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missindependant
11/22/05, 08:06 AM
hi everyone. :) i have a problem..that maybe/hopefully you guys can help me out..
i really like this guy...A LOT...but its against his religion to date anyone whos not his own--which im not..im christian, and hes pentacostal(or something like that) it really sucks cuz i like him so much, as ive already said...any advice?
i dont think im gonna change my religion tho. ive thought about it...but it just doesnt make sence...and it would really change a lot of things if my religion was different..
thanks. :)
-Kayla

infamous_alias
11/22/05, 08:27 AM
Your username is missindependant. I'd say stick to you guns and stay independant.

MLLMillenium
11/22/05, 08:29 AM
Fuck religon. If he won't date u becuase of that, then fuck him.

reallygotta09
11/22/05, 08:29 AM
kelly clarkson??? miss independent???what?

SonEric84
11/22/05, 08:31 AM
Fuck religon. If he won't date u becuase of that, then fuck him.




Seriously, what the gay? That's lame.

getupkid53
11/22/05, 08:40 AM
I'm pretty sure the broad scope of 'christian' covers pentacostlism. What denomination are you? Regardless, it's lame. But I'll tell you this. If his 'religion' is that important to him, you probably won't like what you see when things get further on. Also, this shows that his parents are out of their mind religious freaks (my fiance's parents are the exact same as his), and you will be stepping into a world of crap. Trust me, sometimes just staying away is the answer.

SonEric84
11/22/05, 08:43 AM
I'm pretty sure the broad scope of 'christian' covers pentacostlism. What denomination are you? Regardless, it's lame. But I'll tell you this. If his 'religion' is that important to him, you probably won't like what you see when things get further on. Also, this shows that his parents are out of their mind religious freaks (my fiance's parents are the exact same as his), and you will be stepping into a world of crap. Trust me, sometimes just staying away is the answer.


Good advice, but this girl is 14, I have a feeling she's going to do something dumb no matter what we tell her. (Yeah, last night's thread from that "save me" girl pretty much made me lose what little hope I had left for the next generation. haha)

CHRISRIPPEDOUT
11/22/05, 08:47 AM
the same thing happened to me at your age...and you know what ended up happening?? I told the girl, i'm not gonna date you, out of respect for your parents...years later she grows up and realizes she can do whatever she wants and now is dating a BIG black dude, who is DEFINITELY not Jehovas witness. so, eitherway this dude's gonna realize if he wants to have a none shitty life, he'll stop listening to his crazy parents.

SonEric84
11/22/05, 08:57 AM
the same thing happened to me at your age...and you know what ended up happening?? I told the girl, i'm not gonna date you, out of respect for your parents...years later she grows up and realizes she can do whatever she wants and now is dating a BIG black dude, who is DEFINITELY not Jehovas witness. so, eitherway this dude's gonna realize if he wants to have a none shitty life, he'll stop listening to his crazy parents.



"Guess who's coming to dinner!"

wyverna
11/22/05, 10:23 AM
Good advice, but this girl is 14, I have a feeling she's going to do something dumb no matter what we tell her. (Yeah, last night's thread from that "save me" girl pretty much made me lose what little hope I had left for the next generation. haha)

Hey. I'm 14, and no one on this site has offered to kill me yet. All these retards are giving us a bad name :shake:

boldt_action
11/22/05, 10:32 AM
don't worry about it, your too young anyways

SonEric84
11/22/05, 12:29 PM
Hey. I'm 14, and no one on this site has offered to kill me yet. All these retards are giving us a bad name :shake:


I admit, you do seem smarter than the average 14 year old today.

lovely864md
11/22/05, 01:30 PM
Hey. I'm 14, and no one on this site has offered to kill me yet. All these retards are giving us a bad name :shake:

word. We seem to be a majorly discriminated group on the boards, us 14 year old girls. Cant say Ive had any death threats though.

splitsecond
11/22/05, 02:43 PM
He is in a cult. Dont date him.

save_me
11/22/05, 03:07 PM
tat sucks. im not religious, but if i was, i wouldnt convert because of a girl, or a guy. but whatever. forget him. if he wont date you because of your religion...then fuck im. move on. theres someone out there.

SonEric84
11/22/05, 06:15 PM
tat sucks. im not religious, but if i was, i wouldnt convert because of a girl, or a guy. but whatever. forget him. if he wont date you because of your religion...then fuck him. move on. theres someone out there.


