Thanks to everyone so far for there responses! It's nice to see a very mixed and varied responsed to how people deal with that sort of thing,
In the time I've been away from AP I've been busy myself and agree with alot of you, it comes with time, and you just go with how you feel, on top of the band I posted the video of, which have become much more pop-punk recently, we spend most the shows jumping around and looking silly, but it kinda suits and we enjoy.
I also joined a post-hardcore band, and we tend to do more synchronized headbanging and running on the spot etc. we also just go crazy and go with how we feel,
I feel that way I've experience the debate people keep having about yay or neigh to sync'd stagemoves, and I can honestly say, for the most part, it depends on the genre of music ALOT, in the pop-punk band, sync'd stage moves don't really work, unless of course your generally just trying to be silly on stage for a few laughs, but in the post-hardcore band, sync'd stage moves seem to go down a charm! haha
I'll let you know my further experiences soon, but for now, lets keep discussing :)