[HarryPotter]

Then that's a sign that it's not a healthy relationship.

My last girlfriend enjoyed spending time with me. I realized that if I were ready for marriage, any of my last 3 girlfriends would make a perfect wife. But they make excellent friends so it's a win win.

[SoundwaveUproar]

been cheated on, will never cheat

[krimson]

I don't see how people can live with themselves after cheating on their partner...I would never

[scott!athedisco]

Cheated when I was younger. Not proud of it, nor will I ever do it again.

[Too Slow]

My ex cheated on me a lot... I cheated on her once... it was like... Aldous Snow trying to explain monogamy.

[Calamara]

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me with my ex-bestfriend. And yeah, both of them are guys.

[ghelms88]

Was cheated on with my girlfriend of almost 2 years. Ended up hooking up with my best friend at the time. Never talked to either of them again.

A girl kissed me once when I was with one of my recent ex's but I told them right away. All was forgiven. I didn't act on the kiss and told the girl that made a move on me that I was taken.

[richter915]

Originally Posted by scott!athedisco

Cheated when I was younger. Not proud of it, nor will I ever do it again.

bingo

[Alison1488]

I see cheating as something a weak person does, and I know I'm not a weak person.

[HelloxAlone]

I've never cheated, and have never been cheated on to my knowledge. I have been the other woman, once.

[popdisaster00]

I was honest.

[zion the lion]

Originally Posted by Alison1488

Is it worse to have suspicions that it happened, but never truly know? I always had suspicions about my ex when he went away to school. I never felt that I could truly trust him.

I personally think it's worse to have suspicions that it happened than to know that it happened. At least when you know it happened you can do something about it and fix the trust later on if you decide to stay with the person.

[Moses Malone]

Haha oh lord, people are so holier than thou about this.

[bung]

I think not only is it naive, but truly dogmatic, for people to say, "Oh, I would never even think twice about being with someone who cheated on me," as if it's some absolute rule. Like that the circumstances of the relationship itself, the circumstances of the cheating, the extent of the partner's remorse after cheating, and the feeling you felt toward your partner before their cheating mean nothing.

[abbysmith]

Originally Posted by SimplyPaige

Never been cheated on to the best of my knowledge, have however, helped someone cheat and that was fun.

What a cunty thing to do