Girl I've been seeing says she likes to be dominated, I asked in what way, and she said that I had to figure it out on my own.
Help me? What should I do? I was kind of thinking of just grabbing her and throwing her against the wall (gently) and get down to business, but that's just one move haha
I know you guys are sex freaks, so I'm sure you'll come up with some good stuff.
Since you said you want a girl's opinion, I'll try to help.
I agree with what other people said, you should start off just being slightly more aggressive and work your way up to see how comfortable she is with it. I'm sure it's hard to know right off the bat how crazy she wants it to be if she's not willing to discuss it.
Maybe try it for the first time after you guys have had a just a relaxing drink or two so you feel less nervous about trying something new. Push her against the wall/down on the bed and tell her exactly what you want to do to her and do it. Be confident and do not hesitate.
Use dirty talk, but refrain from slut/whore/bitch, that may not go over well. I also think you should wait and see how that all goes before you try light choking. Spanking, biting, hair pulling is obviously what she wants when she says she likes to be dominated, but she may not be into going as far as choking, but try it in the heat of the moment one time..most girls I've talked to really enjoy it.
Definitely do not ask her if she wants to switch positions, just move her to the position you want. If you want a blow job, tell her to do it, don't ask her.