Your silence does not protect you
I complain in a joking and dramatic way sometimes, but I hope people know I'm not serious, at all. I complain to only really close friends in a serious manner, but it's usually about political things, racism, sexism, etc.
A girl I work with whines all the time and I hate her. She whined that we had to come in early for my boss' last day party (in front of my boss) even though we got paid to come in early and eat cake and bs around, then at the party when she got her first paycheck, whined about how small it was and put her head on the table and wouldn't talk. She whines when she has to be on the register. A couple weeks out of the year we get the opportunity to work full time and make like 5x as many tips in a day as usual, and she whined that she wasn't working enough even though it was over twice as much as we usually work, and she would make as much in two days as we normally make in two weeks. My coworkers said that when she goes out drinking with them, she whines the entire time that she wants to leave. I know that it's dumb of me to whine about her whining, but it's insufferable and I need to get it off my chest.