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02:54 PM on 11/03/09 
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Thug_Nasty
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your dad is a pimp.

dont hate the player, hate the game
03:06 PM on 11/03/09 
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kbi the crowing
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Originally Posted by guacadoggieView This Post
Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...

if you don't want to stay quite, tell your dad you know, not his girlfriend.
03:09 PM on 11/03/09 
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crimsonandclovr
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if i were you, i'd talk to my dad. but i'm too chicken to do that, so i'll probably just end up dropping hints that i know something's up. a little guilt trip here and there...
03:12 PM on 11/03/09 
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Waldorf
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your pop is a playa

don't be a playa hata

Originally Posted by Thug_NastyView This Post
your dad is a pimp.

dont hate the player, hate the game

hahaa yea bro
03:13 PM on 11/03/09 
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argg_xo
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Originally Posted by wendjiqnView This Post
He's dating the little sister's friends mom as well as his girlfriend. I think.
oh,that makes more sense!
04:22 PM on 11/03/09 
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ReadyForAction
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Originally Posted by argg_xoView This Post
oh,that makes more sense!
haha that definitely took me a few times to understand
05:36 PM on 11/03/09 
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zion the lion
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Originally Posted by guacadoggieView This Post
Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...

For the love of god, ignore all of these people and tell this chick. Dont think that it isnt your business because it kind of is, he is your dad after all. It would probably fuck up the girlfriend's kids (if they're younger) if you dont tell her now so that she can make a decision for herself.
05:38 PM on 11/03/09 
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zion the lion
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Originally Posted by mybreakingpointView This Post
stay out of it, it's not really your place. cheating sucks, but when it's all said and done, she's just going to be your dad's ex and he's still going to be your dad. you've got to live with your dad the rest of your life, don't make him resent you for whatever reason.

If his dad is a real man at all, he wont resent his child. And he doesnt have to live with him for the rest of his life if he doesnt want to.
07:26 PM on 11/03/09 
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Originally Posted by zion the lionView This Post
If his dad is a real man at all, he wont resent his child. And he doesnt have to live with him for the rest of his life if he doesnt want to.

As someone who can speak from experience, I agree with you 100%.

to the guy with the dilemma: I think you should tell your dad that you know and give him what you feel is the best possible advice. if you like and respect his girlfriend, there's no need to tell her and embarrass her. that would be dropping a bombshell on someone who doesn't deserve it. hopefully she can get out of the situation without being hurt too badly. If your dad refuses to tell her and still wants to play around with both women, then I'd say take the situation into your own hands. just go with your gut feeling.
07:26 PM on 11/03/09 
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chassmariee
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08:24 PM on 11/03/09 
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I would tell my dad I knew and tell him that he should stop. Encourage him as much as possible...but it's not your place to tell her. It's his decision whether or not he wants her to know. I guess if it kept doing it and got really serious and I really liked her, its possile that I might say something.
08:28 PM on 11/03/09 
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Waldorf
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make him choose and take the leftovers for yourself
11:09 PM on 11/03/09 
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zion the lion
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Originally Posted by Aphasia17View This Post
As someone who can speak from experience, I agree with you 100%.

to the guy with the dilemma: I think you should tell your dad that you know and give him what you feel is the best possible advice. if you like and respect his girlfriend, there's no need to tell her and embarrass her. that would be dropping a bombshell on someone who doesn't deserve it. hopefully she can get out of the situation without being hurt too badly. If your dad refuses to tell her and still wants to play around with both women, then I'd say take the situation into your own hands. just go with your gut feeling.

When cheaters are confronted by a third party, they usually do nothing about it, especially if the third party is their own child. He needs to tell this chick so that she can make her own decision...it would be a bigger bombshell for her to find out herself or from the daughter of the other woman.
01:54 AM on 11/04/09 
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Next time you see your dad, just be like "DAWG" and go for the high five.
01:59 AM on 11/04/09 
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