Stop trying to make others conform to your whorish ways.

missindependant
11/23/05, 06:17 AM
thanks for the advice everyone..
whats wrong with being 14? no matter how old or young you are, everyone has problems like this..

missindependant
11/23/05, 07:01 AM
Good advice, but this girl is 14, I have a feeling she's going to do something dumb no matter what we tell her. (Yeah, last night's thread from that "save me" girl pretty much made me lose what little hope I had left for the next generation. haha)

k, fuck you.
you dont kno me, so you really have no right to assume that i would go and do something dumb.

Kid Kilowatt
11/23/05, 07:37 AM
thanks for the advice everyone..
whats wrong with being 14? no matter how old or young you are, everyone has problems like this..
At fourteen, your reasoning skills have barely developed, hence your consideration of changing your theology based on a boy you like.

justinevans
11/23/05, 07:39 AM
Your username is missindependant. I'd say stick to you guns and stay independant.

if i was miss independent, i'd stick with my guns and shoot myself.

Kid Kilowatt
11/23/05, 07:40 AM
k, fuck you.
you dont kno me, so you really have no right to assume that i would go and do something dumb.
14 years old, likes a boy, thinks about changing her religion, and goes to an internet message board for advice about the situation:

It's logical to conclude that you will, in fact, do something moronic.

justinevans
11/23/05, 07:40 AM
tat sucks. im not religious, but if i was, i wouldnt convert because of a girl, or a guy. but whatever. forget him. if he wont date you because of your religion...then fuck im. move on. theres someone out there.

there is a spell check on this site for a reason.

wyverna
11/23/05, 08:25 AM
word. We seem to be a majorly discriminated group on the boards, us 14 year old girls. Cant say Ive had any death threats though.

Agreed. There are some of us who, y'know, can spell, and do have some common sense. People just seem to base opinions on the ones who can't.

ArTkY_
11/23/05, 08:27 AM
If his religion is important to him, then why do you even bother? It may suck that he won't date you because of his religion, but it sucks even more that you expect him to date you.

getupkid53
11/23/05, 08:56 AM
if i was miss independent, i'd stick with my guns and shoot myself.

I laughed quite a bit at this one.

himynameisjohn
11/23/05, 02:09 PM
What a religous queer.

missindependant
11/23/05, 04:38 PM
14 years old, likes a boy, thinks about changing her religion, and goes to an internet message board for advice about the situation:

It's logical to conclude that you will, in fact, do something moronic.

ill remember that next time if i see a post by you needing advice.. ;)

lightcollapse
11/23/05, 04:56 PM
ill remember that next time if i see a post by you needing advice.. ;)

the fact is, you have a kelly clarkson username, used the "stop dissin me yo dun even no me" comeback, and like some religious ***.

note: i'm 14, so my opinion could be irrelevant. but i have a penis, so idk if that unqualifies me for the stereotype.

noodledancer
11/24/05, 12:08 AM
word. We seem to be a majorly discriminated group on the boards, us 14 year old girls. Cant say Ive had any death threats though.
you & wyverna are way cool. lightcollapse aint half bad either.

14 years old, likes a boy, thinks about changing her religion, and goes to an internet message board for advice about the situation:

It's logical to conclude that you will, in fact, do something moronic.
word. if it weren't for save_me i would've thought this was a joke.

ill remember that next time if i see a post by you needing advice.. ;)
the issue isn't seeking advice on a message board, it's the situation you need advice about. i mean, isn't it obvious you shouldn't change your religion to get a date? it'd still be the case if you were 41 instead of 14.

FstFtsVsFences
11/24/05, 12:53 AM
ill remember that next time if i see a post by you needing advice.. ;)
Hahaha I wouldn't hold your breath on that one.

Melissa Johnson
11/24/05, 01:04 AM
Most relationships that junior high/early high school kids have don't really last. (If yours did, I'm not dogging on you but you have to admit the majority don't last more than a few weeks to a few months..)And you're going to change your religion based upon a boy? You'd be a joke if you did that. Change your religious beliefs based on your own personal set of thoughts, not someone else's, and certaintly not hormones.

SonEric84
11/24/05, 06:30 AM
14 years old, likes a boy, thinks about changing her religion, and goes to an internet message board for advice about the situation:

It's logical to conclude that you will, in fact, do something moronic.



hahaha Thanks for the back up.

missindependant
11/24/05, 07:21 AM
the fact is, you have a kelly clarkson username, used the "stop dissin me yo dun even no me" comeback, and like some religious ***.

note: i'm 14, so my opinion could be irrelevant. but i have a penis, so idk if that unqualifies me for the stereotype.

does it matter what my username is? its not even meant to be a kelly clarkson icon..ever heard of someone being independant? and before you bring up the fact that its just so ironic that im calling myself independant, while i started this thread about a guy i really want to date..everyone falls for someone in their life..

missindependant
11/24/05, 07:24 AM
Most relationships that junior high/early high school kids have don't really last. (If yours did, I'm not dogging on you but you have to admit the majority don't last more than a few weeks to a few months..)And you're going to change your religion based upon a boy? You'd be a joke if you did that. Change your religious beliefs based on your own personal set of thoughts, not someone else's, and certaintly not hormones.

yea, thats probably true..
but i never said that i was going to change my religion for him, nor do i expect him to change his...he doesnt even kno i like him. i dont want him to kno, either..im trying to just get over this mess, and move on..

