[JoshKilpatrickL]

Does anyone believe in soul mates or that 'there's that one perfect person' for you out there?

[deadkidsean]

Not in the sense that there is some divine being that created someone explicitly for me and I was created for them. But I do think there are perfect matches, yes. Probably not just one, though.

[FeynmanWannabe]

Originally Posted by deadkidsean

Not in the sense that there is some divine being that created someone explicitly for me and I was created for them. But I do think there are perfect matches, yes. Probably not just one, though.

I thought were were gonna come into this thread and name each other. This is awkward.

[barkjon]

I guess so.

I also believe PL would be a better place for this thread...

[Cody Nelson]

Originally Posted by deadkidsean

Not in the sense that there is some divine being that created someone explicitly for me and I was created for them. But I do think there are perfect matches, yes. Probably not just one, though.

This is the correct answer.

[Passion Man]

It sounds really nice but too good to be true.

[WakingTheMisery]

Only in my dreamz.

[theguy77]

no, i believe in very good matches. but there's always going to be some measure of conflict in a relationship. the question is whether it's something that both of you are capable of adapting to/making compromises with or not.

now if you really know how to argue with each other, so that each perspective is validated and you can both come to a fair solution; if you know how to deal with each other when angry; if you know how to accept all the differences of opinion and you both know when to give in; then its a lot easier to make a relationship work and that's my idea of true chemistry. but i don't think anyone is perfectly matched to the point where neither of you has to change or accept differences that make you uncomfortable.

[Love As Arson]

Oh, shit. Another Baltimore person. Ha.

Anyway, we all die alone. Before that happens, I suppose a soul mate is someone that will turn off your ventilator to hasten your demise. Yeah, that seems about right.

[Qadriyyah]

No.

[tyramail]

it always baffles me that people do think one, real, true soul mate exists.

[daftpunker45]

Yes everyone has that one soul mate IMO, but I differentiate a soul mate from a future spouse. A future spouse is the person you're meant to spend the rest of your life with. If you meet your soul mate, then you're one lucky bastard, but if you marry someone you love, that is what's mean to be.

[Love As Arson]

Originally Posted by daftpunker45

Yes everyone has that one soul mate IMO, but I differentiate a soul mate from a future spouse. A future spouse is the person you're meant to spend the rest of your life with. If you meet your soul mate, then you're one lucky bastard, but if you marry someone you love, that is what's mean to be.

Give it six more years, several relationships and hook-ups, then you'll dismiss such nonsense.

[williek311]

I am one perfect person so yes I believe I am out there.

[Mr. November]

monogamy is boring

so are soulmates