09:40 PM on 11/17/10
November 17, 2010
Jealousy is defined as an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, sadness or disgust. It is not to be confused with envy (Wikipedia 2010).
I find it sad that you have to resort yourself to putting down other people's dreams. Why are you so angry? We all at times in our lives get jealous of something or someone. Sometimes we wish we had something that someone else has or we wish we had the same opportunity that someone else had.
I am trying to understand your emotions here in this situation. Are you afraid of losing something or angry that someone is "moving in on" something that you feel belongs to you (Wikihow 2010).
Why are you jealous that Gabriel the Marine is asking for help from people, in order that they may have the ability to record their album. Everyone knows how hard they have worked to make something of themselves. Why are you discrediting their efforts? Everyone can see how hard they have worked on their tour and what they have endured. Do you feel threatened in anyway? When you begin to understand what makes you jealous, then you can begin to take positive steps to maintain those things, without the cloud of negative emotion that accompanies your jealousy.
I believe you need to raise your sense of self worth and self confidence by acknowledging your own accomplishments, inner qualities and other good things about yourself and never mind what others are doing to achieve their own dreams.
One way to help yourself is try to change your belief system and inner dialogue, by making a journal on a daily basis that provides supportive messages to yourself. In time, your efforts will begin to sink into your subconscious. And as a result, you'll develop new inner strengths, diminish any envious feelings, and feel more joy within your own life. I wish you good luck in your endeavors and your own dreams. The Beatles in their song entitled all you need is love states "Theres nothing you can do that can't be done". Believe in yourself undtheuniverse. "Love is all you need (allspirit.com 2010). "
Allspirit.com (2010). All you need is Love. Retrieved from: http://allspirit.co.uk/allyouneed.html
Wikipedia.com (2010). Jealousy. Retrieved from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jealousy
Wikihow.com. (2010). How to Handle jealousy. Retrieved from: http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Jealousy
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04:10 PM on 09/02/10
hey faggle, just to let you know, you may not like our music, but there's a ton of good music off of LI, non of whom sound anything like stereo skyline.
-hotel of the laughing tree
-the republic of wolves
-all grown up
-life between sleep
-sleep bellum sonno
....and a fuckload more. hopefully you'll come across something you like
have a nice day <333
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