UndertheTELE
11/24/05, 09:53 AM
It's probably just an excuse he gave so he wouldn't have to date a fat chick.

Katie Schmitz
11/24/05, 09:55 AM
religion is a dumb reason to not date anyone .... ummm, unless they are satanic or something. then i'd have to say steer clear of them ;)

Katie Schmitz
11/24/05, 09:55 AM
It's probably just an excuse he gave so he wouldn't have to date a fat chick.
oooooooooooooooooooooooooh

lovely864md
11/24/05, 09:59 AM
Agreed. There are some of us who, y'know, can spell, and do have some common sense. People just seem to base opinions on the ones who can't.

Yeah. It's posts like this that give us a bad name. We should start a 14 Year Olds Who Don't Suck group or something.

you & wyverna are way cool. lightcollapse aint half bad either.


haha thanks.

missindependant
11/24/05, 03:32 PM
wow..most ppl whove posted in my thread were completely useless and so off topic that it alsmost made me laugh..this board sucks..i dont kno why ive even bothered to join.
goodbye all.. :)

IAmCountryMusic
11/24/05, 03:43 PM
bye


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-My Humps -Every Rose Has Its Thorn -One Thing
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duffe
11/24/05, 03:47 PM
religion is a dumb reason to not date anyone .... ummm, unless they are satanic or something. then i'd have to say steer clear of them ;)
Agreed.

apoemtothedead
11/24/05, 05:42 PM
It's probably just his excuse.

lovely864md
11/24/05, 08:37 PM
wow..most ppl whove posted in my thread were completely useless and so off topic that it alsmost made me laugh..this board sucks..i dont kno why ive even bothered to join.
goodbye all.. :)

aww, and its thanksgiving too. Thank you God, for making this useless girl leave the boards.

lightcollapse
11/24/05, 09:43 PM
THESAVEMETHREADHASBEENCLOSED.

i vote for the 14 year olds who don't suck group BTW. whoever wants to make it, i'll join in a heartbeat.

abandnamedjon
11/25/05, 12:50 AM
Dating people of other religions who are really devout can really suck. If you don't know what you're doing then that can only make matters worse. Plus, the fact that he supposedly is not allowed to date you amplifies your problem to such a point in which you really shouldn't bother with the dude anyways.

missindependant
11/25/05, 06:54 AM
nvm. i change my mind..even tho some ppl on here are just fucked in the head, doesnt mean i have to leave. mods can close this thread, tho. :)..

SC0926
11/25/05, 08:00 AM
yea, thats probably true..
but i never said that i was going to change my religion for him, nor do i expect him to change his...he doesnt even kno i like him. i dont want him to kno, either..im trying to just get over this mess, and move on..
hi everyone. i have a problem..that maybe/hopefully you guys can help me out..
i really like this guy...A LOT...but its against his religion to date anyone whos not his own--which im not..im christian, and hes pentacostal(or something like that) it really sucks cuz i like him so much, as ive already said...any advice?
i dont think im gonna change my religion tho. ive thought about it...but it just doesnt make sence...and it would really change a lot of things if my religion was different..
thanks.
-Kayla


you ask for advice correct? people are giving you advice, and just because you dont like what they have to say(and most of the people are correct, your a moron for even thinking about it) deal with it. you asked, and now your getting what comes to you. and im very sorry your staying round here, cuse your just going to get ripped a bigger asshole.

missindependant
11/25/05, 03:19 PM
hi everyone. i have a problem..that maybe/hopefully you guys can help me out..
i really like this guy...A LOT...but its against his religion to date anyone whos not his own--which im not..im christian, and hes pentacostal(or something like that) it really sucks cuz i like him so much, as ive already said...any advice?
i dont think im gonna change my religion tho. ive thought about it...but it just doesnt make sence...and it would really change a lot of things if my religion was different..
thanks.
-Kayla


you ask for advice correct? people are giving you advice, and just because you dont like what they have to say(and most of the people are correct, your a moron for even thinking about it) deal with it. you asked, and now your getting what comes to you. and im very sorry your staying round here, cuse your just going to get ripped a bigger asshole.

