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The other side of this is how reclusive I’ve become as of late. Like I said, I love my time alone. With only one or two close friends. I’m pretty weary of people getting close to me and whether or not it’s a positive or a negative thing, I’m not too concerned right now. What matters is I feel good about it. And as we already discussed, it’s most likely some phase but I’m learning nonetheless. It just seems like most people my age are going through the exact opposite phase. For some reason, I needed to write it out, how I felt about the social ladder, overactive social lives… and my lack of any sort of care in the world about it all.

This is exactly how I've felt for about a year now

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

It's taking them longer than it took blink to put out new music.

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

lmao

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

You win

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

Came to say this

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

Good. Good.

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

+1

You can't rely on the company of other people too much. Which isn't to say that other people suck or whatever, but the quiet hum of an evening alone really replenishes you.

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

/thread

Seriously though, I love her blogs and can't wait to hear new music.

Kind of a misleading title. She didn't mention their recording process at all.

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Nothing compares to a quiet evening alone.

This instantly came to my mind. Awesome.

Anyways, it's kind of weird but i feel the same way, i've never been much of a "going out" person... i enjoy just having time alone, doing one of many projects, thinking, reading, writing, etc. So i made a connection with her there.

Really nice blog, and i really need that 4th album sooner rather than later, but it's better if they take the time and do something great and nothing rushed. After the loss of the Farro's the band is in a critic position regarding the music. But i'm sure they'll pull it out and it will be greater than ever...

tl;dr Nice to know about Hayley! :)

Sooo is she single now?

Originally Posted by Debut_Fin

This is exactly how I've felt for about a year now

Cheeers to that friend! For me it's been that way for around 2-3 years now which was an enormous personal change of pace @ the time, going from partying at least every other day and rarely spending any alone time w/ myself except for when asleep to (within days)literally exiling myself into the beginning stages of the stereotypical "hermit lifestyle". Just as Hayley noted again, however, I eventually accepted it and found a balanced state of contentment, subconsciously knowing that I made that choice to change for a reason. I'm much happier now paced to a slow jog rather than the all out sprint I had been exhausting myself on daily, so it is quite refreshing to see that people with lives as stressful(yet rewarding) as Hayley's can be actually share somewhat similar experiences & emotions.