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02:39 PM on 03/26/12 
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ellie117
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This thread has made me realize I'm probably one of the only girls that pretty much always makes guys go halfsies.

Nope, me too. I hate when guys pay for me. Okay, not hate it, but I don't like it. Among other things, it just makes me uncomfortable.
02:45 PM on 03/26/12 
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dirty sanchez
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Whoever asked for the date should be the one who pays.
03:03 PM on 03/26/12 
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Yeah, I mean. It's not like I'm going out with these girls. We're just dating to see where it goes, but I really don't feel like I should have to pay everytime we go out.

Even if you were going out with them, it's still unfair for you to have to pay every time. I always offer to split the check, regardless of the point of the relationship.
03:22 PM on 03/26/12 
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phillipjacob
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I always pay for my girl unless it's something she's specifically offering, like when she got us ice cream recently. If you're the one asking the other on a date, I think it's proper you pay.

It all depends on the date nonetheless though and what kind of relationship you have with the person.
03:36 PM on 03/26/12 
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.invisible ink.
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Whoever asked for the date should be the one who pays.

Exactly, unless it's like a blind date or some weird set up like coffee date which isn't really a real date, that's the only time it's acceptable that one person isn't paying for the other. Once a relationship has been established I think it's fair to take turns but a real first date should be paid for by the one asking.
03:46 PM on 03/26/12 
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deFobbed14yrs
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Whoever asked for the date should be the one who pays.

Right on

And I pay a lot in my relationship, esp in the beginning. My bf felt bad that he couldn't pay for me so i let him pay more but i don't expect him too in the beginning.
03:55 PM on 03/26/12 
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dirty sanchez
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It's funny though because I am the one who always pays though :(. But you all are restoring my faith in humanity haha.
03:55 PM on 03/26/12 
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Maiaophilia
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That rules. Not just from the point of view of a broke male either. It shows independence.

Yeah; it's insane how much some of my friends expect guys to spend on them. --
04:02 PM on 03/26/12 
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HoldThatSound
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Whoever asked for the date should be the one who pays.

hahaha agreed
04:10 PM on 03/26/12 
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BusterBluth
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Yeah; it's insane how much some of my friends expect guys to spend on them. --

Word.
04:54 PM on 03/26/12 
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jeffersin
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My girlfriend pretty much pays for everygoddamnthing, but we've been together for over two years. Not having money sucks massive wank.
04:57 PM on 03/26/12 
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SayNothing
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The prequel to the "I can't get a date" thread that is sure to ensue.
04:58 PM on 03/26/12 
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BusterBluth
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yep, i also hardly date
05:02 PM on 03/26/12 
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floormaster925
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i always let them pick whatever they want to eat, so long as it's on the mcdonalds dollar menu
05:31 PM on 03/26/12 
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Alison1488
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I'm prefer to take turns. It's expensive to go to dinner, go to the movies, etc., especially if you're doing it on a weekly basis, if not more. It's too much for one person to handle. My last boyfriend let me pay. My one before that would not allow it. I'm an independent, self-sufficient girl. I'm not dating a person for their money, but for their company.



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