oh, so suddenly im an asshole for defending myself?
and thats very untrue. i am dealing with most people's advice..but its assholes like you who get off topic and point out my mistakes, or laugh at my situation.
so fuck you. no loss for me if im hated by a few.

lovely864md
11/25/05, 04:56 PM
oh, so suddenly im an asshole for defending myself?
and thats very untrue. i am dealing with most people's advice..but its assholes like you who get off topic and point out my mistakes, or laugh at my situation.
so fuck you. no loss for me if im hated by a few.

sweety everybody hates you.

justinevans
11/25/05, 07:37 PM
nvm. i change my mind..even tho some ppl on here are just fucked in the head, doesnt mean i have to leave. mods can close this thread, tho. :)..



nooooo you are fucked in the head.

missindependant
11/25/05, 08:19 PM
sweety everybody hates you.

uh..do you kno how to read? or are you just incredibly dumb? since when does "a few" count as everybody?

missindependant
11/25/05, 08:23 PM
nooooo you are fucked in the head.

yea, well at least i can come up with my own comebacks. where as you turn mine around. laaame.

Adeniz19
11/25/05, 08:27 PM
dont ever change your beliefs for any guy. stick to what you believe in and if he can't deal with that then hes not right for you

missindependant
11/25/05, 08:30 PM
dont ever change your beliefs for any guy. stick to what you believe in and if he can't deal with that then hes not right for you

thank you.
ive finally realized that.

lovely864md
11/25/05, 08:56 PM
uh..do you kno how to read? or are you just incredibly dumb? since when does "a few" count as everybody?

Alright, let me put it this way. You've already proven yourself to be very lame. Whether you are or aren't, this post just seems like it. If you're lame on this site then you're going to be bashed over the figurative head with a 2 by 4. My advice to you would be to either leave, prove yourself to be not lame, or get a new username and start fresh. However, with that save me girl on the boards right now, everybody's looking for a reason to hate annoying younger girls. So do what you want.

justinevans
11/26/05, 06:24 AM
yea, well at least i can come up with my own comebacks. where as you turn mine around. laaame.

YOU ARE FROM CANADA, ENOUGH SAID. GO HAVE THE GOVERNMENT FIX YOUR PROBLEM.

justinevans
11/26/05, 06:24 AM
dont ever change your beliefs for any guy. stick to what you believe in and if he can't deal with that then hes not right for you

FUCK YEAH, JESSICA ALBA.

justinevans
11/26/05, 06:25 AM
uh..do you kno how to read? or are you just incredibly dumb? since when does "a few" count as everybody?

i really don't hate you. i just think you're a pathetic use of human skin.

missindependant
11/26/05, 08:56 AM
Alright, let me put it this way. You've already proven yourself to be very lame. Whether you are or aren't, this post just seems like it. If you're lame on this site then you're going to be bashed over the figurative head with a 2 by 4. My advice to you would be to either leave, prove yourself to be not lame, or get a new username and start fresh. However, with that save me girl on the boards right now, everybody's looking for a reason to hate annoying younger girls. So do what you want.

it really doesnt bother me that im hated by some ppl here..
"id rather be hated who i am, then to be loved for who i am not"
i really dont give a shit if ppl find me annoying, or lame..seriously..good for them if they hate me. they really have no reason to, tho, and obviously have no life if their judging someone by a post on a website/their age.

missindependant
11/26/05, 08:57 AM
i really don't hate you. i just think you're a pathetic use of human skin.

oh, ouch.
i dont care what you think. or what anyone else thinks.

missindependant
11/26/05, 09:00 AM
YOU ARE FROM CANADA, ENOUGH SAID. GO HAVE THE GOVERNMENT FIX YOUR PROBLEM.


got a problem with where i live?
its good to be able to walk down the street without having a gun pointed in your face..

missindependant
11/26/05, 09:02 AM
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ben pequeno
11/26/05, 09:21 AM
hi everyone. :) i have a problem..that maybe/hopefully you guys can help me out..
i really like this guy...A LOT...but its against his religion to date anyone whos not his own--which im not..im christian, and hes pentacostal(or something like that) it really sucks cuz i like him so much, as ive already said...any advice?
i dont think im gonna change my religion tho. ive thought about it...but it just doesnt make sence...and it would really change a lot of things if my religion was different..
thanks. :)
-Kayla

seeing as this doesn't make "sence" let me help you out. first, grow up and learn to spell. jesus doesn't like kids who cannot spell.

if all else fails, suck the kid off.

justinevans
11/26/05, 09:39 AM
got a problem with where i live?
its good to be able to walk down the street without having a gun pointed in your face..

let me tell you, the mean streets of tuckerton, new jersey are loaded with crime. a cop fired a gun 2 years ago for the first time in 60 years.

if you have a problem with America...don't listen to our music.

justinevans
11/26/05, 09:39 AM
oh, ouch.
i dont care what you think. or what anyone else thinks.

yes you do or else you would have never made a post.

