The whole thing reads like a sad attempt to still plow this girl. Imagine you just received a lengthy letter from someone you didn't know, where they went into great detail about information they thought they'd garnered about you from pictures, where they discuss how they fell in love with an idea that had been crafted of you, where they coyly lament the fact they hadn't gotten to see you naked, and where they then end it by asking you to skype with them.
The worst part is the false equivalency he tries to draw between what she must be going through and what he was going through, in order to form some connection. It was completely insensitive and self-serving. They were not victims of the same crime. He wittingly tried to get close to someone he couldn't so much as verify existed. She unwittingly was being stalked and had her pictures posted all over the internet by someone pretending to be her.