IF I had a dollar for every time somebody told me this in the past week or so, I'd probably be able to buy two or three CD's. Unfortunately, all I have is a bunch of people giving me the same tired advice that, for whatever reason, I can not physically follow. Yes, I've been through a ton of shit this summer, with a couple different girls, all ending in me being crushed (though on different levels), one of the girls, who must be extremely talented, was able to do it twice. I generally respond to receiving advice like this with some sort of witty or sarcastic remark that probably goes further in showing my insecurities than it does in hiding them.
Don't dwell on the negative, look at the positives. Issue is, the negatives are such monstrosities compared to the minuscule, minor relevance of the positives. I'll actually probably do a T-Chart or something in this blog later laying out the positives and negatives.