Spicoli hey bud
11/26/05, 09:39 AM
if you have a problem with America...don't listen to our music.
would that mean we couldn't listen to theirs?
that would be a bad thing

justinevans
11/26/05, 09:40 AM
would that mean we couldn't listen to theirs?
that would be a bad thing

i meant it as she is from canada and they cry about everything.

lovely864md
11/26/05, 09:48 AM
hahahaha.

missindependant
11/26/05, 12:58 PM
seeing as this doesn't make "sence" let me help you out. first, grow up and learn to spell. jesus doesn't like kids who cannot spell.

if all else fails, suck the kid off.

hahaha.
i do kno how to spell, fuck you very much. i just choose to use abbreviations. ever heard of that online? probably not. and if you have a problem with that, then you can go fuck yourself.
and what kind of guy encourages a 14 year old to give head to someone? what are you, some kind of man whore?

missindependant
11/26/05, 01:00 PM
i meant it as she is from canada and they cry about everything.

stereotype much?
i would think crying is better than breaking every law possible.

justinevans
11/26/05, 01:46 PM
stereotype much?
i would think crying is better than breaking every law possible.

there are alot less people living in canada...and it is too fucking cold for people to go out and committ crimes. it is mostly farmland. what do you expect people to do in canada? tip cows?

justinevans
11/26/05, 01:46 PM
stereotype much?
i would think crying is better than breaking every law possible.

talk about fucking stereotyping.

lightcollapse
11/26/05, 02:08 PM
and what kind of guy encourages a 14 year old to give head to someone? what are you, some kind of man whore?

i hear that the sarcasm shop is moving to canada, you should get your detector repaired.

SC0926
11/26/05, 04:46 PM
got a problem with where i live?
its good to be able to walk down the street without having a gun pointed in your face..
your right.....everywhere in America there is someone with a gun pointing it at you as SOON as you walk out of your home.....your a twatbag...you need to get your facts straight, stop bitching about shit..stop contradicting yourself..and grow the fuck up. kthnx..have a lovely day

lightcollapse
11/26/05, 05:05 PM
seriously.

america is fucking huge. do you think that each of the what, 750 million americans have had guns pointed to their face? do you think that in the heart of new york city, every 3rd person is secretly a mass murderer?
a very small group of people get held at gunpoint anywhere, cause most countries have this thing called crime and punishment, and they say if you blow someones face off, you go to jail for a long.fucking.time. you know, i have to give you some credit, nobody can walk down in america without a bulletproof vest because they're worried about the neighborhood bandit randomly attacking them. the entire country is sort of like a remake of get rich or die tryin.

get an IQ and get over yourself.

justinevans
11/27/05, 01:25 AM
seriously.

america is fucking huge. do you think that each of the what, 750 million americans have had guns pointed to their face? do you think that in the heart of new york city, every 3rd person is secretly a mass murderer?
a very small group of people get held at gunpoint anywhere, cause most countries have this thing called crime and punishment, and they say if you blow someones face off, you go to jail for a long.fucking.time. you know, i have to give you some credit, nobody can walk down in america without a bulletproof vest because they're worried about the neighborhood bandit randomly attacking them. the entire country is sort of like a remake of get rich or die tryin.

get an IQ and get over yourself.

only 330 million Americans.

lovely864md
11/27/05, 04:46 AM
seriously.

america is fucking huge. do you think that each of the what, 750 million americans have had guns pointed to their face? do you think that in the heart of new york city, every 3rd person is secretly a mass murderer?
a very small group of people get held at gunpoint anywhere, cause most countries have this thing called crime and punishment, and they say if you blow someones face off, you go to jail for a long.fucking.time. you know, i have to give you some credit, nobody can walk down in america without a bulletproof vest because they're worried about the neighborhood bandit randomly attacking them. the entire country is sort of like a remake of get rich or die tryin.

get an IQ and get over yourself.

I'm 50 cent.

CorporateFish
11/27/05, 10:36 AM
That's his way of saying he likes guys.

doogiehowser
11/27/05, 10:52 AM
that's reDICKulous.

The Affliction
11/27/05, 11:43 AM
that's reDICKulous.
fucking doctors

lightcollapse
11/27/05, 12:07 PM
only 330 million Americans.

i'm counting fat people as 2.

i'm still way off though.