i mean all the times i used to talk to him in like early 2008 he was really nice but it seems like he's stopped caring so much about meeting fans and it bothers me
i last talked to him in february, he seems like the same topher to me, who talked to us for a good 10 minutes, and then again for a couple more before we left. everyone has good and bad days. i absolutely hate when people try to judge a band member based on the minute they talk to them. just like when i heard people shit talking TAI for not coming out one night when i knew for a fact it was b/c they had a radio thing really early the next morning, and they were going to sleep.
i just think you are trying to read too much into what was maybe just a bad day, don't generalize "oh, he didn't want to talk to me that one time" into "he was a dick and has changed"