Ok here's the run down for everyone.
Last week she asked me to put electric in her apartment under my name. Her roommate moved out, and she has shit credit so for her to put it hin her name would mean a 200 dollar deposit. I told her that I didn't feel comfortable putting it in my name because that would mean lying about where I live, I don't live with her. Also she lives about a half hour away and she told me to lie about my employment so it would be realistic to the electric company I live there. I told her no I don't feel comfortable lying and putting my name and credit on the line and would just rather just give her 200. She got pissed because I didn't do what she asked and as a result we haven't spoken since last night. As I said earlier we have fought on and off since last October and I feel like this could be the end. This is not a big deal but we've had so many fights and break ups and I feel like it was wrong for her to get so pissed and weird because I wouldn't do what she asked ugh, "I love her to death but shell be the death of me" as The Maine said lol
She has really no right to ask you to put something in your name when you guys don't live together. I think asking for a favor that large is ONLY acceptable when you live with someone. And even then, that's really putting your financial status on the line for another person. I have completely SHIT credit, and my boyfriend has done two things in his name for my benefit, and in both instances I helped him pay both things back. But they weren't a continual situation, like electricity. Something like that could really fuck you up if she doesn't pay on time. Or if they find out you don't live there, I mean that's your ass on the line. The fact that she got that tight about it is not a good thing, and you guys are only a few months in, I feel like she should be much more understanding. That's straight up selfishness. And selfishness is not something you want in a longterm relationship. Warning flag! Anyways, I'm rambling, if you guys fight as much as you claim, and its not changing, either talk about it and try to resolve these issues, or move on and find a girl that won't give you fucking headaches. In this case, I'm on your side.