I never get why people want band members to be some hero. They are just guys, like everyone else. Has TWY helped a ton of people through their music? Of course, but that doesn't mean you should try to be exactly like them. Being your own person is more valuable than being someone else.
Soupy and all the other guys seem to be completely normal early 20s guys. That's why I like them. Also I've never seen them try anything with some young girl. Props to them for being stand up in a position where they really don't need to be.
Edit: I'll never forget when someone told Jake from Minus the Bear he was his hero, he looked him and goes "I just play guitar man."
It's kind of understandable to look up to the person who wrote the words that pulled you through tough times. Fuck, that was a mouthful.