[Passion Man]

make intentions clear from the beginning.

[movingxpictures]

girls can be stuck as friends but have a one-sided desire for something more, too

[deFobbed14yrs]

Originally Posted by Kozzy333

I love my female friends. Some people say that I am captain friend zone but I just see it as having many female friends. Eventually I'll meet and connect with that special girl.

To the above, what if you develop feelings down the line during friendship?

Understandable. That is where it is tricky. My post was for guys who whine that they have always loved a girl from the first day he met her. When its a thing where you've been friends for awhile it takes more tact and actions of "manliness" than of whippinG boy. Don't be her tag along shopping friend, tell her you're taking her out to dinner. When you've been friends you can't do little things like just listening to her or whatever because those have already been apart of your relationship. Throw out real, confident signals and wait for a response back; either of her accepting that there could be more to the current relationship or rejecting that idea and keeping it platonic

[deFobbed14yrs]

Originally Posted by movingxpictures

girls can be stuck as friends but have a one-sided desire for something more, too

This exactly. I've been there and I wanted more so I made my intentiions clear. Is it scary? Duh! But it was worthwhile at the time.

[movingxpictures]

Originally Posted by deFobbed14yrs

This exactly. I've been there and I wanted more so I made my intentiions clear. Is it scary? Duh! But it was worthwhile at the time.

How did it turn out? I've only ever had this happen to me once. It was a friend who I also fell in love with (and I'm not using that word lightly). I got drunk one night, called him to take me home, puked on my shoes, and then told him on the way home that I was "insanely attracted to him." Not my finest moment.

[deFobbed14yrs]

Originally Posted by movingxpictures

How did it turn out? I've only ever had this happen to me once. It was a friend who I also fell in love with (and I'm not using that word lightly). I got drunk one night, called him to take me home, puked on my shoes, and then told him on the way home that I was "insanely attracted to him." Not my finest moment.

at the time, it was fine. of course this was four years ago in high school so it didn't last but it was worth it.
but with my current boyfriend i made the first moves and we're happy as can be over two years later. i used to be really shy all my life, but as i got to college i broke free of those restraints and if i want something, i get it. it's scary and i have crazy anxiety but i suck it up so i can run my life. there are no princes ambling around, if you want one you gotta go get him.

[CavanaughPark]

I am the most naive person in the world when it comes to guys liking me. I end up pushing them away unintentionally and ruining not only my chances at relationships but often ruining our friendships. ugh.

[ecartman(>< )]

Originally Posted by kianacarly

That is the most disturbing thing I've seen all day. Granted, the day only started 2.5 hours ago...

Your post was almost as disturbing

[kianacarly]

Originally Posted by ecartman(>< )

Your post was almost as disturbing

Eric Matthews disagrees, also why quote a two week old post lol

[JoshKilpatrickL]

What wrongs with being just friends though? If anything you can build up from that.

[kbomb001]

Originally Posted by JoshKilpatrickL

What wrongs with being just friends though? If anything you can build up from that.

i love your profile picture

[xCoconutheadx]

Originally Posted by CavanaughPark

I am the most naive person in the world when it comes to guys liking me. I end up pushing them away unintentionally and ruining not only my chances at relationships but often ruining our friendships. ugh.

I can relate to that. And I dont know but it could be that I come off as too 'needy'. I have to admit texting and calling several times a day is too much.

[Djentleman]

if we aren't gonna bone, then what's the point of hanging out/being friends? might as well just have guy friends

sorry im not sorry

:gay:

[Dino Day]

Never have been friend zoned. Not that I ever went after anyone...