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Across the Spenser
|Something I don't get.
|I don't get how or why someone would ignore a text message. Especially if you and that someone planned on doing something later in the day or week. Why the hell would they just give up on something they wanted to do? Why can't they just tell me "Oh yeah, I don't feel like it." or something. I don't get it.|
It's be understandable if I called that person a douche bag, or told them to rot in hell. Anything that was rude, who wouldn't ignore a rude person? But what makes this difficult to understand is that these people are my friends, some of them quite close(or were) and there really isn't a reason for them to ignore a text. What the fuck did I do? Do they just suddenly not like me? Am I annoying? I don't think I'm annoying. Is that annoying even? What the fuck?
What makes it even more un-understandable(is that right? I have no idea.) is when the person ASKS you to hang out or suggests plans be made. So why the fuck are they ignoring your text? Stupid.
If they were at work then I'd understand. If they were at war I'd understand. If they were giving birth to a child I'd understand, but they should still respond later or sometime down the line at least. I would really like some kind of closure on open plans."Hey Spenser, no." or even "Fuck off asshole." Anything would be great.
I'll tell you right now that I rarely ignore a text. I only ignore under these circumstances.
1. A person I don't know/don't feel comfortable talking to.
2. A person who I hate or who just wants to start shit. (Once I got a text asking me what it would be like if someone were to shit in a thong. I ignored it, of course. Though I did have some potential answers)
3. If I'm with the person while they text me.
4. I'm involved in a fight/disagreement with that person.
Falling asleep is probably the only excuse that is good. Along with the person dying or being held hostage. All are cool. I can slide with those.
I just don't get it.
|Tags: text, ignoring, hostage situations