Yeah, well what sucks more. Your father dying 4 weeks before christmas or your father being arrested on a drug charge for his own stupidity and getting or in 5 years after being arrested 4 weeks before Christmas. Douchebag. I call it like I see it. This is not as noble a cause as it could have been
I'd say it would suck equally for a child who would have nothing to do with their parent dying OR being incarcerated. People can die due to their own stupidity just as easily as they can be arrested for it. There are just as many deaths by obesity as there are drug charges, friend. Stupid people are stupid people, whether it comes down to mortality or the law.
The cause is noble because it's letting those kids know it's not their fault, which it isn't. There are most likely a lot of charitable organizations devoted to helping kids with deceased parents...why can't there be one helping kids with incarcerated parents? You're basically saying these kids should suffer for their parents mistakes and that's what makes YOU the douchebag.