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Male - 27 Years Old
I just went through the same thing. Except we acknowledged the fact that we were "in a relationship" but that "it was complicated" because we wouldn't call each other boyfriend/girlfriend. According to her she wasn't "ready" for a boyfriend, but that was bullshit..it was just her nice way of saying that she didn't want me as her boyfriend, which I called her out on, and she didn't deny, but whatever.. I felt the same way. I would stay the night at her house everytime I was in town, and towards the end she even bought me a toothbrush, which to her was a big step. But in the back of our minds we knew we weren't very compatible, but that we were using each other for companionship. We cared for each other, and talked to each other everyday. And of course, had some pretty nice sex to go along with it. But I got a new job and quit the one in the town she lived in, so I decided to stop talking to her..it was time to move on and I didn't feel it was worth the effort to make a long distance relationship work between us. So after a week she called and we talked and admitted to each other that it was over. Which is fine, it was inevitable. But then she found a new guy and called him her boyfriend so quick it blindsided me. She asked to still be friends, and I was honest, I don't think it's gonna happen. So that was that, this just happened last week. Fresh wound, but it's ok, I've been through this before. I'll get over it soon enough.