eh, I'd far prefer to have kids (if at all) after having a very long amount of time to enjoy my youth and live life with few obligations. different mindsets I guess.
I had pretty much done a lot of the things I wanted to do by the time I was 21. Also, I've been skateboarding for about 13 years, so I already feel 40 years old most days. There are mornings where I don't know if I'll make it to 10 pm because it takes twice as much energy to walk up the same stairs I walked up yesterday. I have the ankles of a senior citizen, and my shins were looking a little deformed before I started covering them with tattoos earlier this year.
Totally understand where you're coming from though. My wife's best friend doesn't wanna have kids till she's in her mid-30s, but she has unrealistic expectations haha. 35 is way too old for your FIRST child.