How about Spurs fans get the fuck over it? Is it Steve's fault that Spurs didn't make CL? Nope, didn't think so. It's nobody's fault but the teams. We had 3rd place within our grasp all season and we fucked it away. Is it Chelsea's fault we didn't make the CL? No. Is it Bayern's fault we didn't make the CL? No.
I wish some of our fans would grow up and admit we weren't good enough for it this year. Look at the teams we lost to or gave up late goals to draw with for fucks sake.
None of it is Peanut's fault, no.
I think the issue is more so the rivalry over anything. Spurs and Chelsea fans both hate each other. The 4th place just so happens to be a coincidental sub-plot.
Also, 4th place usually is good enough to qualify for the CL, so Spurs have been good enough when you think about it.
There's no defence for some of your results towards the end of the season, though. The Norwich result at home was the killer in my opinion.