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What best describes your encounters with infidelity?
Cheated on someone, been cheated on 24 12.90%
Cheated on someone, never been cheated on 20 10.75%
Never cheated on someone, been cheated on 61 32.80%
Never cheated on someone, never been cheated on 81 43.55%
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06:28 PM on 05/01/12 
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lauren1234
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Dallas, TX
Female - 23 Years Old
My best friend cheats on her bf all the time and I will never tell her just how horrible it makes me see her.she knows it's wrong yet still does it. Guess some people just need all that attention.
08:35 PM on 05/01/12 
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White
Pornography and a bag of drugs.
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My best friend cheats on her bf all the time and I will never tell her just how horrible it makes me see her.she knows it's wrong yet still does it. Guess some people just need all that attention.

Rat her out.
09:27 PM on 05/01/12 
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Alison1488
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Seriously. One of my ex best friends cheated on her incredible boyfriend. It stayed pretty hush hush until the guy she messed around with let it slip to me. I never could look at her the same way again. Apparently she confessed to it. She's now engaged to the boyfriend. I still don't think she deserves him after what she did.
03:29 PM on 05/02/12 
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abbysmith
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Boston, MA
Female - 20 Years Old
I've done worse, and I didn't initiate it so i don't feel bad.
You should feel bad :)
08:56 PM on 05/02/12 
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lauren1234
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Female - 23 Years Old

Eh, well they're on a break at the moment. Partly because of the cheating.. (he found out a few times) It's just a messy situation with her.
09:42 AM on 05/08/12 
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I just found out my gf cheated on me when she was drunk off her ass. Me and this girl even lost our virginity to each other. She says she can't remember anything at all and claims she was passed out so I really don't know what the hell to do. This is my first serious relationship too.
09:48 AM on 05/08/12 
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t00latef0rr0ses
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Central New Jersey
Male - 27 Years Old
once a cheater, always a cheater. No matter how many "I'm so sorrys" they throw your way.
11:12 AM on 05/08/12 
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surette
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Boston, MA
Male - 23 Years Old
once a cheater, always a cheater. No matter how many "I'm so sorrys" they throw your way.
I've always thought this was a kind of bad way to view the world. Not just about cheating, but people in general. I believe everyone is capable of change.
11:40 AM on 05/08/12 
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t00latef0rr0ses
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I've always thought this was a kind of bad way to view the world. Not just about cheating, but people in general. I believe everyone is capable of change.

I mean it in more of a 'cheated on you and you can never take that away from your relationship' kind of way. I believe people can change too, but if you forgive someone who cheats on you, it often remains a scar on what you guys are.
11:53 AM on 05/08/12 
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12:07 PM on 05/08/12 
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surette
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I mean it in more of a 'cheated on you and you can never take that away from your relationship' kind of way. I believe people can change too, but if you forgive someone who cheats on you, it often remains a scar on what you guys are.
I can understand that.

I just found out my gf cheated on me when she was drunk off her ass. Me and this girl even lost our virginity to each other. She says she can't remember anything at all and claims she was passed out so I really don't know what the hell to do. This is my first serious relationship too.
Anyway, for what you should do... you need to let her know that this is absolutely not okay. You have to let her know exactly how hurt you are. Being drunk isn't an excuse. If that's the case, then maybe she shouldn't drink as much. While you're telling her how you feel, she should be focused on understanding your perspective rather than making excuses for herself. I know this sucks, but you can work through it as long as you want to. But no one will fault you if you feel like you can't get past it. Everyone reacts differently. Best of luck man.
04:04 PM on 05/08/12 
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AgainstTheCurrent
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Male - 20 Years Old
I've never been cheated on... never cheated, never would.

I have trust issues as it is though, so if some one I was in love with cheated on me, I seriously don't know if I'd ever be able to fully trust anyone ever again.
06:29 PM on 05/08/12 
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saturday_snow_squall
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Denville, NJ
Male - 21 Years Old
eh, never cheated but I was in some sort of a relationship with someone and they decided it was over by being with someone else and didn't tell me.

whats the difference?
06:32 PM on 05/08/12 
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BusterBluth
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Male - 21 Years Old

we we're never officially dating, I was more like an extended rebound.
06:33 PM on 05/08/12 
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Male - 21 Years Old
we we're never officially dating, I was more like an extended rebound.

oh word! ive been through that, its messed up



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