Originally Posted by ohhaiiitsbrandi

A month ago I was in a serious car accident with a friend, who a few days later died as a result of his injuries. As you could imagine, his family was devastated, even more so because their other son had taken his life in November. If it weren't for to write love on her arms and the hope that they represent, I don't think I could make it through all of this. Thank you guys for all you do!

Thank you so much for sharing your story. We are so sorry for your loss and the pain you and all those around you must have endured. Thank you for being here tonight, we appreciate your support, and are so glad your story continues.

Originally Posted by juicyjay8

thats soo up to you! I think that you know what happened to you and how you felt about it. The last thing that you probably want is people staring or knowing everything so if you do decide to tell- use ur judgement!

Originally Posted by CBamaRun

i was at the Nashville date, too! it was so much fun. i live in Atlanta, so i'll be there on Saturday - very excited that they got moved to the bigger room at the venue!

Thats so great to hear you went to Nashville. We hope you have an amazing time in Atlanta too!

Originally Posted by graceelle

Which members of twloha are chatting?

Almost all of the interns, and Chris and Alyce.

Originally Posted by ohthatalyssa

Well now you aren't alone. We are all here chatting :D!

Thank you so much for joining us!

Originally Posted by BeutifulTragedy

does twloha give advice on suicidal topics?

Twloha invests directly into many suicide prevention centers and facilities. We have a list of resources on our website under the Find Help section and strongly advocate 1-800-SUICIDE

Originally Posted by ohherroww

I think its really important not to blame yourself. There was no way you could have known what could happen, im sure you did everything in your power, but there is always that what if question. I am very sorry for your loss. and people grieve differently, you are not a coward by any means.

what should you do if someone tells you theyre going to kill themselves. who should you get help from?

Originally Posted by AshleeKayann

Does anyone else have a TWLOHA tattoo? I have the word love on my left arm in cursive with a little heart (:
Or does anyone have a really cool tattoo with a story that you can tell me about? I like stories behind tatts (:

i have "look up, remember the stars" tattooed on my foot :)
i also have a half sleeve that was inspired from Damion Suomi's song "Burn the Pain." The design goes along with the lyrics "we'll go down to the abyss and find the treasure that we missed. We'll find a place where there's joy, and let that joy burn the pain."

Originally Posted by oceanheart

I absolutely love that you guys have this on Valentines Day

Thanks!! We're glad to do this every year and thankful you're joining us.

Originally Posted by nonnasgirl12

i want to get into being a motivational speaker! that's my life goal :)

Really?! Are your nerves made of steel because my stomach gets in knots at the thought of being in front of people haha.

Originally Posted by stvpunchline

Hey guys.

I hope you don't mind I started playing "Heart Transplant" to our team after I saw this.

Originally Posted by shea34

well, you guys will have to tell him i say hi. really. i saw him last year and got to meet him and have him talk to my best friend and he changed my life. i will be interning with you all someday...

You better be interning with us someday!! (Seriously, it's a blast here in Florida)

Originally Posted by oceanheart

It's been a rough day because an old friend committed suicide earlier this week. His services were today, but I couldn't force myself to go. I feel like a major coward, but I don't think I'm ready for that step. No one saw it coming, which hurts more. What if someone had sent him a text that night? Or stopped by?

You're not a coward. There are many, many "what if" scenarios that will run through your mind for a long time. But you are not a coward. You will hurt and it will be hard to face the day and others. But you are not a coward. On behalf of all us here at TWLOHA, we're sorry for your loss and hope the days get easier as you move forward. Feel free to contact us via email at info@twloha.com.

Originally Posted by AshleeKayann

I am! Co-President of TWLOHA Grand Valley State! What UChapter are you with?

vice prez of northern michigan's uchapter (:

Hello Lovelies. What exactly is this?

Originally Posted by nonnasgirl12

what kind of college courses should i take to be a motivational speaker? or is there a training thing i should do?

Communications would be your best bet. Learn to give presentations and speak in front of people. If it's something you like doing just go for it!

Originally Posted by Ceasarae

Hello Lovelies. What exactly is this?

absolutepunk.net!

it's a forum, and this is a thread with a bunch of us chatting to TWLOHA.

Originally Posted by Mikkayyy555

ummm well i have an issue with... well Self harm....

You are not alone. And you are very loved (: I have struggled with self harm in the past.

Originally Posted by Mikkayyy555

ummm well i have an issue with... well Self harm....

We're here for you. I have struggled with it, and I'm sure there are others who have too. I actually found this thing last night that is a list of safe ways to cope. Here's the link: http://www.something-fishy.org/reach/waystocope.php

Originally Posted by Ceasarae

Hello Lovelies. What exactly is this?

a chat. we sit around and talk. you can ask question if you want, or just make new friends.

:'(

Originally Posted by kelly_twloha

Hey Chris! =D

Hello Miss Kelly : )

Originally Posted by smoother

maybe everyoone is having dinner?

I'm eating Bugles and a Reeses Fastbreak. Does that count?

Originally Posted by kelly_twloha

I am! TXState =)

I was in a long distance relationship for a year and I half, I know how hard it is. It makes me really happy to see that you too are making it work :) *hugs*