I think you may be reaching with this one, dude.
I mean, I've seen plenty of band members push a kid off stage during shows. 9/10 times that kid crowd surfs his way back up to the front, then jumps back into the crowd himself. It's a thing that happens frequently.
Throwing mic stands (in me experience) is not. Those are heavy and it's pretty obvious you can hurt someone pretty bad by throwing it at them.
Staying civil and all, not trying to be a dick- just saying, you're reaching with this argument. It's not as similar a topic as you're claiming. I think you know that.
However, I've seen bands tell kids to stagedive who are very overweight and should not stage dive or crowd surf. I've seen kids been taken out on stretchers as a result of bands telling people to dive onto the small girls in the front who clearly cannot hold up a man who weighs at least twice what they do.
Ronnie shouldn't have thrown a mic stand, it was stupid. He has admitted that and made up with the kid who was injured. Bands shouldn't shove people off stage onto cement, you can end up killing the kid.
It truly astonishes me how quick this site is to give free passes or a band member they respect, Randy's actions resulted in a death, yet that's permissible. If someone else did the same exact thing, this thread would look a lot different. That's all.