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GotToLoveIt

11/27/05, 06:05 PM

Ok...I got a bit of a problem. My first love and I just broke up a few weeks ago and now I'm going dating another guy. I really like my new boyfriend, but I still have feelings for my first love. What do you think I should do?

The Affliction

11/27/05, 06:28 PM

1) Wow that was quick

2) Stick with the new guy but take it slow
Nothing wrong with taking it slow

Probe your feelings and see where you stand truly on this issue(new bf-man vs. old bf-man)
See how things go
Just wait it out 'n' take it slow
is my advice :D

lackofcolour 13

11/27/05, 07:44 PM

first love. always go with the first love.

splitsecond

11/27/05, 07:52 PM

Fuck his brains out.

apoemtothedead

11/27/05, 08:13 PM

Fuck his brains out.
screw him. Fuck my brains out.

(not you split)

The Affliction

11/27/05, 08:56 PM

screw him. Fuck my brains out.

(not you split)
Screw YOU
fuck MY brains out
(you, split)

apoemtothedead

11/27/05, 09:34 PM

Screw YOU
fuck MY brains out
(you, split)
***.

ianfire

11/28/05, 03:09 AM

remember all the little things you hated
it is your first love but you need to get over it
it is natural to feel this way

Draegon

11/28/05, 04:52 AM

Well the best thing to do is know that life moves on.

I won't say you'll completely get over him, but don't let the past control you.

As said, take it slow with the new dude and see how it goes but don't rush or don't think that he's trying to take your ex's place either.

a speedo model

11/28/05, 07:50 AM

it takes time, but closure comes. you just have to be patient and wait.

MLLMillenium

11/28/05, 08:02 AM

My goodness. I have the same problem, me and my ex broke up like 2 weeks ago. Im going to see this other girl this weekend, but I wasnt sure what to do. Since I know she likes me and i think I have feelings for her, but I still have feelings for my ex. lol crazy.

Katie Schmitz

11/28/05, 08:13 AM

you've just got to move on

brodudeman123

11/28/05, 08:17 AM

Haha just stay with the new boyfriend, first loves are always a pain in the ass to detach from.

preppyak

11/28/05, 08:18 AM

Haha just stay with the new boyfriend, first loves are always a pain in the ass to detach from.

yep

Goober Snacks

11/28/05, 09:30 AM

First loves always win...;)

wyverna

11/28/05, 09:47 AM

It depends why you broke up with your first love.

InochiSagashi

11/28/05, 03:47 PM

I broke up with a bf I'd been with for a year and I thought I still had feelings for him, but now I feel like I just missed memories of him, not necessarily who he is now. (if that made any sense at all) I'd say stick with who you're with now and see how it is.

Melissa Johnson

11/28/05, 06:37 PM

There's gotta be a reason as to why you're not with your ex anymore. Let things go. You could be missing something good while worrying about your ex.

The Affliction

11/28/05, 06:46 PM

There's gotta be a reason as to why you're not with your ex anymore. Let things go. You could be missing something good while worrying about your ex.

Word.
And as to first loves
...
they're learning experiences.

InochiSagashi

11/28/05, 07:09 PM

ah, yeah I totally agree.

CoffeeGirl263

11/28/05, 07:12 PM

Word.
And as to first loves
...
they're learning experiences.

Exactly. If it didn't work... don't go back.

outsouthodj

11/28/05, 10:08 PM

I would try your hand at becoming a lesbian..it might suit you better...plus its hot

preppyak

11/28/05, 10:12 PM

Exactly. If it didn't work... don't go back.
yeah, though I know its tough, its always best to move on. Don't let it linger, because the more you talk to your ex with the chance for it to restart, the more it will hook you in, You will always remember your first ex, but don't let it hamper you.
I would try your hand at becoming a lesbian..it might suit you better...plus its hot
haha, true. Plus, if it fails its always a good party story

CorporateFish

11/30/05, 02:50 PM

You went out and dated someone else right after breaking up with your "first love?"
I'm not real convinced it was your first love..

GotToLoveIt

12/03/05, 03:37 PM

We broke up for two reasons:

1. He didn't always treat me very good, but for some reason I ignored that probably becaus I loved him.

2. I went to his house when his parents weren't home and a neighbor told his parents. So...his parents hate me and don't want us to be together.

Although I'm starting to think the second reason is total bs.
I know it sounds bad that I'm with a new guy after breaking up with my first love, but I have feelings for the new guy and he understands that I just broke up with my first love. I know my first love and I won't be getting back together because he has a new gf...it's just I can't stop thinking about what we had and missing what we had. It's hard but I'm trying my best to work through it.

theESCO

12/03/05, 03:59 PM

I think I hate the personal life forum...

GotToLoveIt

12/03/05, 04:47 PM

I think I hate the personal life forum...

If you hate personal life forum then y are u in it?

theESCO

12/03/05, 04:53 PM

If you hate personal life forum then y are u in it?
stfu newbz0rz :bigsmile:

I always wanted to say that..

GotToLoveIt

12/03/05, 04:55 PM

stfu newbz0rz :bigsmile:

I always wanted to say that..

Congratulations you finally got to say it...wow don't u feel special now

save_me

12/03/05, 05:01 PM

ive gone through the same thing, because the first guy i fell in love with and i are best friends, and i still love him. we broke up last march, like, a week after my birthday. (which sucked) but ive broken up with a few people because im still in love with him. its hard, but stick with the new guy...but if your not ready yet, just take it slow.

GotToLoveIt

12/03/05, 05:07 PM