should talk to her about all this...
-Kayla