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01:04 PM on 04/19/13 
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Anyone ever have that happen? I'm pretty sure she had sex with someone else and decided I was no longer any use for her, or that we weren't good for each other in general. But it sucks.

Not sure if I just feel bad over the rejection, or if I sincerely miss her. What do? We had more than just sex. We connected, but I suppose had to let go of that connection because sex complicated things. I don't feel jealous that she hooked up with someone else, just feel shitty because I want to travel back in time a month ago and spend another night with her - uncomplicated and okay.
02:40 PM on 04/19/13 
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Having been on on both sides of this equation, I know it sucks. The only thing worse than someone telling you they don't want to fuck you anymore is having to tell someone else you care about you don't want to fuck them anymore. That being said, it's better to end things too early than too late.
I'm thinking the same. Just feels uncomfortable, with no closure. No phone call, nothing. I texted her, and she responded but seemed like she was blowing me off. Was making sure she was alright. Feelings got mixed up in it (at least from my part). As you said, though, dragging it on could bring up a split that was all too late, and no one wants that. Just enjoyed having a real buddy that I could fuck and go to sleep with.
03:05 PM on 04/19/13 
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That really sucks dude I know how you feel and it feels bad. Pretty lonesome. Hang in there.

Thanks man. I'll be alright. When I experience this kind of thing with someone, I develop a totally monogamous attachment, commitment or not. She probably hooked up with someone else (she said she just might) and I'm not here to tell her how to live her life. It just blows I couldn't be more to her than what it was. Other times I think I want nothing to do with her. But yeah, it happens to all of us, I guess.
09:45 PM on 04/19/13 
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We were friends, and connected on a level further than just sex. However, we also argued often as a result, and there were complications. I have a tough time having things cut off out of no where, and I can`t seem to help but attach emotion when I`m regularly having sex with someone. She usually was the one asking me to come back after I said we should put it to an end. Today I texted her, though, asking if we could talk, and she didn`t respond. So I guess that`s it. Not sure what went down. I just know I shouldn`t push it.
10:54 AM on 04/21/13 
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Thank you all for your feedback. I guess, again, I feel like I need closure, and want to know what went wrong. After that last text I sent a couple days ago, would it be invasive to just send one more and ask? Would it come off as obsessive or overbearing? I do miss her and just want to understand. I don`t get why we can`t even be friends without benefits. I feel as though after what I`ve done for her and how close we were, it isn`t totally out of line to seek an explanation. It`s almost like I was used (not just sexually - which I suppose is the idea - but financially and otherwise). Or should I just leave it as is before I start to push her away permanently and indefinitely. Then again, if she ignored the last text, maybe it`s best to leave it in her hands and not wait up anymore. We were close, and now suddenly estranged out of no where.



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