[lauren1234]

My best friend cheats on her bf all the time and I will never tell her just how horrible it makes me see her.she knows it's wrong yet still does it. Guess some people just need all that attention.

[White]

Originally Posted by lauren1234

My best friend cheats on her bf all the time and I will never tell her just how horrible it makes me see her.she knows it's wrong yet still does it. Guess some people just need all that attention.

Rat her out.

[Alison1488]

Originally Posted by White

Rat her out.

Seriously. One of my ex best friends cheated on her incredible boyfriend. It stayed pretty hush hush until the guy she messed around with let it slip to me. I never could look at her the same way again. Apparently she confessed to it. She's now engaged to the boyfriend. I still don't think she deserves him after what she did.

[abbysmith]

Originally Posted by SimplyPaige

I've done worse, and I didn't initiate it so i don't feel bad.

You should feel bad :)

[lauren1234]

Originally Posted by White

Rat her out.

Eh, well they're on a break at the moment. Partly because of the cheating.. (he found out a few times) It's just a messy situation with her.

[Rickaly]

I just found out my gf cheated on me when she was drunk off her ass. Me and this girl even lost our virginity to each other. She says she can't remember anything at all and claims she was passed out so I really don't know what the hell to do. This is my first serious relationship too.

[t00latef0rr0ses]

once a cheater, always a cheater. No matter how many "I'm so sorrys" they throw your way.

[surette]

Originally Posted by t00latef0rr0ses

once a cheater, always a cheater. No matter how many "I'm so sorrys" they throw your way.

I've always thought this was a kind of bad way to view the world. Not just about cheating, but people in general. I believe everyone is capable of change.

[t00latef0rr0ses]

Originally Posted by surette

I've always thought this was a kind of bad way to view the world. Not just about cheating, but people in general. I believe everyone is capable of change.

I mean it in more of a 'cheated on you and you can never take that away from your relationship' kind of way. I believe people can change too, but if you forgive someone who cheats on you, it often remains a scar on what you guys are.

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[surette]

Originally Posted by t00latef0rr0ses

I mean it in more of a 'cheated on you and you can never take that away from your relationship' kind of way. I believe people can change too, but if you forgive someone who cheats on you, it often remains a scar on what you guys are.

I can understand that.

Originally Posted by Rickaly

I just found out my gf cheated on me when she was drunk off her ass. Me and this girl even lost our virginity to each other. She says she can't remember anything at all and claims she was passed out so I really don't know what the hell to do. This is my first serious relationship too.

Anyway, for what you should do... you need to let her know that this is absolutely not okay. You have to let her know exactly how hurt you are. Being drunk isn't an excuse. If that's the case, then maybe she shouldn't drink as much. While you're telling her how you feel, she should be focused on understanding your perspective rather than making excuses for herself. I know this sucks, but you can work through it as long as you want to. But no one will fault you if you feel like you can't get past it. Everyone reacts differently. Best of luck man.

[AgainstTheCurrent]

I've never been cheated on... never cheated, never would.

I have trust issues as it is though, so if some one I was in love with cheated on me, I seriously don't know if I'd ever be able to fully trust anyone ever again.

[saturday_snow_squall]

Originally Posted by BusterBluth

eh, never cheated but I was in some sort of a relationship with someone and they decided it was over by being with someone else and didn't tell me.

whats the difference?

[BusterBluth]

Originally Posted by saturday_snow_squall

whats the difference?

we we're never officially dating, I was more like an extended rebound.

[saturday_snow_squall]

Originally Posted by BusterBluth

we we're never officially dating, I was more like an extended rebound.

oh word! ive been through that, its messed up