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What best describes your encounters with infidelity?
Cheated on someone, been cheated on 24 12.90%
Cheated on someone, never been cheated on 20 10.75%
Never cheated on someone, been cheated on 61 32.80%
Never cheated on someone, never been cheated on 81 43.55%
Voters: 186. You may not vote on this poll

 
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10:00 AM on 04/26/12 
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xsandwichesx
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Columbus, OH
Male - 26 Years Old
Nah man, you were talking to her but you never know how things are going to end up. I only consider it cheating if you and your gf/bf know that you are in a relationship.
Good to know. Anyways, I broke up with that girl about two months after we started dating. So I guess it didn't matter either way.
10:10 AM on 04/26/12 
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zion the lion
pull over that ass is too fat.
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Female - 22 Years Old
I've been cheated on a lot. It's not a big deal to me anymore, but I wouldn't ever cheat.
10:23 AM on 04/26/12 
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Modern Leper
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Male - 23 Years Old
Cheated with someone. Never on someone or by someone.
10:39 AM on 04/26/12 
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ellie117
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south jersey
Female - 24 Years Old
What do we define 'cheating' as? I didn't have sex with someone else, but I definitely felt emotional, reciprocated attraction to someone while dating someone else.
11:16 AM on 04/26/12 
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Amongster
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Female - 24 Years Old
Was cheated on. That shit's beyond wrong.
11:17 AM on 04/26/12 
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Mr. November
I won't fuck us over.
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Windsor, OH
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ive been cheated on, was the person that someone cheated with, but ive never cheated on anyone.


also the once a cheater, always a cheater thing is stupid, cheating is a breach of trust and ego but it's not unforgivable, and it's certainly not final.
11:27 AM on 04/26/12 
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ellie117
EAGLES, Phillies, Flyers, tacos.
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also the once a cheater, always a cheater thing is stupid, cheating is a breach of trust and ego but it's not unforgivable, and it's certainly not final.

I agree. Like I mentioned earlier, I had a week-long, sex-less fling with another, but the succeeding weeks and the friend/relationships I lost because of my actions, as cliche as this sounds, actually changed who I was. I know I could never, ever do it again. But I know certain situations deserve forgiveness as well.
11:33 AM on 04/26/12 
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jrayrocks9191
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Male - 23 Years Old
My last ex cheated on me and lied about it for a long time and even acted all insulted if I even suggested that I didn't trust her.

Over it now, luckily, but that shit sucked at the time. A lot. Anyone who cheats on their significant other should be ashamed of themselves.

I love it when people do this. Happened to me a few times. Good thing is, it gives you a reason to hate them and never see them again.
11:44 AM on 04/26/12 
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ParkwayTom
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Male - 25 Years Old
Option #1.
11:47 AM on 04/26/12 
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Male - 27 Years Old
You can always tell if a girl is the type of girl to cheat. I won't cheat, and the girls I date won't cheat. But the girls I hook up with would most definitely cheat on whoever they are with. I once watched my ex gf (we dated when we were 13) strip naked and ask for us to watch and join in as she messed with herself...She was engaged...She's now a high school teacher...I expect her to be in jail in the coming years...sick...she was such a good girl.
11:48 AM on 04/26/12 
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HarryPotter
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btw, if a girl cheats on you she: 1) has no respect for you. 2) isn't into you. 3) a slut.
11:50 AM on 04/26/12 
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Mr. November
I won't fuck us over.
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btw, if a girl cheats on you she: 1) has no respect for you. 2) isn't into you. 3) a slut.

or she made a mistake, ya know something that everyone does
12:20 PM on 04/26/12 
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White
Pornography and a bag of drugs.
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or she made a mistake, ya know something that everyone does

I don't see how it being a "mistake" makes it any less deplorable, nor how it decrease the disrespect or blatant disregard (s)he's showing you.
12:25 PM on 04/26/12 
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Mr. November
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I don't see how it being a "mistake" makes it any less deplorable, nor how it decrease the disrespect or blatant disregard (s)he's showing you.

i was just pointing out that (s)he's not a fucking whore for making a mistake, everyone makes mistakes.

i am no way saying its ok to cheat, but it does happen, and you shouldn't say fuck you, you're a slut/whore/worthless just because someone made a mistake.

now if your partner continues to cheat and cause problems in your relationship you should have a very serious conversation with them, just like how you should have a very serious conversation with them if they lie a lot, or are abusive etc.
12:58 PM on 04/26/12 
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i was just pointing out that (s)he's not a fucking whore for making a mistake, everyone makes mistakes.

i am no way saying its ok to cheat, but it does happen, and you shouldn't say fuck you, you're a slut/whore/worthless just because someone made a mistake.

now if your partner continues to cheat and cause problems in your relationship you should have a very serious conversation with them, just like how you should have a very serious conversation with them if they lie a lot, or are abusive etc.
trust me, if my pants come off and my d*ck goes into a girl that isn't my girlfriend, I know damn well what I'm doing. I can blame it on the Shirley Temple that I believed was spiked, but trust me it's not a mistake.

Only excuse is she was raped, and if that's the case, I got some killing to do.

Your last paragraph makes me feel bad for you. You're not really a "manly man" now are you? I don't know you, but if she cheats there is no relationship. If she constantly lies, there is no relationship, and if she's abusive to me then I might as well start wearing tampons.



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