i can't speak for all of the details but things like money (unless cash was paid that night of a show) should be deposited the very next day in the bands bank account. Or the money should never leave sight of someone. it should be in a bang bag on someone or if in a hotel brought into the hotel and stored away for safe keeping. I know it sucks this shit happens but even if your pre-cautious, you have to take it to the extreme.
words of wisdom ^^^ sounds like you should be tour managing.
haha, I wish brother, It'd love to quit my day job and live the american dream touring the country playing music or working for bands but its something i wish i would have gotten into at a younger age before a serious relationship and college and all that real life stuff.