quick backstory: i'm normally a pretty nice guy. i'm not a prick to people, i have been shit on by girls in the past, so in the few times i've had the control in a relationship, i remember that, and try to be cool to her...here's the thing though...the bar that me and all my friends go to, i hooked up with a bartender there. i know i know, don't shit where you eat. but i did, and know i live with the repercussions every weekend. every time i see her, i do my best to be nice and not be rude, but once i have a few too many drinks in me, i end up hooking up with her. and i know someone will say, "oh well you probably like her, the truth comes out when you're drunk." no, in my case, i get more desperate when i'm drunk, and will shove my tongue down any girls mouth. not once have i not regretted it the next morning. tomorrow night, i'm gonna be out, and i'm going to get hammered, that is a fact. she will be there. how do i avoid hooking up with her? it's one thing to say it to myself now, completely sober. that's easy. the hard part is saying no when i am three sheets to the wind. much help appreciated.